How to grasp the mentality when you are down, and how to deal with yourself when you are down

Ups and downs are life, and everyone has times of difficulty. A person, down, shameless, not terrible, terrible is "desperate", lying down, never wanting to get up again.

When you are depressed in life, you must learn to save yourself, and it is better to rely on yourself than on anyone. So how to "save yourself"? You need to maintain the following four "mindsets" in order to turn over as soon as possible.

1. Don't lose your direction no matter how chaotic it is, and correct your mentality in time.

On weekdays, friends who drink and eat meat don't call you anymore. The change of life will definitely make you feel very bad, and some people will "fall down" because of this, and "borrow wine to drown their sorrows".

In fact, when you are down, you must keep a clear head and don't live in a daze. Learn to think quietly, find your own strengths, avoid your own shortcomings, adjust your mentality in time, correct your mentality, and stick to your own direction.

A person, starting from what he is best at, is more likely to succeed, because everything is "familiar with the road", as the so-called "fall down, get up".

2. "Dead pigs are not afraid of boiling water", with a cheeky mentality.

You're so poor, don't lose face. "Death to save face and suffer sin" is really unnecessary. You have to keep your posture down, make yourself a bit of a scoundrel, and do whatever it takes to make money.

In these days, what is face, let's make more money", there is a popular saying on the Internet. Even you can be humble enough to beg, even if you meet an acquaintance, don't hide from it, perhaps, when the acquaintance sees you in trouble, he will give you a few more money. Although he is using money to ridicule you, you have to bear it, because only after making a certain amount of money can you have the "capital" to turn over.

When the opportunity comes, but you don't have enough money, you can borrow money with a dead face, although relatives and friends look down on you, but there are always a few friends who have a little confidence in you and will lend a helping hand. Your humility will be exchanged for your growth, allowing you to "turn over" as soon as possible.

3. A person has hope when he is alive, and he must have the mentality of "health is wealth".

When you have nothing, as long as you are healthy and alive, there is hope. You can sell coolies, do things that others don't want to do, and eat with your mouth, always without a problem.

If you complain about life every day, live a mess, and drink and smoke heavily, maybe your health will be lost. A few years later, you will be a "stinky skin", and you will be "scrapped" in this life.

As long as the body can bear it, why not be bitter? The greatest happiness in life is "bitter first and then sweet". No matter how much suffering there is in life, bear it, get through it, and turn over.

In the trough of life, if you choose to complain about the sky, most of you will gradually drift away from happiness in complaining.

When encountering a down-and-out time, a person chooses to sharpen himself, not only with the help of the current pressure, to improve his strength, but also to have more opportunities to seize the opportunity to break through, so as to grasp an unexpected success.

You know, no one's life can be spent in comfort.

If you want to take the people around you and live the life you want, you need to rely on your own strength, withstand the pressure from all sides, and become a person who is favored by life step by step through down-to-earth actions.

Be ready at any time and accept the test of life, so that you can enhance your personal competitiveness in the passage of time; Those lows in life will also become stepping stones to urge you to be strong.

In those low points of life, the days when you can move forward under pressure are the times when a person grows rapidly.

Because he is lonely and nameless, when he is down, wanting to get help from others is tantamount to a fool's dream; At this time, if you want to improve your situation, you can only grasp more opportunities by relying on your own efforts.

The world, life is varied, and you know your own warmth and coldness. Money has become the background of our self-confidence; Money has become our pursuit in life. Without the background of money, you, me, and him can't move an inch; Without the pursuit of money, you, me, and him may not even be able to eat bread.

When a person is helpless and has no money, you can see and see through everyone around you. This society is very realistic, money only has a piece of paper, but everyone can't live without this paper. When you are down, you will be looked down upon, and setbacks are inevitable, how can you get through it?

When people are depressed and helpless, they can only get out of the predicament by insisting on these three points.

First, when a person is poor, even if he is discouraged, even if he is not hard-spoken, even if he has no confidence in doing things, even if even the parents around you look down on you, you must remember: never give up on yourself, never give up on yourself! In the long trajectory of life, when everyone is in difficulty, when everyone is down, others are unwilling to pull you, then you will pull yourself, nothing more than sleeping on the street, nothing more than gnawing bread, life is strong, as long as there is hope in your heart!

When people are depressed and helpless, they can only get out of the predicament by insisting on these three points.

Second, when a person is poor, he must know how to be quiet and silent, he must know how to move forward hard, do not find people to complain at will, do not borrow money from relatives and friends at will, do not borrow wine to kill his sorrows, even if he is depressed, even if he is lonely, you must look up at the sky and bow his head to be a man. Looking up at the sky is the direction, looking down at the road is sober. And emotions are your inner demons, and only by defeating your inner demons can you slowly get out of the predicament.

When people are depressed and helpless, they can only get out of the predicament by insisting on these three points.

Third, when a person is poor, he must ensure the life of his lover. Husband and wife were originally birds of the same forest, and they flew separately when disaster came. Of course, most couples share weal and woe, and get through difficulties together.

But if your wife, who is in a knotted hair, because of your temporary poverty, is like a red rose that forsakes you and blooms alone, do not blame her. For you, in addition to being strong or strong, as long as the belief is still the same, as long as you act harder than before, you will have a comeback one day!

It's as simple as starting over, starting over, and it's all back to square one. There was nothing in the first place. First of all, I went to find a job that I could do to maintain food and clothing, and I was planning the next step!

You must have a direction, and if you stick to it, you will definitely be able to get through, and I am in this state now, but no matter how hard I work, I will not be confused.

It doesn't matter what other people think, as long as you maintain a confident temperament, then everything will be fine, it just depends on the mentality. The next choice depends on whether you are a brave man who dares to face it or a coward who only escapes! If you fall, you get up, you know.

It's to let the person who made you down.

The most important thing is to adjust your mentality, find a goal, and move towards him.