I m more violent, how to get rid of it, I want to be soft with people

Reading the Buddhist scriptures cannot resolve the violent character, because empty reason does not help to increase 'wisdom', it is just knowledge. Only by transforming the truth into behavior can it be slowly resolved. The Buddha taught 'precepts, concentration, and wisdom', that is, to keep the precepts, meditate, and cultivate wisdom is the complete stage.

There are some meditation articles in the lower space, and practicing meditation can cultivate concentration and wisdom. Especially when it comes to removing one's own 'water chestnut'.

It doesn't matter if you don't say good things, but you can't say bad things. It is not necessary to praise others for good words, but to use words to help others all the time, not to spread false words, not to be double-tongued, not to lie, not to gossip. Remember to be considerate of others when you speak, think twice before you speak, and think about whether what you say is true and whether it is appropriate.

In the time of the Buddha, the Buddha also belonged to the group of few words, and many new bhikkus misunderstood him. But only the arhats and the Buddhas really understood that this is called 'goodness', so he only spoke the truth.

Try to observe and learn from the way people who are good at interacting with each other.

But it's not for you to learn completely.

In this way, others will perceive your intentions.

Instead, it will be self-defeating.

Try to create your own way of interacting.

Read more books. Listen more softly**.

The above is just a personal opinion.

Spend more time with gentle people. Be forbearant and do not quarrel with others. Render good for evil.

Take a look at the teachings of the Bible:

Learn to understand and try to be tolerant!

Take a look at the Bible, it will tell you the moral standards of being a human being and it will purify your soul!

God loves you!

It is recommended that you recite the holy name of Avalokiteshvara more often.

Study history. This works best.

Or go and read the "Dharma Recitation Sutra"...or the Great Treasure Sutra...Quick results.

That's how I was, after you went through xx!Calm down and think about it, I think it will be a lot better!Cultivate your own interests!

That's who I am.

I read some books on spiritual cultivation such as Buddhist scriptures.

Look at it and think about it.

Just take your time.

The quality of a person's temper is related to a person's character, and a person's character is related to a person's virtue, and virtue cannot be pretended, and virtue must be cultivated bit by bit. Grumpy people are generally more impulsive people, in the face of many things often only rely on their own perceptual understanding to deal with problems, this is very bad, if when dealing with problems do not be so impulsive and rational look at the problem then the temper will be much better. Grumpy people will often talk and act aggressively, which not only gives a bad impression to others, but also encourages your short temper while others tolerate you.

Grumpy people usually lack self-control, and self-control is actually very easy to exercise, when you are doing something that you find very interesting, if you stop doing it and there is nothing to lose except for making you feel unpleasant, force yourself to stop immediately and not do it. Suggestion: Insisting on long-distance running every day is also a good way to exercise self-control, 2000 meters a day, so that you insist every day, your self-control ability will inevitably improve, and it is impossible to improve it after three days of fishing and two days of drying nets.