What does it mean that a woman is more desperate after a breakup?

The more ruthless a woman is after a breakup, the more she loves each other. There is a saying called a needle in a woman's heart, and this sentence is used to describe the performance of girls in relationships. The inner world of a girl is very complex, and it is always unpredictable, and I don't know what she is thinking.

Sometimes you think she wants you to be close, but when you get close to her, she will resist, and her words and practices always make you think that she is a different person.

This kind of woman likes duplicity, and she may say some cruel things after the breakup, but she is undoubtedly saying that she still loves you. Because you broke up with her, she is very unhappy, but she can't express it directly, so she says the opposite to provoke you. The more angry she is, the more she loves you.

Ways to regulate your mind after a breakup.

Reflect alone and record your emotions: Insist on recording your emotions, write down what you think when you are unhappy, and wait for a while to read it, which will provide a different perspective to examine emotional problems and let yourself jump out. And, to set a bottom line for yourself, when emotions start to recur again, tell yourself in the mirror, such as "sad until ten o'clock tonight", "think he only wants ten minutes", and shout "stop" when the time comes.

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It seems that there is often a popular saying in the market, that is, once a woman makes up her mind to break up with you, she will let go even if she loves you again. Is it true that women are more ruthless than men, at least I haven't seen such a scientific basis, but men and women are indeed very different in the way they express and understand their emotions and deal with them.

Many times the sensitivity of male emotions.

is not as delicate as women, and many times often makes the other party unhappy, or because the communication problem is not handled well, I am not aware of it. And some women face such problems, and they don't feel the real feelings in their hearts, or they don't know how to express their discomfort, so these uncomfortable emotions are deeply suppressed in their hearts.

When these emotions accumulate to a certain extent and finally erupt, it may be that men only see a certain thing or some small things, but it may be that for women these things are accumulated over many years. So he may not understand why the other party can be so ruthless because of such a thing.

The desperation at this time is not a small thing you see, but an accumulation of long-term emotions. Therefore, in order not to let us experience this kind of desperation, we must have the ability to be aware of emotions, and if you want to have such ability, you are also welcome to have a one-on-one consultation with me.

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That's not necessarily, it may also be that I finally got rid of each other, I am very happy, and I wish I would never see each other again. Or when you see it, you grit your teeth when you think of the time you wasted on the other person.

Don't be too arbitrary, how you behave after a breakup doesn't completely prove how much you love, women are very good at deceiving people, you may feel that the other party is very ruthless after breaking up, you think she is because she loves you, but it may just be that the person himself is indifferent.

The more desperate a woman behaves after breaking up, the more she loves, and since ancient times, infatuated women have been negative men. Whoever loves more in love will be hurt more in the end. It's not that you don't love, it's not worth having, it's that no one is really for you.

That's all I have to say. I can't say that, some people are really ruthless, and some people are fake ruthless, understand? Some people want to show that they are doing well in this way, and prove that they really don't like it, but it's not necessarily, but it can only be judged according to the difference of people.

After some women break up, the more desperate they become, the more they still have love, but some women are not, because they have never loved Ben, so they are even more ruthless.

This is the truth that shows the depth of love and hatred.