Said to be an ordinary friend, why do you still ask me out What do girls think

Updated on psychology 2024-06-16
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    She may like you, but you don't set the same standards as her, so she thinks she doesn't like you and just wants to be friends with you... A little arrogant or a little inferior. She shouldn't have any friends, so it's normal to ask you out.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe she feels that it has become a habit to face you, and she feels very happy to be with you, every time she emphasizes that ordinary friends, maybe it is just a reminder to herself, maybe she thinks that it is okay for good friends to go out and play, she should cherish the time with you.

    In fact, sometimes it's not good to think too much, so if you look at it with a normal mind, maybe you won't be so confused.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You may not be the most suitable, because she said that she wants to be an ordinary friend, and there is a "so-called" senior boyfriend (which is actually not);

    You're not out of place either, because she also takes the initiative to ask you out (likes to be with you, at least not hate);

    The key depends on how you feel about her and how you see your relationship:

    If you don't like it, just be an ordinary friend, and take the initiative to decline if there are many opportunities for physical close contact (easy to cause misunderstanding).

    If you like her, try to chase her; Develop what is not inappropriate into the most suitable, and you will succeed! Waiting for your good news!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    She should be a black fungus, if it weren't for the kind of love that can't get rid of deep into the bone marrow, it is recommended to cut it off early. You don't want to be a spare tire, do you?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Well, because I've never been in a relationship, that's why I've been emphasizing that this girl wants to be in a relationship with you, and you can be more proactive.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe no one is nice to her yet, and she wants to try what it's like to be with a guy, so she's very nervous about you. The more emphasized, the more she is struggling. If you pursue it strongly, maybe she will agree to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    She may already have a boyfriend, but she shouldn't be in this school, you have a chance to go to Ba, she is in the empty area now, she wants to have a shoulder, you are a substitute, but as long as the hoe swings well, there is no digging and can't be poured. Don't hesitate, it's too late and it's gone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She doesn't want to hurt your self-esteem, in fact, her Prince Charming is not you, it's good to be an ordinary friend, don't force it, maybe there's a chance...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe she's suggesting that you confess to her? If you really like it, chase her, it's better to have a result than to hang there.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is a girl, who likes to have friends of the opposite sex. Hehe!! There may be a feeling of ambiguity态!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Brother, you boldly move forward, girls are like this, if you want to refuse and welcome, you still like the feeling of being chased.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She likes you, but she's embarrassed to say it, so she takes these opportunities to test you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's still possible for you. She has a crush on you, but she hasn't made up her mind yet.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ambiguous! She likes you, but you are not her standard, but she cherishes you as a friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay to go on it, it doesn't matter if it's tight or not, the key is comfort. The most important thing for people is to be happy, the aunt on the side of the road is also a woman, if you don't want to come too. So, young people, cherish it. Take it well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If a girl says to be an ordinary friend, it really means that she doesn't like you and doesn't want to be with you.

    No one is inseparable from anyone, that's just a kind of persistence on your part.

    Does it mean that if you don't meet her, you won't be able to live?

    If you want to open up, let it go. There will be a lot of girls.

    Don't give up the whole forest for someone who doesn't love you!

    I'm a girl, and if I like someone, even if I don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend with him, I won't say be an ordinary friend. As long as you have a favorite ingredient, you won't be willing to be an ordinary friend. At the very least, be a good friend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Friends are for life, and lovers may not be, just like you said you can't live without her, and she wants to be ordinary friends with you, then be friends. If you insist on reaching out to her in a pursuit, you'll only end up scaring her away. Being a friend can also care about her and be good to her, and one day she will feel it back, and after a long time, she will have a sense of dependence, and naturally she can't leave you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's see what kind of character the girl is, if she is very strong, as long as she says so, you will basically have no drama, but if she is very emotional and emotional, then you can insist.

    The most important thing is that men, or have the best achievements, and serious men are attractive. If you are as persistent in your career as chasing girls, then you will have a double harvest!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Well, I'm sorry, I'm a boy, but it's a good way to do it, at least it's a waste of time and affection for everyone to be honest, you say! Maybe the person who can really be with you for a lifetime really hasn't appeared yet! Don't make promises too easily, unless, you two are really happy people who can stay together for a lifetime!

    The words of the family, hehe......

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Turn around and leave, a man has to be cruel to himself, dignity is a man's whole world, you just lose someone if you leave her, and you will lose yourself with her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, what he really means is that he doesn't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend with you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If I am mine, I will agree, because first of all, this is the only way not to hurt her, and I will go back and silently like her and pay for her. By the time she has become a habit of relying on me and it is hard to break it, then it will not be far from becoming my girlfriend. She accepted me easily.

    The main thing is that you can't force @

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    She may have someone she likes, loving someone doesn't necessarily mean having her, letting her go may be the best thing to do! Treat her as a relative, so it's not very embarrassing for yourself! I wish you to find your happiness soon!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The world is crazy, but no one can live without them. Especially boys, your strong side. If he really doesn't call you and isn't nervous, duplicitous, it's not a good decision to let go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It all started with ordinary friends. Have faith. Think about it, once you're regular friends, you can go on an outing and a picnic together. Go do something that makes him happy. Maybe it's one step at a time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Doesn't she have another boyfriend, does she? Or did you her off? You can tell her directly - you really like her, you can't live without her - if you can't do it, there will be no fun.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can be higher than your friends first, and your lover is not yet full of time, and you get used to your presence, and your chances will be greater

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since you really like her, you have to think about what she thinks, and you force someone, and that's probably not called liking.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can determine a period of time, say three months, and use your sincerity to impress her during these three months, if after three months, she still has no feelings for you, you can choose to be an ordinary friend. Alternatively, you can choose a longer period of time, as in 10 years.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Alas, a woman's heart is a needle, fate can't be forced, let it be!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Did you say it suddenly? It could be that there is something difficult on the girl's side, or that you are doing something wrong, you should talk to her seriously, ask for reasons, tell her what you think, and if she still likes you, it's fine.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Take your time, if the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Summary. The girl said but now she just wants to make friends, this sentence shows that she doesn't want to fall in love now, she just wants to start with you as friends. First of all, the reason why a girl says this is because you have confessed to her or she senses what you mean; Secondly, the girl has no intention of accepting you as her boyfriend now, and can only be an ordinary friend; Finally, start by being an ordinary friend, maybe after a while you will know her better, and choose to really become an ordinary friend.

    The girl said but now she just wants to make friends, this sentence shows that she doesn't want to fall in love now, she just wants to start with you as friends. First of all, the reason why the girl says this is because you have confessed Chunkai to her or she feels what you mean; Secondly, the girl has not yet accepted you as her boyfriend, and can only be an ordinary friend; Finally, start by being an ordinary friend, maybe after a while you will have a deeper understanding of her, and you choose to really become an ordinary friend of the virtual source.

    The day I met her, I invited her to dinner on Valentine's Day on February 14th, and she promised me to send her flowers, and she accepted them.

    It seems that people are not ready, you can't be in a hurry, you have to take your time for this kind of thing.

    I don't know if she has a crush on me or likes me.

    However, after you gave the gift, she felt that you were not suitable for her and didn't want to break your heart, so she euphemistically said that she only wanted to make friends now, and didn't want to fall in love. You can think back to if you did something wrong.

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