Why is the mother in law always rushing to hold the baby, and the mother in law always wants to hold

Updated on parenting 2024-06-22
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The love of the next generation is something that young people can't experience, and the mother-in-law always rushes to hold the baby, which is the love and pity for her grandson. This intergenerational love is a kind of doting. All kinds of accommodation and all kinds of love.

    The doll is the mother-in-law's heart, and the mother-in-law is happy and happy when she grabs the baby. There is an indescribable happiness and joy in it. So the mother-in-law always rushes to hold the baby.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Mother-in-law likes babies, intergenerational relatives, is human nature, the younger generation understands the heart of the elderly, goes with the flow, lives in harmony, and makes the home full of happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Of course, it's because I like it, the next generation is closer, compared to his son's childhood, he may not be so precious grandson and granddaughter.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because she is now at the age when she likes to tease her grandson, the old man at this age has a love for holding her grandson and bringing a baby.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is probably because the mother-in-law likes this doll too much, maybe the mother-in-law is tired of filming you, you have to be considerate of the mother-in-law.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The old man likes it.,The so-called intergenerational relatives are like this.,If you like it, you can satisfy the old people.。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then I should congratulate you on finding a good mother-in-law. One may be afraid that you will be tired. Old people like juniors.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why does my mother-in-law always rush to hug her? Because mother-in-law likes children, the kind of mother-in-law likes, you will know when you become a mother-in-law.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The mother-in-law always rushes to hold the baby because she likes the doll.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My mother-in-law is very concerned about me. But I'm always rushing to hug it! Love for her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why does the mother-in-law always rush to hold the baby? That must be the mother-in-law who likes dolls.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's not great, you can be a lot easier.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you. Why does a mother hate her mother-in-law holding a baby?

    1. Worry about the baby being "snatched away".

    During the confinement period, the mother-in-law may be too fond of her grandson, or worried that the baby is crying and noisy for the mother to rest, so she likes to take the baby away, resulting in a very short time for the mother and child to get along. This makes the mother very uncomfortable, after all, it is the meat that fell from her body, and no one wants to think about it with the baby for a while. In fact, this kind of mother-in-law has no malicious intentions, and the mother can communicate well with her mother-in-law through her husband.

    Second, the mother-in-law does not pay attention to hygiene.

    The mother-in-law loves the baby too much, and she wants to hug and kiss when she sees it, and sometimes she may have just come back from outside, and her hands have not had time to wash. Bao Ma will definitely mind after seeing it, after all, the baby's resistance is weak, what if she gets sick?

    Third, the mother was ignored After having a baby, the family revolves around the baby, and almost no one considers the mother's feelings. When the baby is hungry, he wants to take him back to his mother to breastfeed, so that the mother feels like a "feeding tool", and she does not feel the care of her family at all, and it will also increase her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law.

    Anyway, the mother-in-law is willing to help you take the baby is a blessing, and if you encounter a problem, you can let your husband help communicate, and the mother can not be stuffy in her heart with any unhappy emotions, which is not conducive to physical recovery!

    It's really annoying that the mother-in-law always wants to hold the child.

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, it will take some time to sort out the answers, please be patient.

    Hello, glad to answer for you. Why does a mother hate her mother-in-law holding a baby? First, worried that the baby is "snatched" during the confinement period, the mother's body is inconvenient, the ability to take care of the baby is limited, the mother-in-law may be too fond of her grandson, or worried that the baby is crying and noisy for the mother to rest, so she likes to take the baby away, resulting in a very short time for the mother and child to get along.

    This makes the mother very uncomfortable, after all, it is the meat that fell from her body, and no one wants to think about it with the baby for a while. In fact, this kind of mother-in-law has no malicious intentions, and the mother can communicate well with her mother-in-law through her husband. Second, the mother-in-law does not pay attention to hygiene, the mother-in-law loves the baby too much, and wants to hug and kiss when she sees it, and sometimes she may have just come back from outside, and her hands have not had time to wash.

    Bao Ma will definitely mind after seeing it, after all, the baby's resistance is weak, what if she gets sick? Third, the mother was ignored After having a baby, the family revolves around the baby, and almost no one considers the mother's feelings. When the baby is hungry, he wants to take him back to his mother to breastfeed, so that the mother feels like a "feeding tool", and she does not feel the care of her family at all, and it will also increase her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law.

    Anyway, the mother-in-law is willing to help you take the baby is a blessing, and if you encounter a problem, you can let your husband help communicate, and the mother can not be stuffy in her heart with any unhappy emotions, which is not conducive to physical recovery!

    I hope the above is helpful to you If you are satisfied with me, please give me a thumbs up

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Nowadays, many newcomers and couples will not live with their mother-in-law and father-in-law, but when they have children, most mothers-in-law will propose to let the couple go back to live with their children, and then they are usually very keen on taking children, and they are more diligent than their mothers. What should I do if my mother-in-law is always rushing to take care of the child?

    First of all, there is a saying called "next generation parent", the elderly like grandchildren, and there is a common problem, that is, spoiling children, they are not unaware of the disadvantages of spoiling, but when people are older, they will unconsciously want to spoil the next generation, so take care of the child bend the yard is more diligent, the elderly will feel that they have the experience of taking care of children, and there will be the idea that the daughter-in-law is an outsider.

    Secondly, if the mother-in-law is always rushing to take care of the children, the first point is to firmly express to the mother-in-law that she does not need help, because only when she has a firm attitude can she impress others; The second point is to show your mother-in-law your ability to take care of children, show that you have the time, energy and money to take care of children, communicate well with your mother-in-law, and let your mother-in-law build trust in your mother's ability.

    All in all, in the matter of who takes the child, both parties must do a good job of communication and exchange to avoid conflicts and quarrels, and although the mother-in-law seems to love taking children on the surface, but in fact, taking care of children is a very hard thing, and they will also want to live a relaxed life because of their age, so as long as the mother has the ability to take the child, most mothers-in-law will let go.

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