Why is it that you are hurt when you make friends with others?

If you want to find someone who really has the same heart, I'm afraid it's hard to find it in a lifetime, I also have the feelings of the landlord, but I also have two friends who can really communicate their hearts, a person of the opposite sex and a same sex, in fact, I'm quite lucky.

The two of you should find a time to sit together and talk about the hiccups and resolve the conflict between you. He said that he didn't need friends, but he said that he was lonely, which means that he still wants to be friends with you, he doesn't want to be lonely like this anymore, you have to let him know how good your friend is, although it is inevitable that there will be some misunderstandings, but having a friend can make a person more kind. And having friends is a very happy thing.

Isn't it? Let him understand this!

He has probably been injured before, the hard work pays off, and the iron needle can be sharpened into reality, although it is a bit old-fashioned. But it works.

Not everyone is willing to give their heart, even if you have given your whole heart to him.

Do you love him? What is Love? If you know how to love him, and you love him, then I suggest that you selflessly do everything you can to help him when he needs help.

It's really hard to get the true love of someone who doesn't love you.

I don't know what your view of love is, I think it's good to love someone, of course, to be together, but love is also the source of abandonment.

Faithfully hope that you will receive all your love.

Can this thing be forced? Will you say yes if someone you don't love confesses to you? He may have changed his mind. I just guessed.

Don't expect everyone to be like you, if everyone does things the way you want, the world is too simple.

I'm sincere, but just like you! Some people, those who are not people, pretend to be people!

I don't know my heart.

Some things are still good everywhere.

It could be his personal problem or your problem.

The heart of the sea people is indispensable, and the heart of defense is indispensable.

Many people will encounter such a situation when making friends, that is, they are very sincere when they treat their friends, but their friends live up to their sincerity and hurt themselves again and again. In many people's concepts, as long as you are good to others, others will definitely be good to you, but feelings are changeable, whether it is love or friendship. So when this happens, don't be too obsessed, and don't continue to associate with this friend since you have hurt him.

When interpersonally, don't blindly pay your sincerity, but also see whether this person is worth your sincere treatment, whether it is love or friendship, both parties need to pay together, so that friendship will become more long-lasting. If only one person is sincere in interpersonal communication, and the other party does not care, after a long time, the party who gives sincerely will definitely feel very hurt. So when interacting, you must keep your eyes open and make a friend who is worthy of paying sincerely.

When making friends, we should also be careful not to associate with the first person too quickly, and the time is too short, and it will not allow you to get to know this person well. Therefore, the first thing is to keep a certain distance, through all aspects to understand the person's personality characteristics and character, etc., after the investigation is clear, I feel that he is a like-minded person with himself, and at the same time, the character is also good, and finally slowly shorten the distance with this person.

Trust is a key factor in people-to-people interactions, and with trust, our society will become more stable. So don't trust a person you just met too quickly when making friends, we must know that trust also has a bottom line, and we must correctly distinguish whether this person is worthy of trust. For example, if you agree to do anything with this friend, he will never be late or regret it temporarily, which also shows to a certain extent that he attaches great importance to you, and of course this kind of friend is also worth paying sincerely.

The reason why there is such a situation is because you are very kind in your heart, and the other party is just using you, and he thinks you are stupid; Brother Qing: Yes, it is a lady who meets people who are not in harmony.

It may be that you Tong Lao used the wrong method, and it may also be that the other party and your temper and personality are incompatible; I think it's because I'm not a lady, maybe this friend doesn't feel like you're good.

I think it's probably because I haven't found a suitable person for me at all, and I'm still inexperienced in selecting people; Yes.

Yes, as long as friends are sincere, all problems will become easy to solve, and this is the most important thing.

As the saying goes: rely on your parents at home, rely on your friends when you go out, and the more friends you have, the wider the road. It's a great blessing in life to be able to make more friends and talk and chat with friends often. Because it makes people open-minded, well-informed, and cheerful; You can also learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings.

When you encounter troublesome things, friends can comfort you; If you encounter any problems, friends can help you come up with ideas, so that you can have a perfect solution strategy; If you have any hardships, you can also confide in your friends, and if you encounter any happy events and happy things, you can also talk to your friends and share your happiness.

In the world, there have always been more icing on the cake and less charcoal in the snow. As everyone knows, there are enough icing on the cake, you don't give much, you give a lot; But sending charcoal in the snow is so precious, even a little bit is enough to warm it for a while and remember it for a lifetime.

Sending charcoal in the snow does not have to be in the form of material, sometimes a word of comfort, or even a look of encouragement, can make people warm in the cold winter.

Make friends should be based on sincerity, and friends should treat each other with sincerity, care for each other, respect each other, help each other, and understand each other. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always respect them. If you care about others, you will get the care of others; Respect others, only then will you get the respect of others; Only by helping others will you get help from others; Only by understanding others will we be understood.

If you want to have good relationships, you must genuinely care about others. Psychologists have shown that a person who is genuinely interested in someone can make more friends in two months than a person who wants to be interested in him in two years. Sincerity has become the most valuable spiritual quality of people in this way.

If you are sincere with your friends, colleagues or strangers, they will also reciprocate with sincerity, which will not only improve your interpersonal relationships, but also establish your public image, which will contribute to your own success.

If you want to get a friend of your confidant, you must first open your heart, and only by treating others sincerely will you get the sincerity of your friend. Just as Comrade Xie Jueya, a revolutionary veteran, wrote in a poem: "After thousands of miles, I am still healthy, and I have not been cold after a thousand hardships.

There can be dust blemishes that must be wiped away, and open your heart and lungs to show others. ”

Of course not, although it is important to be sincere with friends, but other aspects are also important, and if a person often brings you negative energy and makes you unhappy, I don't think such a person can be friends.

No, we also want to let our fake friends not hurt us, and at the same time, when our ability is strong enough, give our real friends some help.

It's okay if friends don't treat each other sincerely. Friends will also encounter a lot of disagreements, and they should communicate more, communicate more, and share their thoughts with each other when there is something to do.

Yes. Between friends, as long as they treat each other sincerely, the relationship will heat up day by day, and the relationship will continue forever without cracks.

No. In addition to treating friends sincerely, there should be enough frequency of communication, otherwise if you don't contact each other for a long time, it will slowly fade.

No, being honest with friends is just the basics. If you want to become a good friend, there should be some other factors, such as the same three views.

Yes, as long as you are sincere with your friends, then they will return the favor with sincerity, so that you can become very good friends.

No, making friends is not only about sincerity but also about the person's character, and it's best not to make friends with bad people.

No. It's important to be genuine, but it's not all. It depends on whether the other party's moral character is upright, and whether he is honest and kind.

Yes, as long as friends are sincere with each other, as long as they are sincere enough, they can solve any problem, and then keep the friendship going.

In fact, for your questions, I always experience, hehe, in fact, when I think about it, the reason is very simple, first of all, why do you take making friends too seriously and are always hurt? In fact, there are two points, one is because you may trust your friend, but your friend may not trust you, and second, the friend you rely on is not sincere to you, maybe he is just using you.

Secondly, that's your problem, in fact, your heart to make friends is good, but your kindness has not been reciprocated, friends are actually to put it bluntly, is a passerby of life, no one is the best friend in life, with the change of the years, people's hearts will change, no one can say, people are a fickle creature.

Finally, I still have to remind you that not everything can be said to friends, especially the topics related to your own interests, you must hide them in your heart, otherwise, you will be hurt more deeply, let the disappointment hit more painful, sometimes friendship is more painful than love, desperate, as the so-called people can not be seen, the sea water can not be measured, weigh everything yourself.

I also like a friend very much.

Tell her whenever you have something.

Everything will always be for her sake.

But she never came to me.

It's like not having me as a friend.

I think I'm too serious.

Maybe I'm taking it too seriously.

We're friends.

But not really a good friend.

Make friends seriously.

But make a friend who likes yourself.

You should talk to the people you care about, maybe the damage wasn't intentional. If you think that you are too serious and give too much, then you can pay less attention to the other person, in short, it depends on your own attitude.

Grasp the scale, drink a thousand cups of confidants, and don't speculate more than half a sentence.

Don't be too sensitive, as long as it's a sincere friend, it's good, everything happens when you have a chance, including when you are hurt, you also gave him a chance, isn't it? How good it is to let the sincerity of the touching cover those unpleasant! True friendship can be deeper than love!!

If he is sincere to you, you are also good to him, and if he is not a friend to you, you do not have to be nice to him.

Treat each other with sincerity, not say everything and do everything.

You like people to be honest with you, but others don't necessarily like it too.

Honesty also has a way, not to see that others have shortcomings, regardless of the occasion or severity. Talking tactfully and being cautious does not mean dishonesty.

Just ask, a girl in a dress, the zipper on her chest is open, do you think it is more acceptable to tell her in front of everyone and prompt her to look in the mirror and find out for yourself? Which one makes one grateful?

Also, don't talk about people behind your back. Mr. Z had a conflict with you, so you told Mr. Z's performance and shortcomings to your friend C. Although you are well-intentioned, people are on the lookout.

But when all is said and done, not only do you offend Z, you may lose C, and the worst result is that if C continues to get along with you, C will have no friends except you (in my own experience, I am the poor C).

As long as you talk and do things in a different way, you can be honest and make friends.

It is easy to sin ten people, it is difficult to make one person, and it is the most difficult not to sinner.

True friendship is not about sacrificing oneself for others.

No one can be noble enough to sacrifice himself for the sake of others for no reason.

Such a plot can only exist in Mary Sue's TV series, and only the silly white sweet heroine in Mary Sue's film and television will be desperate and for no reason, for the sake of her friends, while smiling and comforting each other, while desperately stabbing knives at herself and hurting herself, so as to put herself and the other party in the same situation.

These are not true friendships, but are deliberately done by the creators to satisfy the spiritual needs of the readers, which is not enough to be believed.

But life is not TV, life is far more real than ** and TV.

The real friendship in real life is that on the night you break up, you are willing to be your shoulder, let you cry so much, make her clothes into snot and tears, and still desperately comfort you; When you stay up late to do your homework, you scold you for deserving it, but sit next to you and write with you; When you are poor, you will give you half of your little rented house.

True friendship is positive, it constantly has a positive impact on both parties, so that both parties can develop in a better direction, rather than by hurting themselves, so that friends can get psychological comfort.

This is an insult to friendship, not the right way to open it.

It's not all blind giving, it's true friendship; Not all two-sided knives are for the good of friends; It's not about their own efforts, it's what friends need.

Our blind dedication may have caused more pressure on our friends and become a burden for the other party to move forward, which will make this precious friendship more and more heavy, more difficult to go on, and finally can only end in parting ways.