What should I do if I am dead set on college life? I m annoyed!

Lack of pursuit and lack of spiritual support has caused you to be in the situation you are in, but now that you are aware of this situation, it means that you still want to pick yourself up.

I think your father must love you very much, and he doesn't want you to be as depraved as you are now, and you have a mother, and you have family, and friends, what would they think if they saw you like this? Distressed? Wrath? Or, sad?

I don't have any good advice, I just hope that you can think more about your relatives and friends, think about your future, you are still young, you still have a long way to go, look at those people with disabilities, they are more difficult, or have so many achievements like that, what about you? You might as well make a plan for yourself now, whether to continue your studies or get a job after graduation, think about what you want to do in the future, make a choice, and where you want to be in 3 or 5 years. At that time, if you look back and can you say that you are worthy of the determination of those years, I don't think you would have been an ordinary person at that time.

Now is the time to work hard, so let's take the first step to pass the exam!

Call 120 and ask your doctor to activate your heart with a shock, or more.

College itself is a process that gives you growth. Many of my friends are like this, they are numb to their college days, and now there is a lot of social pressure and it is difficult to find employment. It's normal for you to be in this situation, and it's not just you.

However, you must not become depraved by this blow, you have to have faith in life, in learning. Think about what we have at the moment, maybe we have a lot of things that others don't have. Have the spirit of Ah Q!

Chat with a friend or read some of the more profound books! As for learning, let's learn more about the technical side! Don't waste your good school days!

There is no big deal in life, don't walk into the net you have woven for yourself! Live with confidence! No big deal!

Go find your motivation and do what you love to do

Read well... Only then can we have a good life!

Not interested in learning content

Use your willpower to overcome rejection and complete the learning task. And willpower is a scarce resource, which is quickly used up, so it is very hard work and will consume a lot of psychological energy. And learning itself requires betting and consuming a lot of mental energy, so it is indeed difficult to rely on willpower to persist in learning for a long time.

I'd think boredom is an alert from the body and mind: Hey, you're overusing me, I'm tired, stop and rest! Rearrange my time and energy so that I can continue to learn.

Learning is a very complex mental activity that requires the strong participation of attention, memory, and thinking, and in fact it is accompanied by some emotional experiences. The speed, intensity, flexibility, and duration of these mental activities are related to many factors, such as whether you have enough sleep, enough nutrition, and full of energy, whether you are interested in learning content, how strong your motivation is, how much and how difficult the task is, etc., all of which will affect the state of immersion in learning and then affect the learning efficiency.

You can also manage and apply learning strategies, such as being aware of what you are bored with in English learning, what you don't like the most, and whether there are alternatives or learning methods available to you that can make your learning a little more interesting. For example, in the memory strategy, words are grouped into blocks of meaning, and words whose meaning can be related are memorized together, which can improve the memory effect. You can discuss these learning strategies with your classmates and teachers and try to do them to see if they work for you.

In addition, when memorizing, multi-sensory participation such as seeing, speaking, hearing, and handwriting can also improve the memory effect.

If you have good classmates with similar English skills to you, it may also be helpful to be able to make a plan together and study the same content together at a fixed time every day, communicate with each other, check each other's learning progress and mastery. Having other people working together towards a goal usually makes learning a little more fun and requires a lot less willpower, because it's a bit like you're giving each other the burden of pushing yourself. There is also a feeling of being supported when studying together, which will also inject energy and vitality into yourself, making you more willing to learn.

You should adjust your mentality, relieve this pressure, study hard, don't always think cranky, and relax appropriately.

If you are bored with school, you should go out for a walk and relax, and don't confine yourself in school, which will make the situation worse.

As a college student, I have started a new beginning. If you are tired of studying, you can find psychological counseling to help you solve this problem. In addition, in college, you can also find some hobbies to enrich your college life, be positive, and become a better person.

Discover the strengths, everyone is unique, you must have some expertise, you need to dig it and carry it forward, spend some time and energy to do it well, so that you can be confident from the bones, "this aspect of the skills are not as good as others, it doesn't matter, because I know that I am unmatched in that aspect", the happiness of no one will definitely offset the anxiety of not being as good as others.

Recognize yourself, you must be clear about your goals, understand what you want, what is important and what is not important, what must be obtained, if the reason for your anxiety is just simple envy, then you must know that blindly following the trend will only be swept up in the waves, deviate from the course and see the wrong scenery.

Catching up, with the right amount of anxiety, is not a bad thing, it keeps us awake, pushes us to work hard and keeps moving forward.

In order to solve the problems of students, the school first needs to know what the troubles of students at this stage I have just entered college, and as far as I know, the troubles of middle and high school are nothing more than these 1The contradiction between learning and entertainment In the study period, learning should be the main task of students, but at this time we are also in the period of playfulness, and playfulness often brings a decline in academic performance, which is also unwilling, which leads to contradictions, students are often troubled by this problem, and some students do not think clearly and begin to abandon their studies. 2.

Love In high school, many classmates talked about love, and some of them were eager to try, which is also a question that bothers them, to talk or not to talk? How to deal with the relationship between study, life and love? are bothering students 3

Stress of going on to higher education Students in the third year of high school are generally more stressed, because they will face the Chinese college entrance examination, and the gap between the reality and the ideal may make them generally more stressed. In order to solve some of the above problems, I think the school should first train the class teachers and teachers, and then carry out collective education and training in the class or grade level, and can also set up psychological counseling rooms in each grade to help students with these problems, as well as enrich the students' extracurricular life, and can also reduce the troubles of students, so as to reduce the possibility of going to Internet cafes to solve the confusion of reality. Specific activities should be carried out around these issues.

Hope it helps.

To correctly understand and deal with the contradictions in life, college students need to establish a correct concept of happiness.

1. Layuan happiness is an overall category of Xixun. Happiness is relative, and different people have different standards of happiness. The process of pursuing happiness is the process of not being satisfied with the status quo and constantly pursuing and creating a better life. Happiness comes from struggle.

2. Achieving happiness is inseparable from certain material conditions. While pursuing the improvement of material living standards, we should pay more attention to the pursuit of noble morality and personality, and to the pursuit of a healthy and noble spiritual life.

3. In the process of pursuing happiness, we cannot base our happiness on the basis of harming the interests of society as a whole and others.

How to deal with the problem:

1. Enhance personality adaptability.

Personality adaptation refers to the fact that in the process of an individual's personality development and maturity, his personality traits are closely related to changes in the social environment and physical and mental development, maintaining harmony and consistency, and reflecting a good adaptation situation.

Transforming a bad personality and cultivating and optimizing a good personality is the first step in establishing and developing good interpersonal relationships.

In addition to friendship, there are many other factors that affect personality adaptation, such as parent-child relationship, family environment, educational environment, temperament type, etc., and friendship relationship may interact with other factors, so it may be more meaningful to combine friendship relationship with other factors to examine its role in personality adaptation.

2. Students should learn to reduce stress on their own.

In general, there are two basic ways to cope with stress: the first is to focus on the problem, that is, the person estimating the environmental scenario in order to change the existing individual-environment relationship. The other is to focus on emotional coping, where the person tries to reduce the anxiety rather than directly dealing with the situation that generated the anxiety.

It is recommended that you go out for a walk, climb a mountain or something, relax your mood, and the increase in intense study and employment pressure has given you a lot of influence. There are also some bad things that you are exposed to in life, such as pornography, gambling and drugs. Therefore, if you want to untie this knot, you should communicate with others more, go out for a walk more, and don't have the idea of suicide.

Do you think it was so easy for your parents to raise you?

Even if you have the courage to commit suicide, what else is there that you don't have the courage to do? So you have to live well, that's the most important thing, there are people who care about you, and there are people around you.

Do you have a goal?

If you can't think about it, what are the goals of the people you care about the most?

Put aside your problems for a while (it doesn't seem helpful if you think about it now, but the most important thing is that you still have hope) find out what you are capable of doing and that are valuable to yourself or others, and make it a goal, even if it's just to try to live for those things.

People can live with problems, only by living endlessly can they solve problems step by step, and living is a test of patience. I hope you can get out of this period as soon as possible, and I hope that I can take responsibility for my life (not someone else's) and have courage!

It is better to ask for others than for yourself, and inner strength can help you get out of trouble.

It's a bit of a serious problem, but it's up to you.

The problem of homosexuality remains unresolved.

Want to ask, is it just a tendency or is it already sexual?

This is a different stage, and the counseling program for psychological problems is also different.

I'm worse than you and more failed than you.

I'm in my junior year and I've spent two years in vain, and it's only now that I really realize that college is really self-taught. What the teacher gave you, you received is your knowledge, but this is far from enough. You also have to study a lot of things that you are interested in, about professional research, etc.

In addition, someone once gave me a sentence: youth is used to fight. Whether your problem is not a problem depends on how you deal with it.

Everyone has their own ideas, but people want to be affirmed by others, so when other people's ideas are rejected, they will be very overwhelmed and feel that the future is bleak. Just like your current problem, you may have reached the end of how to improve, but you don't take action, and you worry about it and that, then you will never be able to change it.

Let go of your worries and move forward. It's hard to do, but it's much easier for someone looking to change the status quo with the first step forward, and the rest of the way is much easier. Then, be true to yourself, do whatever you want, learn to ignore the eyes of others, as long as you don't hurt others, then let go and do it.

Classmates, list the solutions for each of your own, since you already know where your problem is, then you can definitely know what you really need to solve, don't run away, the face will face after all, no one can support you for a lifetime, I hope you can be a self-respecting, self-respecting, self-loving college student, only to overcome yourself, is the best solution, heart disease still needs heart medicine, and the bell must be tied to the bell. good lucky to you！~~