The first love failed, it was very painful, the beautiful ideals were shattered, and I want to confi

It can be seen that you are a very single-minded boy.

She's been with you for so long, which shows that she had feelings at first.

Later, is it because she thinks you're not as good as that person?

Where there is an end, there will be a beginning. Maybe your next relationship will be even better.

All you have to do now is work hard (or study?). and make yourself better.

I don't love it, why do you force her to do it.

She'll fall in love with someone else, and so will you.

Don't feel a little emotional, a love is a lifetime. Not so much eternal.

Is it hard to fall in love with someone? It's not difficult

Love is like this, you need to go through a lot to find the one you love, there is no smooth sailing love, what is needed is to dare to face it, let go, it is also a manifestation of loving someone, the road of life is very long, I hope you will find that person.

Child, that's only a temporary pain. After a while when you get a new girlfriend, you will completely forget about the painful feeling

It's normal to fail in love, let alone first love. Brother, if you want to open something, it's no big deal. Since I am a college student, I will work hard, forget about her for the time being, and make my own career in the future, and everything will be fine.

It's not terrible to fail, it's terrible to fall and lie on the ground and not want to get up. The girl has a big one, it's up to you. Your future is in your own hands, and you don't have any control over yourself, let alone others. Don't believe that first love is the most loved. Self-love is true love.

They are all people who have come over, and if you can't keep them, don't stay! Boring! Why bother to practice yourself and let others look down on you.

I think it's okay, she lets go because she falls in love with someone else, then you don't have to struggle anymore, because it's useless, and the future is still very long.

I sympathize with you, so forget about the unpleasant things in the past and believe that a bright future lies ahead.

YOUR FUTURE ... Well... Invisible to the future ...

Be strong in the face of yourself and face life.

Don't be discouraged, he just doesn't know how to appreciate you.

It's all part of growing up.

Do boys always have to bear some.

Hello. He has already filmed and is getting married, and he is doing well, and it is your own business that you are not doing well now. He doesn't care if you and his wife will be uncomfortable. It's normal to tremble like this.

Falling out of love is a kind of cultivation of feelings, if you can, don't give up and cherish it, if it backfires, cherish it, there is a saying called tragic luck. That's how it feels.

Start a new relationship, and it will come out slowly.

What do you think of it, there are a few first loves that don't end in failure!

He will always blame you for all the mistakes, and he will not cherish you and love you, and he doesn't want to think that you gave him your youth, and it ended up like this. There's no need, really, it's better to be relieved sooner. Time is a scary thing, and after a long time, you will realize how stupid your former self was.

It's hard to say who's right and who's wrong when it comes to feelings.

The landlord himself is also deeply aware of it.

There are quarrels, and there are also vents.

It's all normal.

Personally, I prefer people who are emotional.

Because he dares to love and hate.

And of course he's the most vulnerable to injury, because he's so sentimental.

It's fascinating.

If you don't want to, you can't do it. How old are you, if you are not old, you can work hard as a woman, whether you fail or succeed. You can confide in that person you find every time.

You can confide in him, which means that you have a good relationship, you trust him, and he is also a "good person" who can listen to you. You're not sure if you like him or not, and he likes you. You can tell that you don't like him at the moment, just treat him as a confiding object, and when you don't need to confide in, you won't care too much about him, so don't marry someone you don't like.

You have time, don't be in such a hurry.

Of course, if you are older, it is better to accept it, whether it is a man or a woman, the final destination is a family. If he's nice to you (the guy you're going to marry), live with him (provided you're not bored with him), and if she's bad to you, then go without saying that you won't ask that question.

Give you a piece of advice, first determine your goals, it will take about a few years to succeed, and ask him if he is willing to wait. If he is unwilling, and he is not really very good to you, then, you don't have to get married, if you are willing to wait, you can slowly cultivate a relationship with him, or you can find other single women to date her, which will solve your problems. Hope it helps.

Marriage is free, and the family will only talk about you. Feel relieved.

He has a high status in your heart, probably because of your previous relationship, which makes you believe in him unconditionally. That's why you confide in him.

Then start all over again and find that old self again.

Just cheer up and everything can be better.

I'll tell you a simple one, you may hear the cruel truth, most people in love, will see their lover as irreplaceable, but long enough after the end of the relationship, almost all of them can still fall in love with someone else.

There are a few people who are extremely delicate in their feelings, so they are hurt more seriously, and the first love is more impressive than the later love of those who have experienced love, so the beauty will be more memorable, and the failure of the first love will be more devastating.

Generally, they will complain that they don't want to live, and in the end, most of them will live, and you will be suffering now, after all, long enough, you will find that time is very important, and it is an effective magical power.

Only when you live can there be hope, and when you die, there will be no hope at all, life is divided and combined, why care too much about the momentary clutch? To die now is irresponsible to the person who awaits you in the dark.

Sometimes people's minds change. You were young and ignorant and did what he was angry about. Maybe he cares about this, or else, it's really changed. There's no need to change yourself for someone who doesn't love you.

First love generally rarely goes to the end, but the past is gone, and it is crucial to live well in the present.

Can you think about how easy it is for your parents to raise you? Even if they are obligated to support you, then you are obligated to support them when they are old, what if you die to them?

Teach him to learn to let go! That's how life is! Keep picking it up! Then put it down! What is there to cling to in the first place? There was nothing in the first place, where to stir up dust! It's best to follow the fate!

There are two great tragedies in life, one is full of ambition, and the other is discouraged - Napoleon goes out for a walk and relaxes his mind. Then keep him busy, set his goals a little lower, and achieve them little by little.

Tell him about inspirational characters.

For example, Chu Shijian was sentenced to life in 1999 (later changed to 17 years). Later, he planted oranges in the barren mountains and became a billionaire in 2014.

God's delay is not God's rejection:

He was 21 years old and had failed in business; 22-year-old, unsuccessful in the race for state legislature; At the age of 26, his lover died; At the age of 27, he had a nervous breakdown; At the age of 34, he lost the election for the U.S. House of Representatives; 45-year-old, unsuccessful candidate for the U.S. Senate; 47 years old, nominated as vice **; At the age of 52, he was elected as the 16th president of the United States. He was Lincoln because he firmly believed that God's delay was not God's rejection.

There's someone they care about, right? It's better to start here.

First love is the purest and most beautiful feeling.

In that case, forget it. She has found the life she wants. Then you can bear the pain and wish her happiness!

After all, you once loved each other, and it was enough to love each other.

A lot of things are fate. As long as we have worked hard. Nothing else. Because we've got this feeling right.

I know you're very sad and emotional, and it's going to be painful to break up with your first love for the first time. As long as time can help you, time will take away all pain and thoughts.

Be strong, and you will meet your destined lover.

After saying goodbye to her, there will be countless new beginnings waiting for you.

Is it?? How do you know what someone else's broken love looks like??? And who has truly loved someone who will not be painful in the face of falling out of love

Sometimes it's like this, no one knows what will happen in the next second, let alone half a year Since things have been like this, it can only be accepted.

When you find the next love, remember the pain you once had, and cherish it Don't think that you won't love anyone anymore, and don't think that she is the best, no one knows what will happen in the next second

I don't think it's good for you to linger in this missed relationship for long

Maybe it's beautiful to be gone, but life is full of scenery

In the days to come, whether it is studying, working, choosing friends, etc., you should set higher goals as soon as possible, replan your life with a healthy and happy mood, and create your own bright future.

You should know that when a woman really falls in love with a man, she will not look at his conditions, what she needs is the man's care and love.

Half a year ago, even if you couldn't give her anything, you didn't have to break up!

You deserve it! Don't hit you, don't be sad, find another person worthy of your love, and grow old!

May a lover eventually become a family.

A person who betrays himself quickly is not worth it for you to be sad for what she has done, this is good, at least know that she used to act in front of you, there are many good girls in the world, don't let the people who love you and care about you see your decadence and sadness and be sad, go to life happily to continue to find sweet love, I believe that within ten steps, there will be fragrant grass.

Do you know that you hurt him half a year ago? There's nothing wrong with her doing this, she just blames you for being too confident and making you wrong. Come out of here.

Falling out of love is painful, but doesn't this also bring out the beauty of love? Women invest in love faster and fiercer than men, so on the other hand, they have a relatively fast time to get out of the shadow of falling out of love! Except for individuals!

Although you gave her a lot of promises (and in the bottom of your heart), she didn't know because you didn't tell her what you thought in the first place! You draw yourself a great future at the beginning, but you don't tell your identified partner that you say she still has any hope to pin on you! Later, her tone changed because she thought that you changed your mind first, and you lost her first, so this is normal, after all, women love to hold hates, and they are more cautious!

It's just that she thinks you're taking her revenge, don't think too much about it!

The beauty of love should be grasped well, and don't regret it later! Women hate men the most when they ask to get back together after breaking up and saying that they broke up for your own good! Remember!

Fate is so fond of playing tricks on people, I want to open up!! It's painful, but it's a foregone conclusion It's time to let go, don't be too stubborn, it's not good for you or her. When you come out of this, start your life all over again The old things are always vivid, right?

Your story is really touching.

If she is this kind of person, you don't have to suffer for him, it's not worth it.

Feelings are an investment, and she's not the kind of person you think.

You should have thought about the consequences at the time.

People are stronger than they think!! It's going to be fine!!