What are the marriage customs in Northeast City?

There are many wedding customs in the four miles of Northeast China, there are wedding cars, wedding dresses, Chinese-style, Western-style, and wedding ceremonies are often lively and very festive.

Bride: hold a red basin (wooden comb, mirror, slippers, handkerchief), the handkerchief is for the wedding and you have not been more than 100 days, prepare some trinkets, and give it to the lady who does not smoke when lighting a cigarette.

Xinlang: Cover the manhole cover near the new house with red paper, prepare some red envelopes, push the door when you go to your mother's house, put ten or twenty of them inside, prepare ten or eight of them, eat noodles at the bride's house, take the bride into the car after eating, put on shoes, eat dumplings for two people in the new house, basically nothing, modern weddings are basically Western-style, and the wedding will tell you how to do it.

Set off firecrackers, pick up the bride, receive the red basin, boys and girls, bridesmaids and groomsmen accompany, toast the elders, and change the mouth of the bride and groom. Prepare the bride's parents with meat, vermicelli, and sugar.

There are many customs in the Northeast, such as eating dumplings during the Spring Festival. On the second day of the second month, the dragon will eat pig's head.

Dialects: Northeast Mandarin, Beijing Mandarin, Chaofeng Film, Huaicheng Film, etc.

In my hometown, there are the following marriage customs.

1.Proposal Festival: In the Northeast, the marriage proposal of a man to a woman is usually a mountain event, and many people participate in it, such as singing performances and dancing, so as to create a romantic and warm atmosphere.

2.Buying a wife: The ancient custom of buying a wife is no longer popular, but it is still preserved in some places. The groom must pay a certain ration and gift money in order to marry the woman.

3.Joyful wine: Joyful wine is one of the most important links in the marriage process in Northeast China. The wedding ceremony is held one to two months before the wedding, depending on the arrangement of the bride's family, and it is traditional to invite relatives and friends to sit around for a drink, talk and bless the couple.

4.Chapel: Chapel is what the villagers call the exchange of glasses, which is a very serious and solemn ceremony, the bride and groom will exchange glasses with each other and drink, which means that they will support each other and be together forever.

5.Catching brown sugar: This custom originated in some mountainous villages and has a long history. The bride's face is embedded with red cloth, and all the women hold the basin in their hands and grab the brown sugar in the basin to the bride, expressing their prayers for sweet and happy life after marriage.

6.Hunting: A group of brothers, relatives and friends of the groom, dressed in primitive hunting costumes, perform a hunting ceremony to signify that they are about to enter into family responsibilities. The prey in the day's action is a pig, sheep or chicken.

7.Broken 2: The custom in some parts of the Northeast refers to the ritual of an adult man untying the red girdle, which means that the man is about to enter middle age and begins to take on more troublesome responsibilities for the family.

Northeast wedding customs have the afternoon before the wedding, the bride's sister goes to the groom's house to paste window flowers, receive gifts, after the groom enters the door, the relatives of the mother's family entertain the man's relatives to eat, the bride wants to hide the groom's shoes, the groom needs to find the shoes, before proceeding to the next step.

Marriage refers to what is legally called the establishment of marriage. It refers to the civil juristic act of both spouses to establish the relationship between spouses in accordance with the conditions and procedures prescribed by law, and to bear the rights, obligations and other liabilities arising therefrom.

1. Send off relatives. According to the Northeast marriage customs, the so-called "press" means that the bride's younger brother must go out to send off the relatives, the "press" when the newlyweds need to give a big red envelope, in addition to the bride's mother can not give her daughter when sending off, the bride's father can go, and the mother has to cry when sending her daughter, if the daughter also cries, it will make the mother's family rich, which is called "sprinkling golden beans".

2. Get married. According to Northeast customs, on the wedding day, when the bride enters the door of the man's family, she needs to change her mouth, put flowers on her mother-in-law's head and call her parents, and her parents will also give a big red envelope. When the bride and groom enter the wedding room, they need to eat peanuts and red dates to symbolize the early birth of a noble son, and all the boxes and cabinets in the new room will be piled with coins, meaning wealth, and then go to the hotel to hold the wedding at the scheduled time.

That's the whole process of getting married.

3. Return to the door. In traditional Chinese culture, the custom of returning to the door is the same, three days after the wedding the groom to accompany the bride to the maiden home, and at the same time to return to the man's home before the sun goes down, the bride goes back to the man's home, but must go back to the man's house before the sun goes down, if the bride's home is far away, then it will take nine days to return to the door.

My hometown is in the Tohoku region, and the marriage customs in the Tohoku region are also very interesting and unique. Here are some examples:

1.Roasted whole sheep: In the Northeast, roasted whole sheep is a very important marriage ceremony.

The groom's family will roast a whole sheep the day before the wedding to show respect and generosity to the bride's family. At the wedding, the groom will bring the roast lamb to the bride's home to share with the bride's family and relatives and friends, symbolizing the integration of the groom's family and the bride's family.

2.Hand-painted wedding characters: In the Northeast, the bride and groom will hand-paint a pair of wedding characters together before the wedding to decorate the wedding room. This pair of happy characters is considered to be an auspicious symbol, representing the good wishes and happiness of the couple.

3.Grab red envelopes: In the Northeast, couples will prepare some red envelopes at the wedding for the guests to snatch. This custom is an entertaining activity that also makes the guests more lively and happy.

4.Steamed buns with wormwood: In the Northeast, the bride's family will steam some steamed buns made with wormwood and flour to entertain the groom and the bride's family. This bun is believed to have the effect of warding off evil spirits and diseases, and also symbolizes the generosity and kindness of the bride's family.

5.Smashing the door: In the Northeast, the bride's family will close the door tightly before the bride enters the door. The groom needs to solve the "mystery of closing the door" in various ways, symbolizing true love and determination for the bride.

6.Lighting ceremony: In Tohoku, the bride lights a large red candle before the wedding, symbolizing blessings and good wishes for the new family. At the dinner, the bride and groom will once again light candles on the stage, symbolizing the purity of the couple and the eternity of love.

7.Firecrackers to welcome relatives: In the Northeast, the groom will set off firecrackers at the entrance to celebrate and festive. This custom is also considered to be a way to ward off evil spirits and bring good luck and good luck to the newlyweds.

8.Footwrap: In the Northeast, the bride will tie a footwrap around the groom's waist, symbolizing the love and protection of the groom. This custom also symbolizes the courage and strength of the bride.

9.Firecrackers knock on the door: In the Northeast, when the bride enters the door, the groom's family lights firecrackers as a sign of welcome and festivity. This custom is also considered to be a way to ward off evil spirits and bring good luck and good luck to the newlyweds.

10.Couplet hanging door: In the Northeast, when the bride enters the door, the groom's family will hang a couplet on the door, implying the happiness and happiness of the bride and groom. This custom is also a traditional Northeast culture, which reflects the pursuit and yearning of the Northeast people for a better life.

In short, the marriage customs of Tomokan in the Tohoku region are rich and colorful, not only with traditional customs but also with modern elements. These customs not only make weddings more interesting and memorable, but also reflect the unique culture and values of the people of Northeast China, making people feel the warmth and boldness of the Northeast region.