It is always said that a daughter in law should be filial to her mother in law, but does her mother

Mutual respect and love are the most important factors in family harmony.

Whenever I talk about my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

There are many people who feel the same way. The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem in China since ancient times, and almost no one can give a one-size-fits-all solution, so why should mother-in-law bully daughter-in-law?

1. The reason why the mother-in-law bullied her daughter-in-law.

If the daughter-in-law does not have a job, there is no family income, and without family income, the family position is not consolidated. Therefore, a daughter-in-law with no family income is easily looked down upon by her mother-in-law, thinking that her son supports her daughter-in-law every day, but the daughter-in-law does not have any job and does not bear any responsibility for the family, so the mother-in-law will naturally bully the daughter-in-law. The deepest contradiction between a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law is that a mother-in-law loves her son very much, while a daughter-in-law loves her husband very much.

For that son, it is difficult to share the same love with his mother and his wife, which creates a source of conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

2. How should we treat the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Everyone is not an isolated island, and people are connected. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stems from the close contact between herself and her mother-in-law in daily life, which leads to the conflict between herself and her mother-in-law.

Since ancient times, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been very common, and we should treat them with a normal heart. The most direct, simple and crude way is to separate from your mother-in-law, the closer the connection, the deeper the conflict. If you are separated from your mother-in-law, your usual communication with your mother-in-law will be reduced, and the possibility of your mother-in-law bullying you will also be reduced.

3. How to solve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? The most important thing is to cultivate your own ability, when you have the ability, there are very few people who can bully you. If your own family income is a large part of the family's income, then the mother-in-law will also consider the family when she bullies her daughter-in-law.

The second is the correct communication with the mother-in-law, if it is just a simple contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is still good, then there is still the possibility of correction between the two. When I and my mother-in-law respect each other, I believe that my mother-in-law also has some sense, and then the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can naturally be alleviated, and my mother-in-law will not deliberately bully my daughter-in-law. Specific problems, specific analysis.

However, if the mother-in-law has made a serious problem, she can also take legal measures to protect her rights and interests.

In addition to being born a bad breed (very few), it is generally that he has been bullied by his in-laws, and now he has become a mother-in-law and is looking for his daughter-in-law to vent.

In traditional families, the status of a daughter-in-law is the lowest, and anyone can bully her.

There is no legal obligation. China's current law only stipulates the obligation of children and grandchildren who can afford it as supporters, and the spouse of the supporter is not a legal supporter. Although the law stipulates that the spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in the performance of the maintenance obligation, the obligation to assist is not the maintenance obligation and this provision applies only to the duration of the relationship.

1. What are the regulations for supporting the elderly?

The supporter shall fulfill the obligation to provide support, daily care and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly. Supporters refer to the children of the elderly and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law. The spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.

Parents and children stipulate the reciprocal rights and obligations of mutual support, but this does not mean that the two rights must be "exchanged for equal value", and children cannot take whether their parents have fulfilled their obligation to raise and educate them as a prerequisite for fulfilling their obligations to support their parents.

2. Do the successor parents have an obligation to support the children after the death of the spouse?

Daughters-in-law and sons-in-law are not legally required to support and have no corresponding obligation to support. The law stipulates that "the spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation", but the obligation to assist only applies to the existence of the marital relationship, and once one spouse dies, the other spouse's obligation to assist in supporting is automatically lifted. However, if the widowed daughter-in-law has fulfilled the main maintenance obligation to her parents-in-law and the widowed son-in-law has fulfilled the main maintenance obligation, she will participate in the distribution of the estate as the first-order heir in the legal inheritance.

3. Can parents ask their children to pay for the nursing home?

Parents can ask their children to pay for the nursing home. It is the legal obligation of children to support their parents, and children shall fulfill their obligations to provide financial support, daily care and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly; For the elderly who are in financial difficulty, medical expenses are provided; For the elderly who are unable to take care of themselves, they bear the responsibility of care. Article 1067 of the Civil Code stipulates that if parents fail to fulfill their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand maintenance from their parents.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children. Article 14 of the Law on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly stipulates that the supporter shall fulfill the obligation to provide financial support, daily care and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly. Supporters refer to the children of the elderly and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law.

The spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.

There is no legal obligation. China's current law only stipulates the obligation of children and grandchildren who have the ability to support the source of the eggplant as supporters, and the spouse of the supporter is not a legal supporter. Although the law stipulates that the spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation, the obligation to assist is not an obligation to support, and this provision only applies to the duration of the relationship.

Article 1067 of the Civil Code stipulates that if parents fail to fulfill their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand maintenance from their parents. Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Summary. As soon as the old woman said that her daughter-in-law was a daughter-in-law, her husband immediately quarreled with the old woman, which is also a normal phenomenon, because the old man did not want any conflicts between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which would affect the harmony of the family, so he would prevent the old woman from quarreling with her, because she wanted to solve the contradiction in the bud.

As soon as the old woman said that her daughter-in-law was a daughter-in-law, her husband immediately quarreled with the old woman, which is also a normal phenomenon, because the old man did not want any conflicts between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, which would affect the harmony of the family, so Ziye would prevent the old woman from quarreling with her, and wanted to solve the contradiction in the bud.

Because the daughter-in-law married the family is used to hurt the pants, not to say it to you, what do you ask your Hu Hui son to say that the old woman can't interfere too much in the daughter-in-law's affairs, and you must learn to respect, the old man feels that the old woman is not doing this right, so he said that he was going to quarrel with him.

This mother-in-law can do things, and the daughter-in-law advises her mother-in-law not to be angry, they are all a family, and they should care for each other and understand each other.

The mother-in-law scolded her son in front of her daughter-in-law, it is very likely that the son did something wrong, and it is best for the daughter-in-law not to intervene at this time and let them solve the matter.

You either pretend not to hear, or you also borrow a knife to warn him, my mother-in-law is like this, sometimes she scolds me for how bad other people's daughters-in-law are, and I say that the mother-in-law is not good, and immediately there is no sound.

The mother-in-law scolded her daughter-in-law in front of her daughter-in-law, which is indeed a bit excessive, is there anything you can't say well? Mother-in-law should understand you more, and she also came from her daughter-in-law.

What should a mother-in-law do if she scolds her son and daughter-in-law in front of her daughter-in-law? Don't be like the elderly, we are all young people, respect the old and love the young.

If the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, it may be to blame the son for not being able to get married, and he has not grown up after getting married.

Analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis, persuade and share the same hatred.

I'm sorry, we can't do this question, you can ask the people around you or go to the relevant unit, I wish you a happy life. I'm sorry, we can't do this question, you can ask the people around you or go to the relevant unit, I wish you a happy life.

My sister is now a migratory bird mother and has lived at her son's house for many years to watch her grandson.

The son and daughter-in-law are highly educated and educated, and even speak softly. My sister is bathed in the gentle wind and drizzle every day, and she has never experienced any thunder and lightning.

The baby is born, and the housework increases. In housework, women are mostly better than men, and men are not very enlightened in housework.

The baby is growing up day by day, the housework is becoming more and more tedious day by day, and the daughter-in-law is slowly changing. Her voice grew louder, and she began to complain about her son, and even sometimes even said something fierce.

is also a woman, my sister can understand the changes in her daughter-in-law after giving birth to a baby, but when her daughter-in-law complains or even speaks of her son in front of her, my sister always has a strange uncomfortable feeling in her heart.

It's uncomfortable to be uncomfortable, but my sister never blames her daughter-in-law, she walks away silently every time.

My sister often cooks ** porridge with me and tells her about her discomfort.

Don't meddle in their affairs, people don't kill you, as long as you have a good relationship with your daughter-in-law, as long as their relationship is good......"I often comfort my sister like this.

After every rotten spike is finished, my sister will sigh comfortably, and her mood will feel better, but when she lets go of the bad ** and meets her daughter-in-law complaining about her son in front of her, my sister has a knot in her heart again.

Alas, everything that should be said has been said, and the reason has been explained, and I don't know how to persuade her.

My dear friend, have you ever spent time with your daughter-in-law? Have you ever encountered a situation where your daughter-in-law complained about her son in front of you? What do you think about when you are in such a situation?