I like it but I don t want to be together, why?

Because of the distance, or because he doesn't deserve him. I like a genius, very powerful, tennis president, math president and a series of long, and a famous foreign university, although I don't think I'm worse than him in personality, but I always feel that I'm not the same kind as him. Although he also said that he liked me, but usually the two of them hold each other, afraid of talking too much and showing their own affection, he also kept silent, for fear of losing face, after all, we are experiencing the difference, I am not delusional, let it be, if there is no fate, I will be friends.

In fact, sometimes you don't have to think too much, how to be comfortable and how to socialize, maybe this is the fourth kind of relationship.

You don't have to be together because you like him but don't depend on him, and it's uncomfortable to be separated, of course, because you have him in your heart, but if you don't rely on him, it's probably because you don't have a common language, so you will feel sleepy, so you need to find your common language, talk more together, make more jokes, and make up for it.

It's because you're people from different worlds! I don't want to be together because of "reality" and because of "worldliness". The power of reality is powerful!

From the family background, living environment, family and friends, etc., etc. What kind of feelings do you call liking each other? Please think clearly!

Wishing you happiness!

Sometimes it's because of the distance that makes me beautiful

It would be better to give each other a little more space, I don't like the feeling of being tired of being together, it can be stressful.

And liking doesn't have to be to stay together every day!

Same. I'm so tired, too.

Although it is now separated.

I'm trying to make amends.

But the result is still unsatisfactory.

Alas. If it's not suitable, you can't be together after all.

Because I didn't meet the right one ...

No. Either side needs to have its own space, which goes against the nature of this kind of human nature to be naturally tired.

Like but don't want to be together, have you reached the level of being together, waiting for the other party to take the initiative, very cautious about feelings, and not dedicated enough.

1. Inferiority complex, etc.

1. It has not reached the level of being together

A lot of people obviously like each other, but they're not at the point where they're together. So they will engage in ambiguity, but most of them have no followers. When two people are unsure of how they feel, they usually learn more and spend more time together.

After all, falling in love is not something that is casual. There are many disadvantages to being together too quickly. It's easy to break up, and the emotional foundation is not enough.

To put it bluntly, if two people have been in an ambiguous relationship for a while, most of them don't like it enough.

2. Wait for the other party to take the initiative

Sometimes two people are in a state of ambiguity. They obviously like each other, but they don't express themselves. To put it bluntly, they still don't want to take the initiative.

They may still lack self-confidence. They may still be worried that the other person doesn't like them enough and will reject them. Of course, I don't want to take the initiative.

Another reason is that I'm worried that I'm going to cut the price.

3. Be very cautious about feelings

Some people are understandably very cautious about their feelings. After all, feelings are a lifelong thing, so even if they like each other, they won't choose to be together. Hesitation is normal.

Everyone has a self-protective mentality. The easier it is to get a person, the less you cherish it after you get it. Therefore, many people tend to be cautious about love and don't want to be together for the sake of someone whose feelings are uncertain.

4. Not dedicated enough

Many people prefer to be ambiguous with most people than to fall in love with someone. Many people will feel tired when they fall in love, and they will feel bored and lose their initial feeling after a long time. Single-mindedness is a one's responsibility and a commitment.

In any case, if everyone is ambiguous about themselves and just wants to play. This relationship will stop at the earliest because once you get into it, it will be very painful. After all, whoever takes it seriously first will be the loser of the game.

5. Inferiority complex

The most likely reason why a man loves you and is afraid to tell you is that he has low self-esteem and feels that he is not worthy of you now. Such a man may still have poor economic conditions at the moment, and his job is still in its infancy, so even if he likes you, he doesn't want to say it. He hopes to wait until he is a little stronger, and then tell you, hoping to be your dependence.

In addition to having low self-esteem, this kind of man is actually quite responsible, but he is also very good-looking and afraid of being embarrassed in front of others.

In this case, it should not be to a certain extent, although they like each other, but not to the extent of being together.

There are so many examples of this, and many people obviously like each other, but they haven't reached the point where they are together. So they will engage in ambiguity, but most of them will engage in it and there will be no follow-up. When two people are not sure how to feel, they will generally get to know each other again and spend more time together.

After all, falling in love is not a casual thing, and there are many disadvantages of being together too quickly, it is easy to break up, and the emotional foundation is not enough.

To put it bluntly, if two people have been ambiguous for a while, most of them don't like it enough, and they can't hide it if they like it enough. Most people are like this, hoping to be able to quickly confirm the relationship, how can it be delayed? However, there are also some boys who will have a lot of ambiguous objects, and in the end, he will generally weigh the pros and cons and choose a favorite girl to be with.

Like and don't want to be together, because you can't be completely sure of this love, you can't be sure what this relationship will bring you, you don't know how much happiness this relationship can bring you, so you will hesitate, I don't know whether to be together, if you are sure of this relationship, you will love her without hesitation, to care for her. Like and don't want to be together because you don't love him enough, if you love him, then you will want to be with him, want to be with him forever, and don't want to be separated from him. If there is no misunderstanding between you, then you will want to be with him and don't want to be separated from him because you love him.

You like and don't want to be together because you are not confident enough, and if you are confident enough, then you will want to be with him and not want to be separated from him.

If you don't want to be together, it's not necessarily that you don't like it, because when two people are together, you have to see if it's suitable, if it's not suitable, you will definitely not be able to go to the end, so you need to think about a lot of questions. Without basic life security and skills, who would dare to fall in love easily? It's not that many people don't like each other, but they think about a lot of issues.

In fact, this is a very real problem. Most young people's desire for love is far lower than their desire for work and career, both men and women.

Most people have no desire, or lack the courage to pursue the opposite sex, and do not want to be in a fruitless relationship. If you spend all your time and energy on self-improvement, the benefits will far outweigh the love. Because as soon as you enter into a relationship, you will have to put in a certain amount of time, energy, and money, and you will invest a lot of costs.

Of course, it's best to go smoothly to the end. However, if you break up after a year or two, or even three or five years, it will not only delay your career development, but also miss out on some good opportunities.

Today's young people don't like to fall in love and all want to make money, because without money, we can't do anything. Those aspiring young people are well aware of their strengths and weaknesses. Until they have a certain value, their only goal is to make money.

Even those who do not want to struggle, who are willing to lie flat, who understand their shortcomings, talk when they meet the right people, enjoy life when they are not satisfied It doesn't matter that love is not a necessity of life for today's young people. Only by having a certain occupation, money, and social status can the long-term stability of the relationship be guaranteed.

Most people who are reluctant to fall in love, or who have an attitude of rejection towards love, have been defeated by love many times, waking up in love, no longer fighting blindly, finding the root of the problem and resolving these contradictions one by one. In today's society, the pressure of housing prices, work pressure, work pressure and life pressure make everyone breathless. We really don't have that much energy and capital to invest in love, to solve the pressure of survival, not to let ourselves be eliminated by society.

Now young people are not worried about love at all, but money.

Personally, I think that if you don't want to be together, you don't like it, because if you like someone enough, then you will especially want to be with each other all the time.

No, because many people will have such a situation, two people will have some conflicts in the process of getting along, so there will be some problems together.

No. Because in addition to love in the adult world, there is reality, and there will be realistic reasons for not wanting to be together.