My boyfriend s parents don t think we re suitable

It was originally your choice to be together, and his family's disagreement was not actually the biggest problem and obstacle, but how deep the relationship between you is, and whether it is more than the tip of a needle. He began to waver under the persuasion of his family, which means that the weight in your heart will never reach the height of being a family member, and he is not so trusting in you, and his relationship with you is not so sure, so he may leave you at any time. I think you can give him some time to think about it and let him make a choice (not that you will give up your family, but is there any way to solve this matter), if he keeps avoiding, it means that he is a man who has no responsibility, no assertiveness and a sense of responsibility, leave as soon as possible, don't delay youth for this kind of person.

Falling in love is originally a matter for the two of you, from this incident it can be seen that your boyfriend's will is not firm and cannot stand the test, if he loves you so much, he will work hard to fight for it, take 10,000 steps back and say, even if he can't get it, he shouldn't snub you, he should ask your thoughts and communicate with you more, instead of wanting to be quiet by himself, which shows that he has the psychology of retreat. It is conceivable that he will also tell you if he encounters other difficulties in the future; Just let myself be quiet. Rather than having difficulties to bear together.

In the final analysis, there are only two situations, first, he doesn't care about you very much, and second, he is very machismo, doing everything according to his own will, without considering the feelings of others!

I don't think the attitude of men is good.

What if we are emotionally incompatible with our boyfriend, but our parents are happy with each other? Boyfriend and girlfriend must go through these stages together, no matter who they are with, only those who can still stick to each other after these stages can go to the end. First, the love period:

The hot love period is the first stage when every couple just starts; The two are inseparable, they have to get tired of being together in everything, and even if there is a conflict, they will quickly reconcile, which is also the happiest stage. Second, the run-in period: the run-in period is a necessary stage in the process of love; It is a stage of friction between men and women in spirit, life, details and dealing with problems, and if this period is not well adjusted, it is likely to lead to the collapse of a fairytale beautiful love.

Third, mutual suspicion period: mutual suspicion is actually a shallow stage of love; At this time, because you have not fully grasped and confident in the feelings between yourself and the other party, you will have suspicions, and you will pay too much attention to the opposite sex friends around the other party and the other party's various behaviors. Love requires mutual trust and recognition.

Fourth, the period of seeking common ground while reserving differences: after surviving the period of mutual suspicion, it has entered a period of seeking common ground while reserving differences, which can also be said to be a flat period; Life has gradually smoothed out the water chestnut of each other's feelings, and slowly become the people who know each other best, becoming tolerant of each other, willing to work together, grow together, and work together for the life you want in the future.

When you really work with him, work, and live together for a long time, after understanding his comprehensiveness, you feel that this is not suitable, that is not suitable for yourself, and the lack of emotional communication brings a loss of freshness and attractiveness, so I feel that it is more and more inappropriate to be together. It is necessary to continue to inject capital into the original love affair and strengthen emotional communication. Finally, I would like to send you another sentence, it is not easy for two people to be together, cherish it, I wish you happiness!

I think you should calm down and talk to each other, solve the relationship problems between you, if you really can't solve it, and then make it clear to both parents that you are not suitable for you to be together, and if you get married in the future, life will not be too smooth.

For such a situation, you should follow your inner thoughts, what is not suitable is not suitable, and there is no need to accommodate for the sake of the satisfaction of parents.

I don't think I can get by at this time, because after all, what's the use of living with him in the future, and the parents are satisfied.

Summary. If he has such thoughts, one is that the two of them usually do more communication, which can also promote the relationship between the two people and understand her thoughts, on the other hand, also do more work in this area, so that he can put down his burden and dare to face your parents, usually talk to him more about your parents, basic information, and preferences so that he has a bottom in his heart, so that if he proposes to meet his parents in the future, the possibility of him agreeing will be higher.

Hello, that means he is not ready to meet his parents. On the other hand, the feelings for the two of you, I am not fully sure in my heart, I need to communicate with him to know this brother, understand his true thoughts in his heart, and I can't reluctantly attack when I see my parents, after all, I need to let him have enough willingness, so that when I meet my parents, I will be sincere.

If he has such thoughts, one is to do more communication between the two of them, which can also promote the relationship between the two people and understand her thoughts, on the other hand, also do more work in this area, so that he can put down his burden and dare to face your parents.

Summary. Hello dear, you don't need to apologize. You can tell the man's parents that the two of you are really not suitable, there is no way to live together, and even if you are together, you are unhappy and unhappy.

If the man makes any mistakes, you can tell your boyfriend's parents that he is sorry for you and say everything you want to say in your heart. You can vent your grievances so that they will be on your side, if you are still in love with your boyfriend. If you are really determined and don't want to get along with your boyfriend, then in fact, there is no need for the other party's parents to meet, you can say that your boyfriend can't give you the life you want, don't say too much.

Is it okay to call your parents to pick it up?

Hello dear, you don't need to apologize for the wide stool. You can tell the parents of the rough man that the two of you are really not suitable, there is no way to live together, and even if you are together, you are unhappy and unhappy. If the man makes any mistakes, you can tell your boyfriend's parents that he is sorry for you and say everything you want to say in your heart.

You can vent your grievances so that they will be on your side, if you are still in love with your boyfriend. If you really don't want to get along with your boyfriend, then in fact, there is no need for the other party's parents to meet, and you can say that you want to meet the life that your boyfriend can't give, don't say too much.

But now at my boyfriend's house.

We didn't quarrel and nothing happened.

If you break up, just go back to your own home, you don't need your parents to pick it up, how old are you, it's definitely not appropriate for your parents to pick up this kind of thing.

There are no cars in the countryside.

Then call your parents to pick them up.

Or maybe you have friends or something.

You can also call ** and let me pick you up.

Anyway, it's definitely a bit inappropriate to call you mom and dad.

You can also call a taxi to pick you up.

If the boyfriend is reluctant to meet his parents, is there no need to continue to develop?

If this answer is yes, why should it be developed, and how can it be developed and carried out?

First of all, we have to figure out one thing: why is he reluctant to meet his parents, it is your parents who make him unable to climb high? Makes him feel strongly uneasy and inferior? Or is it your parents who make him disgusted, and he doesn't want or want to see them again.

So here's the problem. What are you going to do if things go on. Or just say what do you do?

How do you want to deal with this emotion? Is he so rich that you have to abandon your family of origin and start all over again? It's still handsome, so you don't know what your heartbeat is like all day long.

In addition to these two reasons, you can't have a third excuse, because money is not everyone can give you that much, and it can also allow you to live the life you want without working hard. Handsome is born, handsome people are hard to find, not to mention that handsome people can still take a fancy to you and let you be his boyfriend. This kind of feeling can really make you abandon your parents.

Continue to develop into a family and have children.

In addition, if you say that he is really good to me, it will make me so moved. After saying that, you may not even believe you. Is he good to you? Will you not consider your feelings and not see your parents? Afraid of what? There's a ghost in the psyche.

If you don't make a decision, what else do you want to do? Let his ghost see him? Will you cross his soul in your own flesh?