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Study hard and live seriously.
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College students are psychologically mature enough, but they will inevitably feel lost, always feel that life has no direction, are at a loss for the future, and may be afraid of what is about to happen. In the face of this situation, I think if you feel lost, then find out the reason, the right medicine, in fact, the confusion is only temporary, rest assured, don't panic, let's analyze the reason.
First of all, the reason for confusion may be that you have not found the way you should go, there is no road, there is no goal and direction, you will be trapped in your own world and feel confused, overwhelmed, in this case, we have to think carefully about what you want to do in the future as you grow older, what you want to do, what you want to achieve, if there is, you think about how to achieve it, and slowly explore your own way, so that you will find the direction for this goal, and the confusion will follow. Everyone will feel confused, we have to treat it with a normal heart, do something meaningful for ourselves, and the confusion will be solved.
Secondly, confusion may be encountered something bad, so that you are in a bad mood, so that you feel that life is meaningless, and then you will feel confused, always feel that the world is out of place with you, always think that the world has you or not, it doesn't matter, don't be afraid, and talk to your friends about your heart, so that you will find a lot of unhappiness, confusion will quietly dissipate, those bad thoughts will also be relieved, encounter things to release it, hold it in the heart will definitely be uncomfortable, If you don't have someone you want to talk to, then find something you like to do, such as watching movies, listening to **, playing games, running, etc., these are all things that can allow you to release your heart, or you can find some delicious food to eat, satisfy your stomach, and your mood will be extremely comfortable.
In short, all confusion is temporary, don't be afraid, if you find the right way, you will come out soon, don't give up on yourself, tell yourself in your heart every day, you are the best!
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College life is very confusing, and for most college students, this is a very normal phenomenon. We have gone through a 12-year learning journey, and in this process, we have cried and screamed. It's an important memory that we will have in our lifetime.
At each stage of this journey, we have our own goals and intentions. High school is the college entrance examination.
And when we entered the university, we didn't have the courage to fight at night. Because we lack a goal, we lack a plan.
For most people, there is a common perception that everything is easy when they enter college. Don't be too anxious, don't be too anxious. But day after day, you will suddenly find that your value is not reflected in any way.
I don't have any sense of belonging. It will lead to confusion in life. Of course, another important factor is the uncertainty of the future.
The main reason is the employment problem.
The best way to solve this problem is to find your goal, which is to study hard during college. To do their own work well, improve the overall strength of the individual. Guaranteed employment at a later date.
The second is to keep yourself in check. I can keep trying, keep socializing, improve my communication skills, improve my skills, and make good changes, which is a sentence that I particularly like my classmates. Otherwise, you won't be able to change it tomorrow, make a good plan, start today, every minute and second, and cherish it.
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1. Participate in extracurricular activities and social practice. You can not only make good friends who share the same goals, but also broaden your horizons.
2. Simple travel. You can use the vacation to go to the surrounding cities and towns, not necessarily to go to the attractions to check in, there are also different scenery along the way, feel life, and taste the story.
3. Reading, high scores are recommended and low scores are niche, as long as you are interested in books, you can pick them up and take a look.
The reason for confusion is that you don't know what you should do or what you can do, so in this case, learn more about the world around you.
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A confused child, like a chicken that has not broken its shell, no matter how good the temperature of the outside world is, no matter how suitable the conditions are, if he doesn't work hard inside, everything is in vain, and in the end he can't escape the fate of indulgence.
If you are a college student who is confused, then you need to have a deep dialogue with the heart, don't think about it before that, you have to think about your future, how to go on the road of your life? If you think about this problem, you will get out of the confusion, in fact, this is a relatively backward process.
In the process of self-dialogue, we should think about the following two topics:
1. What do I want?
The so-called confusion is to lose a sense of direction, standing at the intersection of life, not knowing where to go, don't be the headless fly, don't be a sheep in the herd effect, at this time please look forward to the future, what kind of life you want to live, what kind of dream you want to complete, even if it is not a dream, at least it is a goal.
To illustrate, if you want to put down roots in the city and don't make a wireless kite, so you want to have a house, then that becomes a clear goal, and the premise is that you need to have a stable job and a decent income, and all this must be based on a good academic performance, so are you still confused?
2. What should I do?
Do not accumulate silicon steps, no thousands of miles, to understand the truth of gathering sand into a tower, you already have your own goals, with a direction then the rest is to be a group of action, the unity of knowledge and action, the efficient use of limited time, when you through hard work in exchange for results, you will step into a virtuous circle of track, you will find that the air in the high places is even fresher, refine and quantify your goals, and take action.
Everyone has been confused in their youth, some people have walked into the labyrinth and lost their direction, while some people have found the compass of life, that is, dreams.
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Dude, a lot of bai freshmen.
It's all confused. I was a freshman in college
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Don't talk about the big truth. Most people will have such emotions, and they are the most in your time period, and the landlord can feel that he is clearly white. The advice is there, but it's very earthy: study hard!
First of all, don't fall too far behind in your major, at least 70-80 points.
Secondly, if you want to develop in your major, then get in touch with professional courses in advance, anyway, most of the universities rely on self-study, so why can't you learn?
Then, if you want to go to graduate school, don't worry, wait until the summer vacation of your junior year to study hard. Learn as much as you can before doing so.
Finally, a few pieces of advice:
1.Either way, keep learning! There is poetry and books in the belly! After learning more things, the whole person will be reborn, which is not an exaggeration!
2.Teachers are definitely the best resource in college, and there is one of them! No matter how much you talk to your teacher.
Don't feel that your grades are average, and teachers are reluctant to take care of you. Many times when you are brave enough to communicate with your teacher, you will only regret why you didn't do it earlier!
Hope it helps.
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Because you haven't found a way to really enrich your college life, the majors you have studied, your life, and making friends, you may not really appreciate the fun of them, and don't regard college as the end of your life but a new starting point in your life
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It's because your arrangement is unreasonable, or you don't have enough friends around you, I think college life is very good, I don't feel confused, you usually go to class, you can go to the library to read books in your spare time, I feel that there is not enough time, but also in your mood and attitude at that time, to be optimistic, positive, so that life is not confused.
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For more than ten years, we have been struggling for the college entrance examination, but once we have crossed this setback, we feel a little overwhelmed. Now I have a lot of free time to look to the future, maybe beautiful but far away. It seems that the road under my feet is too long, and I don't want to walk but have to walk, but I don't know how to go.
I don't want to be confused, but I am confused.
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Do 2 things first, buy a few books and come back to read, modern literature, famous books are fine, try to calm down and read.
Then select a sport to work out.
Skipping classes, playing games, retaking exams, drinking, ......Except that I didn't find a girlfriend, everything was ready.
Messy and not messy to look at the individual, don't call the outside world. It's like social chaos, if it's chaotic, do you want to go out of society, college life is on your own, your life plan is also a university, it doesn't matter if you go out of society, it's a difficult life, what society needs is experience plus a diploma, and a single diploma can't eat. So we have to practice more now and pave more for the future.
I hope you don't be affected by the people or things around you, set a goal for yourself, and strive for it, or when you play, you think about your parents, they send you to the school Chu Zhong seems to let you go to study, a good time does not have to be a waste of learning, I was born in accounting, pay special attention to input and output, that is to say, the more you pay, the more you will get, the same principle is the same in learning, I heard that people who didn't learn in school have nothing to do in society, and they may not even be able to support themselves. I remember when I was in school at that time, my parents and money were the driving force for my study, hehe, because the family conditions were not good, so every time I ate snacks, I would think that my father was often reluctant to buy a cake outside, and I couldn't eat it when I thought of it, and I sometimes really didn't want to study, but I thought that my one-day tuition was so wasted, and it was not easy for my parents to earn this money, so I studied hard. Hehe, after all that, I don't know if you can understand what I want to express, my expression is not very good, I laughed.
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