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Actually, I think this woman is stupid enough, really from a bystander's point of view, you have wasted the good time of your life, who are you wasting? What's the use of you fighting your parents? You should let them see that you are looking for better people, and living a more wonderful life is the real meaning, you are now that your parents have died, and you are lonely and old, what can one person prove, can it prove your determination?
I can only say that this kind of person lives really too dirty, it's better to die, in fact, it's really painful, if you're really good enough, will your parents think that your first love is not a good match for the two of you? No, is it because you guys have something inappropriate? So I think his stupid behavior to try to read his parents is entirely because she herself has no ability to calculate, don't talk about others anymore, I think such a woman is really better than dead, just a skeleton corpse.
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This is completely the fault of the parents. Parents who love their daughters very much, why should they break up other people's marriages? As long as the two of them love each other, the only thing that can be parents is blessings.
There is only the right to reference, not the right to decide. Besides, the daughter still loves this boy deeply. How can you bear to tear apart the two children you love?
Could it be that the material level is not up to your requirements? You should like it or not. I will not be happy in the future.
It's not that you like it or not. How much money does the South family have. If you do this, you will pit your daughter for the rest of your life.
In his heart, this boy who fell in love for the first time was the one he wanted to take TOEFL all his life. No matter what kind of good boy you look for in the future, she won't like it. He liked what he found himself.
Why are you so ruthless? You are not daughters who love you. Rather, it pushes your daughter into the abyss.
I don't know, it's not in a hurry to recover it now. If it's too late, I advise my parents to change their minds as soon as possible.
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Such an example in real life is also for the happiness of all children. infected with the object they think is suitable, then will the daughter really be happy, of course, if the daughter herself chooses her first love as the marriage partner, then will she really be happy? This will be a topic that we will leave to study and go deeper**.
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But back then, if you just thought it was good to be together, but later you were broken up by your parents, then you generally won't regret it, after all, you don't love each other much. If love died and came back to life, and even if I had never encountered such a love in my life, then I would definitely regret it. What a heart-wrenching loss of the love of his life.
There are many reasons why you are not optimistic about love by your parents in life, or because your age is not suitable, or your family background is not suitable, or your education is not suitable. In short, if you are not optimistic about a person, you can always find countless reasons to oppose it.
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Parents broke up their daughter's first love, and the daughter retaliated that they were not in love for the rest of their lives and did not get married, indicating that the daughter hated his parents very much, he was too willful to do so, no matter what, the parents were also good for him, I hope he can understand the good intentions of his parents, instead of hating them, the daughter drilled the horns, to be honest, the parents may have a good starting point but the approach is wrong. It is understandable that the daughter is unhappy, if the revenge is not taken off, the child is given by the parents, no matter how you should forgive the parents, cherish yourself, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist. Parents dismantle their daughter's first love, and their daughter retaliates that they will not marry for the rest of their lives, as parents have no crooked intentions for their daughters, they all hope that their children are good, and their daughter's practices are not right, your parents raise you, and you have responsibilities and obligations to your parents.
If you don't get married, take revenge on your parents, is your first love waiting for you? Just think about it.
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The reason why the parents broke them up at the beginning must have been out of consideration for the daughter's future, the man's family situation is not good, and it will be very difficult for the daughter to marry in the past. The starting point was for the good of her daughter, but her behavior was more radical and she hit the boy, which left a deep scar in her daughter's heart. It is not right for a daughter to hate her parents, her parents are family members, not outsiders, and the first time she thinks about herself must be her parents, and no one loves herself more than her parents.
It's okay to be angry with your parents, but at this age, you still hate your parents, and you don't see things in the world clearly or think clearly, that's your daughter's problem. After so many years, all grievances should have passed, not to mention their own parents, it is really not worth hurting their parents and themselves for an uncertain boyfriend.
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The number of parents who broke up their daughters The number of daughters reported to their parents that they broke up their daughters, and the daughters retaliated that they would not fall in love or marry for the rest of their lives, I think that this kind of behavior is not only revenge on their parents, but also a kind of cruelty to themselves. Your parents broke up your first love, which is a sign of responsibility to you, and you can't hold a grudge against your parents because of this. Which parent is very concerned about his children, and he can't bear to break up your first love.
I really don't like your marriage. The parents broke up their daughter's first love, and the daughter retaliated that they were not in love and did not get married for the rest of their lives, which shows that the daughter hates his parents very much, and he is too willful to do so, no matter what, his parents are also good for him, and I hope he can understand his parents' good intentions, instead of hating them.
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Hello! Landlord, you want to make sure that what you say is true! Such a miserable, sympathetic woman has come this far is something that no one wants to see. I will objectively talk about the problem from the perspective of our marriage and love consulting industry.
First of all, love is the root of all these tragedies, love is sometimes like this, there is no right or wrong, the protagonist is not wrong to love someone, the fault is to love the wrong person, to love a person who should not be loved. Her story is similar to that of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai.
Secondly, the fault of her parents is also unforgivable here, parents can interfere or advise their children to choose a man as a husband, but they cannot forcibly superimpose it. Because a reluctant marriage will not be happy either. Parents need to understand the fact that it is the child's partner and not the parents who accompany their children.
In the end, it is her own reason, love is not the whole of life, and she was forcibly separated from her lover and regarded love as the whole of life, and hate her parents since then, so she chose not to marry and retaliate against her parents' wrong idea, over time, this idea evolved into a deep obsession, and this obsession has not disappeared with the loss of years, but the psychological idea of asking for nothing has deepened her obsession. It was this obsession that hurt her.
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It doesn't feel like there's much point, and being tough with your parents will definitely end up being a lose-lose. The original intention of the first choice parents is definitely for your good, it may be too demanding or too high, and they always want to hope that you can live a good life and have superior conditions to have less worries in the following days. But the problem is that they actually attach too much importance to each other's family conditions, economic conditions, or work, and ignore each other's character or whether the two people's personalities are compatible, which can only be known when you get along with yourself.
So you really think it's right for you, you need to have a good talk with your parents, exchange opinions with each other, express opinions, and even debate them. This way everyone can know what each other thinks. A lot of it is also a lack of communication.
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Parents break up their daughter's first love, parents must think that the boy is not suitable for their daughter, the family conditions are not very good, as parents always want their daughter to find a good family conditions, the boy has a good temper and character, and can let the daughter everywhere, the daughter will not suffer after they add to be tired and angry, but often the children do not think about it so much, what they like is that the two of them have feelings together, each other is excited, as long as they love each other, everything else is not important, your concept is different, and the starting point is not the same, Everyone has to think about each other, don't be right.
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What do you think of the parents breaking up their daughter's out, the family's communication is simple and rude. Lack of communication, lack of communication, if parents and daughters communicate more and understand each other, this situation will not occur. The daughter's approach is also inappropriate, and the experience of the parents sometimes makes the children have to listen.
In fact, this is not right, parents are for the good of their daughters, although girls may not understand but they can't do this, they should communicate more with their parents, and there must be a reason for parents to break them up. As parents want their children to live a happy life, as children in love and marriage on the view and parents there is a generation gap, no matter how to do children must understand the good intentions of their parents, Bi Jing's parents are the opinions of parents should also think carefully, do not veto, do not get married for a lifetime and are angry that parents are suffering from themselves, and it is the best policy to communicate with parents to reach an agreement.
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It's a tragedy. The mistake is first and foremost caused by the parents, who forcibly break up the two people who love each other, creating a shadow that is difficult to dispel for the child's life. But the daughter is actually also problematic, because the price is too great for her whole life.
No matter how much you hate him, after all, it is your parents, in order to make your parents regret for life, they have never married for the rest of their lives, in fact, everyone is a loser. I hope she can think clearly as soon as possible, and while she is not too old now, she can start a family again, not for others, but for herself.
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What's right and wrong? It's not clear, everyone's position is different, parents may not do it right, it's too intense, but generally parents are for the good of their children (the kind of bad for their children, after all, there are still parents who don't like to wash their children) and, if you care about your feelings very much, then in fact, no matter what your parents do, you will not give up, if you give up, it means that you actually don't have much confidence in this relationship! If you really love someone and want to live together, and that person is also the kind of parent who is really good to you, your parents are really good for you, then no matter how much your parents object, seeing that the other person is so good to you, will actually agree in the end...It's really unnecessary to take revenge on her parents for her marriage, after all, her life is not her own, and now that her parents are dead, it's even more nothing, in the end, it's not that there is not enough communication for many days, or the man and the woman must have made their parents particularly dissatisfied....So I don't worry about them getting married together, in short, this is a personal opinion, because I decided that most parents actually love their children very much, and they want them to live well, even if there is a way that you may not accept!
Of course, it's so vexatious, and you don't love your children, so you can only use it
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Parents and daughters have mistakes in this problem, first of all, the main responsibility of parents, as parents of their children's marriage must be particularly attentive and attentive, but can not interfere with the child's marriage, compared to the first love is unforgettable for every young person, but should be step by step to strengthen education and guidance in many aspects, really can not do the child's ideological work, but can only obey the child's ideas first, so that the child can experience life in practice. It is also very undesirable for a daughter to take the mentality and means of not falling in love and not getting married to deal with her parents because her parents interfere with her marriage, after all, parents are the most concerned about their children, and they have also had experience in life and marriage. Children should be considerate of their parents' hearts, and should also listen to their parents' opinions and suggestions, and grasp them correctly.
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I think this girl's approach is too extreme, after all, parents are people who have experienced a lot of things, and they are quite accurate in seeing people, maybe parents are not suitable for seeing their children. And his daughter is in love, then his boyfriend is the best man in the world. Sometimes the other way around, I think about what would happen even if he really married his first love.
Not necessarily as happy as he imagined. Maybe there will be another ending after getting married. Who told you that after you get married, you will be happy for the rest of your life, and you will grow old together.
There is also a possibility of a marriage change in the middle. I think that parents all over the world love their children, and this girl's approach is really too extreme, and I haven't let go of this obsession for so many years. In fact, his parents were very uncomfortable when they saw him like this.
It's really pitiful for the hearts of parents all over the world!
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Don't get into trouble, don't approve of your daughter's revenge on her parents. This is a two-way injury, I am lonely and my parents are depressed. None of the parties get the benefits.
Besides, as a child, Pepsi filial piety comes first, and she will be angry with her parents for a lifetime, making the old man feel guilty for a lifetime, maybe she will regret it too, at least she will become a family, and her parents should be comforted. What's more, the parents broke them up at the beginning, and they were also out of human sophistication, firewood, rice, oil, and salt, to consider her marriage partner. It is also a disguised concern, an obstacle made by worry, and you should not resent your parents for a lifetime.
It depends on how old the woman is.
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Hello, such values are indeed inappropriate, but everyone's growth environment and background are different, so let's not judge others.