After reading this article, how do you think I should get along with my family?

Alas! Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. It's twisty enough, and it's poignant enough.

Personally, I think that there are some things in the family that are not clear, and at the same time, I can't tell what is right and wrong, but the starting point is different. It's okay to get by on the surface, and if you are together, you will gather more, otherwise it is better to be rare. so as not to cause more unpleasantness.

Every family has a difficult scripture, it is not easy to be a person, parents should also be more considerate of their children's hearts, too paranoid will always provoke some family disharmony and contradictions, as a child I feel that I should communicate and exchange with my parents more sincerely, rather than avoiding my parents!

Pretty much the same family as me.

You only have the obligation to support your mother, not your brother, and your brother is your mother's responsibility, so you can leave your brother's affairs alone, and you are not guilty in law.

Your mother helps you take care of the child, and he proposes a fund of 2,000 yuan, and you have to explain to him that the outside is professional, with professional knowledge and professional certificates, and if she doesn't want to bring it, she will bring it herself, after all, she has no obligation to help you bring it.

I suggest that you fix how much money you give him every month, no more, no less, more and less every month, and you will talk about it again next time you give less.

Bitterness does not eat children, your mother chewing the root of your tongue outside is not good for her, but she herself does not think of this, so your child will only be spoiled by her, and the most afraid is to say bad things in front of your child.

Personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.

I can only say that I am on my own! Don't expect anything she can help you with, there won't be so many contradictions. Anyway, you do your best as you can, as long as you are worthy of your conscience, there are a hundred of me in a hundred mouths.

A family relationship like this is really better than a stranger. Mom and brother don't give you affection, they only know money and money, you go all the way, rely on yourself, it's not easy, but they can't understand your difficulty, stay away from them, let them reflect on it. Distance produces beauty.

Just be a person who needs to be supported (no monthly money).

I think you're a cash cow to your mother, and now that you have a new family, you should also visit your mother's family for the holidays.

Your mother is a serious patriarchal mentality, and no matter how well you do, she will not be satisfied. As children, we should be ourselves and have no regrets. You still have your own life to live, don't always feel guilty.

It is appropriate to honor the elderly, do your best, and take good care of your small family, because your husband and children need you.

Live a good life with your husband. Give your mother some living expenses as much as you can, after all, it is still necessary to support the elderly. You can ignore other excessive demands, and you can't afford it.

As a child, you have done your best, and you yourself must understand that the value of your own life is not only in your family of origin, but also in your own life. The relationship with your mother, you did your best, and then you have a clear conscience, since you know that there is a patriarchal mentality, you don't have to force it. Live your life well and realize your life value.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and what my mother says is also the person who brought us into the world, sometimes when you can't figure it out, you think about it from the opposite side, maybe you can think it clearly.

It's hard to explain family matters, just have a clear conscience.

Quarrels over trivial matters are only the appearance of the generation gap, far from the essence of the generation gap. The essence lies in the difference in outlook on life, worldview, and values.

When I discover the essence of life's little things, I am suddenly so powerless: the generation gap is not an occasional disagreement; The generation gap is not the rebellion of youth or the excessive secretion of hormones; The generation gap is the collision and friction between a person and other people's worldview after they have a preliminary understanding of the world. The only way out is to seek common ground while reserving differences - under the same roof, how easy it is to seek common ground while reserving differences.

I know that he truly loves me and pays for me; I love them too. But we weren't destined to be one of the same people. I'm not a copy of them, I'm different from them, and I don't know whether to be happy or sad.

We always leave the bad temper to the closest person and hurt the closest person, mainly because the other party loves us, so we will lose our temper to him without any scruples, in fact, this kind of thinking is wrong, we should all learn to tolerate and support each other, leave the best side to the closest person, and be a warm-hearted person.

Life is not easy, and we are eager to meet warm-hearted people.

We are at home, and we hope to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry, how good.

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good.

If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he is the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, and I don't think anyone would want to. However, looking back, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?

I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well!

The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face became wrinkled, not beautiful, and her speech was vulgar, so I got tired of it.

Quarrels are frequent, and it is not pleasing to anyone who sends Wu to look at them.

So when you ask others to treat you well, first you have to treat people well. Those who love love to return, and the love is deep. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are distracted

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of harmonious, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, every day smile at you, never quarrel with you.

But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others?

If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person.

But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, such a day can be called a good day.

Not getting along may be caused by differences in personality, values, living habits, etc. Here are some suggestions that may be useful:

1.Try to understand each other: Try to understand each other's backgrounds, experiences, and lifestyles, and understand their thoughts and behaviors. This helps to reduce misunderstandings and conflicts.

2.Respect each other: Respect each other's opinions, feelings, and lifestyles, and don't try to change each other. Respect each other's privacy and personal space, and avoid interfering in each other's affairs.

3.Communication: If you have any questions or dissatisfaction, try to communicate with the other party to express your thoughts and feelings. When communicating, try to stay calm and rational and avoid emotional expressions.

5.Establish boundaries: If there is always a problem with getting along with the other person, you can establish some boundaries to protect your interests. For example, you can reduce the frequency of contact with the other party and avoid unnecessary conflicts.

6.Ask for help: If your relationship with your family is seriously affecting your life and emotions.

In conclusion, getting along with your family is a process that requires patience and hard work. Good relationships can be built through understanding, respect, communication, and finding common ground. If you really can't solve the problem, you must also learn to protect your own interests.

Calm down your emotions before you speak, communicate more, and confide in each other your thoughts, it's always difficult to start now, so start with being able to communicate calmly.