My son is very repulsive to me putting on makeup and making male friends, what should I do?

It may be that a single-parent family makes the child dependent on the mother, which is very bad, and the child should have his own sense of independence as soon as possible.

This is also normal. There are some children in single-parent families, because you are usually the only one who takes care of him, and he is more dependent on you and doesn't want you to find a boyfriend.

Rejection is normal, do you feel like it's normal for you to do so? Why should a married woman with children wear makeup and make friends of the opposite sex? Even if you are ordinary friends, but others may not feel so, if you meet someone who will spread rumors, this will bring harm to your children's family, sometimes it's not that you are not afraid of the shadow crooked, everything is fine, this sentence is only suitable for you who are single, but with a family and children, even if you have nothing with others, you must keep the distance you should have, avoid abnormal behaviors, such as makeup, why make up and make friends?

These will bring you rumors.

Are you a single parent? You can wait 2 years to find it.

Wait, the child is at the age of 16, is in adolescence, and begins to rebel, you have to be patient, the child will understand you and hope to help you.

The impact of parental divorce on children is significant.

So in his heart, he will definitely reject you to make a new boyfriend, in his heart mom and dad are the only ones, he will not accept others to be his father.

So in the face of this situation, all you can do is communicate with him patiently.

Let him slowly understand your feelings, it will definitely be a long process.

This is not a disease, how can it be cured?

The best way to talk about Tachibana is to go with the flow and give him the greatest praise for the support of the round touch.

Don't let your son get too close to some hungry male classmates, if you have female friends, it's best to get along with more female friends, watch more romance dramas, let him feel it, and getting along with the girl will bring happiness, slowly change.

It is true that there is a tendency for homosexuality, because he is not yet very old, and he needs psychological counseling, and popularize puberty and sexual knowledge with him, and slowly turn his tendency to be cautious.

It has to do with your own character! Let him participate in more social activities! The social interaction here is mainly between classmates and friends!

Hello! My son is one year old and eight months old, and he has a cheerful and outgoing personality! The psychological growth of children and young children is closely related to the education of adults, and adults in the family will spoil children, right?

Take him out to play often, take him out for a walk at night, go to the crowd is more concentrated, and often take him to the entertainment facilities where children play! Don't be too pampered, slowly and naturally cheerful!! I hope that our children can grow up healthily.

Hello Auntie, my brother is an introvert, it's okay for him to go to his classmates to chat and play, it's good after a long time!

When I was a child, I didn't play much with girls, or I was a little inferior, I didn't have confidence, and I was too introverted.

There is less contact, let him go to more crowded places.

Exercising, perhaps because he hasn't met someone he likes.

I want you to brag a little bit more about their age.

It will be fine in a few years, trust me.

Explain that he is more inferior. Get to know him and change his mindset!

It will naturally be good when you grow up, and men don't have to worry

I was like that when I was a kid. It would be nice to be more aggressive.

Your son is more introverted, how old is your son?

It's not as serious as you say, and you have to go to the doctor!

First of all, children who live in the city have this situation to a greater or lesser extent, because of the lack of friends. Keeping your child at home for a long time is definitely getting more and more boring. It's a given.

So you can think of ideas for your child to learn or play with other children. You can regularly invite the children of relatives, friends or colleagues to your home to study with your children or do something together. Or when there are certain children's activities in the community, you can bring your child with you.

Summer and winter vacations can also allow children to participate in some summer camps.

In short, it is necessary to be with peers of the same age, so that the child will be nurtured and become cheerful. As long as there is a first time, there will be a second time, and children will be happy with this kind of life when they get happiness from it. Thus changing his original personality.

So parents need to take action. You should set an example, properly receive guests at home, and let your children watch and learn from the sidelines. Be sure to stick to it!

After reading what you said above, I am also worried about your child, my suggestion is to take your time a little bit, start with internal communication, and parents should first communicate well with their children, so that you can have an in-depth understanding of the child's inner world and find the cause of the problem so as to prescribe the right medicine.

However, from what you said above, I have found one of the reasons: I have to say that it reflects the mistakes of parents, and it is said that parents are the first teachers of children, and children are easily affected by surrounding factors, and parents' words and deeds will also affect children, because you don't like to go out socially, and children will be affected to some extent, so parents should take action to infect your children, share with them more the fun of many people playing together, and the benefits of more communication to him in the future, so that he realizes the importance of it, If you have awareness, you will act, and then take him to participate in more group activities, I believe it will bring a lot of changes, cheer for your children.

I am also O blood type Capricorn has been introverted since childhood and is an otaku, so I like to stay at home by myself! Not much of a problem. It's good to grow up.

If your son takes the family to play on the Internet and the computer, it is not good, and the teacher's comments are the same every year, and now the teacher is so irresponsible, how can he always pay attention to your son, like us, children with average grades and introverts have that comment every year, don't care.

Well, this is common among children nowadays.

You can communicate more with your child and let him tell him what happened in school today, what do you think about these things? What do you think of your classmates? And so on, leading him to feel like he wanted to speak.

I think parents should communicate with this teacher, listen to the teacher's suggestions and views on the child, generally speaking, the teacher will not get along with a child, it may be that the child does not work hard in learning The teacher punished him, causing the child's psychological shadow.

The key is to communicate more with teachers and children, and guide children's attitudes to be optimistic, happy, and happy

To let him have more contact with others, first of all, give him self-confidence, encourage him more at home, give him praise and encouragement if he can do something, and slowly cultivate the child's character.

I think it's too early to see a psychiatrist

Take your children out to play more often, and often visit other children's homes to make them feel happy

It should not be the case of the mountain

Personality has nothing to do with blood type, it's you who neglect you and him, his teacher must not usually care about his existence, and those classmates don't like to talk to him, so it's like this.

Ay. I'm also a kid at just 15I feel. bar. When he gets older, he'll be playful. Don't be afraid. Let the children play. Take the initiative to take him around.

Take him out to play, especially with children.

The child will learn from everyone around him, please check whether there is such a reason in the family school, 11-year-old children, I don't think it will work to beat the child, and I can't bear to say it, parents are elders, teachers, and children's friends, communication is very important, 11-year-old children basically have the idea that they feel like adults, so we still have to understand the reason.

Let him understand that if he does it to others, there is a price. I have a way, and I can be one.

Let him go out to experience life, the child is still young, and he must be educated well, otherwise the child will be ruined in a few years!!

An eye for an eye. Countering violence with violence. Let him know that violence won't work.

What to do if the child is disobedient, just beat it up (just kidding).

Let children understand what it means to be bitter.

He must like you very much, that's why he sticks to you and annoys you, isn't it good to have such a son???

Hello friends!

First of all, adolescence is permissible for rebellion, and we should all be aware of it. Secondly, I don't know what you mean by rebellion? Is it unreasonable, indiscriminate, disregarding the law and morality, or just not obeying the arrangements of parents and teachers?

Different rebellions are very different, if your child just doesn't listen to you, then I think it's normal, the problem may not be with the child, but with whether your own concept is correct? Is it the right way? It's like when we say, 'Love life as a bee loves honey,' but we can't say, 'Love life like a maggot loves a carrion,' and the way is important.

Finally, I hope you can achieve better communication and mutual understanding with your child.

Spend more time with your child to practice his language skills, supervise his reading along, correct mistakes, and praise him when he reads correctly.

After-school tutoring for parents can also be important.

Usually develop his speaking ability.

The child's excessive generosity is caused by an excess of his "resources", and the responsibility lies with the parents. And when there is a surplus of resources, no matter how stingy it is, it is "unkind to the rich", which is of course wrong

Generosity is not a shortcoming, but it is necessary for children to understand that the character of "generosity" is self-sacrifice. For example, let children understand that they can only give away when they don't need it and others need it, or if they have a lot to share with others.

Parents can't meet their children's requirements indefinitely, so that children realize that what they have is not easy to come by, and once they lose it, they may not have it again, so that children will weigh it themselves when they want to give it away.

I believe that everyone wants their children to grow up to be successful. A person's growth process will shape his acquired character, but the innate personality cannot be ignored. (It is not denied that there are ancestors, but children can.)

But this must be in the minority. My personal opinion, go with the flow first, it's still small. Because generosity alone is not a disadvantage.

Don't take it too seriously.

To be honest, don't educate your son for this, if you can maintain this character until the age of 20, you have a bright future. My wife is a person with this kind of personality, and she has got opportunities that many people can't imagine because of this kind of character.

It's not a good thing, there are not many such children now, and they may not suffer losses, just let it be, and learn to be a man when they grow up. That's how I taught my son, life is a big question.

His personality will help him when he grows up, at least he will get along with people very well, people like to be with him, there will be many friends, and it will have unimaginable benefits for him to come out of society.

This kind of personality will help him when he grows up, and a little guidance is enough.

It's the case that a 4-year-old child is not sensible yet, as long as he teaches the child slowly, he will understand.