I couldn t find a partner after being separated by my parents

Updated on society 2024-06-16
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This is fate. After being separated by his parents, he couldn't find a partner because fate hadn't arrived yet. This kind of thing can't be done slowly in a hurry.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The situation you said does not exist, and you will not be unable to find a partner after your parents are separated, and it is likely that you are unable to accept others in your heart. I know a boy who was separated by his parents when he was twenty-six or seventeen years old, but he was so angry that he didn't get married, and finally got married at the age of 33. After the transition period, life still has to be on track.

    It's just a long process.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Can't find a partner after being separated by your parents? I think you may be blind, or Wushan is not a cloud, right? The love story of the great poet Lu You and Tang Wan of the Song Dynasty has been praised to this day, who doesn't feel sorry for them?

    Can't find a partner after being separated by your parents? I think you may be blind, or Wushan is not a cloud, right? The love story of the great poet Lu You and Tang Wan of the Song Dynasty has been praised to this day, who doesn't feel sorry for them?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The key is that you should communicate well with your parents, you ask them the reason for breaking up you, and you have to tie the bell to the bell, maybe the parents see the problem more thoroughly, because they are people with life experience, once the communication is smooth, you know where the problem is, and you should not have such a concern in your heart, that is, your parents break up you, you can't find the object, the thing of finding the object is not a one-time must be successful, summarize the experience from the failure, develop the strengths and avoid the weaknesses, it is possible to find a better and more suitable object for you, When you are married, you can live happily ever after, and this may be the true wish of your parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't worry, there will be lovers who will eventually be dependents, which means that fate has not arrived, and they will eventually find the other half.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first question is more complicated, first of all, you have to identify your parents, what is the reason for breaking you apart? Are you wrong? Or maybe they're wrong, and then decide whether you want to continue your original fate.

    Even if you are separated, fate will always come, believe in fate! It's impossible not to find someone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The object that you can't find after being separated by your parents, in fact, this is a problem of your mentality, do you not want to find it or can't find it? You have to put your mind down first. Look at when you're looking for someone, right?

    It is necessary to compare the people who take the money. You still have to take your time, there must be a road in front of the lane mountain, lower your conditions, you should not worry about not being able to find a partner.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Being separated by your parents proves that your fate has not yet arrived, and since you can be separated, it proves that you do not have true love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    They may be happy together now or overcome their parents' obstacles, or they may be together secretly because they are against their parents' wishes, and now they are separated.

    We used to be the kind of rebellious young people who put love first, whose heads could be broken and bleed, and whose love could not be violated! We all think that we have found the true love of a lifetime, and firmly believe that this love can last forever, can be vicissitudes, and never change!

    In fact, our initial frenzy was only a temporary disorientation of hormonal overproduction. It's just a kind of sustenance that youth has nowhere to put it. This kind of sustenance makes us naively think that love is all there is to life.

    You can give up everything, family, career, and even life for love!

    And our parents, who have come all the way in the hardships of life, know better that love can never replace bread and can never replace life. No matter how deep the love is, it will eventually come back to life.

    The more fanatical the love, the more difficult it is in the process of returning to real life. I think that the hotter the weather, the more it means that a storm is coming.

    Therefore, it is not the love that parents oppose, but the irrationality that is disoriented by fanaticism. This kind of love, whether parents oppose it or not, will not go far. Because, the deeper the love, the more difficult it is to be dull.

    But life is bland, and love will eventually return to life, that is, to return to blandness.

    The love that parents oppose is itself a kind of fanatical irrational love. There will never be such a happy ending as depicted in the movie. A few years later, when you are sharpened by life, looking back on the beginning, it is actually so naïve and simple.

    Therefore, most of the love that was broken up by parents is unrealistic. After all, it's just a vigorous memory. Even without parental interference, it won't go far.

    Perhaps this kind of love is just a good memory, not a long-term life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let me tell you the truth, the people around me who were separated by their parents were basically those who were not willing to get married, they were often dissatisfied with each other, but they couldn't find a more suitable one, and finally as soon as the parents came forward, both parties had a reason to break up, and the parents' disagreement was just a pretense! Because there are too many parents around me who disagree, but none of the good relationships have been dismantled, but those who we thought were impossible to come together at the beginning ended up separated because of our parents' opposition!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How do I know what happened to the couples who were torn apart.

    But I think that people are divided and united in this life, and it is not enough to live when they meet all kinds of people. Since the previous relationship was separated for some reason, it is natural to look for another relationship.

    Maybe some of them are already other people's boyfriends and girlfriends now, or maybe they are married and have children, who knows.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Emotional matters, parents can only give advice, absolutely not forcefully interfere, most of these things will not only cause family conflicts, but also have a very bad impact on their future married life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, many couples who were separated by their parents finally found a partner who was really suitable for them. After all, love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families, parents' suggestions should still be considered, and parents generally will not be casually opposed, when you have gone through the love before the flower, you will return to the real ordinary life, contradictions will emerge, this kind of life is with you for a lifetime and so on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's all good now, and they all know that whoever they marry needs to manage their feelings and family, it's not that whoever can't marry has to die, in fact, someone is distressed more than anything else.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Fate is a wonderful thing. There are three consequences for couples to be broken up, first, they can still be together after going around and around. Second, each goes his own way, and old and dead do not get along. Third, there is also the connection to become friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Those who were in the car by their parents have now found a happy life together in a marriage approved by their respective parents.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Each has its own life, although it was heartbreaking at the time, but time and reality will make people grow.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's a good thing to meet someone who suits you better.

    If you meet a party that doesn't like you, it is estimated that you are not doing well, fate is your own struggle, although it is said that fate is destined, but most of them still need to fight for yourself, sometimes you don't work hard and really lose, and the loss may be a lifetime.

    Sometimes you hold on and you get hold of it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I once heard a saying: Love is separated by mountains and seas, and mountains and seas can be flat. I feel very touched and deeply in love with each other, but I can tear it down for a while, but I can't tear it down for a lifetime.

    However, there is another very precious feeling in this world, that is, family affection. When your love is thwarted by your parents, will you still persevere? In fact, all choices are just the result of self-protection after weighing the pros and cons.

    Sometimes you think that you are separated by your parents, and sometimes you feel that the distance is too hard and you don't want to go over, but, as the article says, all the separation is just because of not loving enough. Let's talk about a tragic truth first, my distant cousin is an only child, he is very honest, he talked about a girlfriend, but his cousin just didn't agree, and he broke up alive, and then the girl got married and had children, and the cousin gave up on himself and found a woman who was more than ten years older than her and divorced. That's not all, this woman took drugs and brought her cousin into the pit.

    My cousin was so angry that I didn't know if I was depressed or regretful, and my cousin's husband and cousin passed away one after another. And my cousin is nowhere to be found. I just want to say that parents can't interfere too much in their children's marriages, and their children and grandchildren have their own blessings, and they can give advice, but they can't force it.

    Otherwise, no one can afford such a tragedy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Those couples who were torn apart by their parents. There should have been a complete breakup. Some of them are back together. Parental advice can be adopted. But the main thing is whether the two people really love each other? No one can stop that.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    was forcibly separated by his parents, in fact. If there is a real relationship, it is very painful, because they like each other, but because of the different reasons of their parents' disagreement, they have to forcibly separate, that kind of pain, in fact, many people can't stand it. But my parents couldn't call it, so I was relieved at the time.

    And I couldn't help but listen to my parents, so I was really a little angry at the time. Once you are separated by your parents and meet again, it may not be too much, if you have real feelings, because as long as you have real feelings, you will miss it. When we meet again, we feel like we haven't seen each other in a long time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There are all kinds of marriages that have been broken up by their parents. Some follow the orders of their parents and start a new marriage, and those who remarry are also divided into two parts, some are basically passable, and some are not satisfied. Those who don't listen to their parents also have their own merits, and there are all kinds of them.

    In short, the best marriage is to be satisfied, supported by parents, and happy as a family!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Those couples who were separated by their parents may now have their own families and happy lives.

    The lovers of the Prayer became memories. Or promise that they can't find a suitable other half, still miss their former lovers, and are full of resentment towards their parents. Or perhaps, they have found a better half, rich and happy, and their former lovers have become inconspicuous passers-by, and they are glad that their parents broke up their love at the beginning.

    There are too many ifs in life, but there are not many regrets to choose from.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    All well, just in.

    There will be a person left deep inside. In the dead of night, I will turn it out and recall it over and over again, and then answer.

    There are happy laughter or tears of regret. Love is a matter of two people, marriage is the union of two families, most parents want their children to live happily, so they will interfere with their children's feelings, but perhaps the parents' choice is not all right.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, there are many people who have been broken up by their parents, and some are now very happy, but most of them are more miserable, because they are all forced to marry by their parents.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What happened to the couples who were torn apart by their parents? I feel that they are still doing very well, sometimes the parents' ideas are very right, because the parents know how to guide more, so he is also very accurate in looking at people, so he let you for you and for your good. Find the right person for you.

    Well, you'll be happy. Because a marriage with only love will not be happy, then there are some other aspects of life that are trivial in material things.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's okay, and my boyfriend and I are too, alas, it's hard to put into words.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is a saying that if a good couple can't become a husband and wife, they can't become friends in the true sense!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well! When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along with for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not necessarily be together;

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, pay attention to proportion, and do not affect the families of both parties.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's better not to contact this situation, knowing that you can't do it, and what illusions do you have.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What is the purpose of being friends? Are you still thinking that one day later, you can still be together? If that's the case, don't use it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since your relationship can be broken up by your parents once, you can be broken up a second time, because your relationship has not been so strong since the beginning!! Broken lenses will also have chips when they stick back to their original shape, and the same is true for feelings!!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It can be very uncomfortable not to be blessed by your loved ones. And it's all gone. There will always be scars in the recombination of feelings that have been cracked, and they can't go back to the beginning.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    As long as you really want to be together, I believe it's okay to persevere.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It depends on the reason why the parents are against it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. How many couples have been broken up by their parents' "good for you". My mother didn't agree to the love I was talking about, and I couldn't talk about it.

    The original intention was to get the blessing of relatives, but the result was all opposition, and it was not heart-piercing. I remember when I was in love, and it was the same.

    Both parents disagreed, but my husband and I were so embarrassed that we died. Originally, there was no contradiction between the two people, but when it came to marriage, we also began to quarrel. Our respective parents force us to break up every day, how can we talk about this love.

    Every day is bothered by some things. My husband and I have been arguing for two years, and neither of us is reluctant to break up.

    How to divide it, I cry when I mention breaking up, and I lose my mood at the thought of being separated after talking for so long. I can't separate anymore, how can I break up. How did you turn the tide in the end?

    The two of us made the decision to be the masters of our own marriage. We both know exactly what we're facing, whether we're supposed to be together, and what are our problems and points of disagreement? With that in mind, we got married.

    Now I have a child, life is good, and my parents are supportive. It's not terrible to have a marriage that is opposed by your parents, but what I'm afraid of is that you don't have the courage to solve the problem.

    It is said that marriage is a matter of two families, how is it possible. Marriage must be because of love, love is a matter of two people, and marriage is even more. Caring about other people's opinions can distort your own life.

    No one is you, and there is no right to intervene. You should make your own decisions about your own life. When you are not doing well, the person who opposed it at the beginning will not pay for you.

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