How do you deal with those you once loved?

It is impossible to be friends with people who have truly loved. Because when you meet, your heart will soften, and when you hug, you will fall, and even if you look at it more, you will want to have it again. The deep sea is surging and sinking, and the thoughts are not endless.

We don't feel sorry for those bad people and things at will, and we even feel sorry for why we looked like fools in the first place. But there are some people and things, even if time passes, they still think of and remember them by chance. If you want to travel back in time, stop the impulsive steps to leave, and immediately turn back; I want to let go of the face and dignity that are useless in the relationship.

Only bless, not slander, never strange. I think that's the best way to describe our relationship. I thought I wouldn't be friends, but then I found out that we were familiar strangers.

Occasionally, you will say hello, and you can smile and say hello when you meet on the road. I hated and resented, and finally understood, so bless, may we shine in a world that we can't see each other.

It's like a stranger, and it's the kind of stranger who will never get to know each other again and have any intersection, because they have all hurt each other, and they can't be friends again.

I'll treat them well, even if they don't contact me.

Loved", once loved, may still love, may only have memories, happy, sad, happy, sad... Either way, it's all shared. The beauty of longing when we are together, the expression from the heart, and the bits and pieces of life are all telling of love together.

I once loved, I once had you, and now I will treat you with a normal heart, and we will let the past and be friends now.

When I was young, I didn't know how to leave a way out, thinking that love and hate were decisive, since I didn't love it, there was no need to contact it, so naturally I deleted ** and deleted my friends, and made it look like I was breaking off my righteousness, and at first I would occasionally miss it, or inquire, and gradually I could forget it, and now I think about how much I feel naïve and ridiculous, and how much love I will wipe it off like that, I don't dare to mention it, in fact, maybe I can be friends, I don't mind it anymore. It's just that it's too late.

They really used to use true feelings, but there was no emotion later, because time slowly consumed their emotions, and they didn't meet the real right person.

Everyone who has loved others will have a big wound in their hearts, but they will be more mature and more aware of how to be good to another person.

They dare to practice their love, dare to fight for the people they love, they have been crazy for the people they love in this world, they are people worthy of my admiration, they are brave people.

Lovers and friends are two kinds of relationships, which also require affection, but the nature is completely different. For many men and women, many lovers have evolved from friends to couples, but there are always few people who can't be lovers and can become friends.

In my opinion, if one of the men and women no longer has a simple friendship with the other but regards the other as their own lovers, the friendship is already in jeopardy. Maybe they have secret feelings for each other, then this kind of result is the best, and in the end, there are lovers who will eventually become married. But if it's just unrequited love, one day, this friendship will burst into flames.

If they are still friends, it must be the emotional party who chooses to protect unconditionally and silently.

I was a girl, and I remember that when I was in junior high school, there was a boy who was always a good friend of mine. But when it came time to graduate, he plucked up the courage to confess to me and told me that he had liked me for two years. To be honest, I was very confused at the time, because I had never had feelings for him beyond a friend, and I already had someone I liked in my heart, so after I was relieved, I was deeply embarrassed and ashamed, and I felt that I couldn't live up to his love for two years.

So after I politely rejected him, our friendship came to an end. Although there will be morning greetings after high school, it is so embarrassing that we end up as strangers.

Therefore, I think that if one party is emotionally involved between men and women, unless the emotional party is willing to hide his heart all the time, unless this party chooses to protect each other silently forever, otherwise, this friendship is difficult to maintain, even if it does not become a stranger, this friendship has changed its flavor and is no longer so pure. If you are already lovers, but you are separated for various reasons, then there is no point in being friends again. Because they used to be lovers, and becoming friends, it is not appropriate to be too familiar, so they can only be passers-by without embarrassment, and this kind of friend actually exists in name only.

Personally, I think that after the age of 40, I will not regret not being with the person I once loved, since I can't be together, it means that the two people are not suitable, and I can't affect my current life because of the people and things in the past.

After the age of 40, I will not regret not being with the person I once loved deeply, because I was separated at that time, which means that the two people are not suitable, since I have separated, I have to accept the reality and face my new life, and I can't affect my future life because of him.

Learn to listen to your own voice and discern the difference between intuition and thinking. Be able to align with our inner thoughts when we are about to make a big decision or need to figure out why we should act. Sometimes we persist in the wrong path for a long time, and this is the time to recognize our limitations, admit the facts, and choose to give up when the time is right.

Focus more on the things you can control, spend time on the things we can change, and try to change ourselves rather than others. Life is a piece of pizza, the good and the bad are on it, and if you want to eat the delicious, you must accept the bad food.

Both good and bad things will happen in life, learn to accept it calmly, we are not the general director of life, and we can't deal with all the bad parts.

Accept the reality, do not stay in the past, do not live in the unrealistic imagination of the future, the past has become a fact and cannot be changed, learn to accept and turn it into an indispensable nutrient on the road to growth.

Live in the moment and cherish what we have while dreaming and working hard to complete the plan.

Be tolerant of the fact that wisdom does not grow with age, honestly face your own shortcomings, accept your imperfections, and strive to change on this basis.

Separated, you definitely can't be friends, because that kind of idea is not pure, hehe The two of them have become estranged, so I have to make the memories sweeter Recall him with a normal heart, and after a long time, you will find: In fact, the most difficult thing to forget in a period of time has faded away My experience, really Oh Finally, I hope you are happy! Because I met you in school, you weren't as melancholy as you are now, hehehe, what is love?

Worth the chase? Hey, if you want him to know, you will love him more, okay, only then is true love!

To sum up, what is your attitude towards the person you have loved? I'm an escapist attitude. Even if two people meet and are very flustered in their hearts, they must pretend to be very calm. However, it is also the state that will draw a line with him and not communicate with him.

Be grateful. I'm not a very extreme person, so I'm very grateful to the person I once loved, because he taught me how to love someone, so I will continue to love the next person with this love in the future, I think, it's an experience, but also a growth.

For the people I once loved, I will bury this relationship in my heart, slowly let go, and face it with an optimistic attitude, only in this way can I start a new life.

It's more relieved, after all, I used to be a very loving person, even if I didn't get together in the end, there would still be some regrets. But if he can meet a better relationship, I will bless him too.

I won't have a good attitude towards the person I loved before, in my opinion, after the breakup, I will treat him as if he is dead, I will not take the initiative to look for him, and he will not come to me.

For the former person, I generally have a blessed attitude, hoping that he can live a happier life.

In fact, I generally have a relieved attitude, because after all, I once loved, but now I have completely let go.

Gao Leng has a cold attitude, he won't take a second look, even if his heart is complicated, but he knows that the result is impossible.

As strangers, they are in each other's hands and forget each other.

There are things you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are nostalgic and destined to give up the pure take, there are many kinds of love in people's lives, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never end well, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other. You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other.

So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......After breaking up, don't be friends anymore, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply. If it's a friend, you need care, if that's the case, why should you choose to break up?? A relationship, a journey, a journey together, too much joy and touch, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

If you can, you must not have really loved, or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it is not a ...... that can be closed with a single pullIt is difficult for two people to love each other at the same time, and it is even harder to not love each other at the same time......There is no love or hatred in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends. Lovers are so close, friends are so far away......If you can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be friends, but the car obviously drove away, even if he returns to the original point again, it will be a different time......Different characters, different landscapes. We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ......

Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

Don't love him her.

Let it go, don't make excuses for your selfishness. Don't keep if you still love her, don't expect her to turn back ......Therefore, when you break up, you can't continue to be friends or enemies, and you can only be the stranger you know most ......