My roommate and I have a crush on a guy at the same time, what should I do?

Haha, this is easy to do, first of all, don't worry about being introverted, the so-called radish greens have their own love, maybe people like to be introverted, so don't change yourself for the sake of liking a person, first.

Clause. 3. If the second article doesn't work, confess, and you chase him.

Clause. Fourth, if the above article is not enough, give up and find your true love.

I don't know if this can help you.

Say nothing. Look for opportunities to go out with them, and then carefully observe the guy's attitude towards you. There are 3 possibilities: 1:

He is interesting to you [You have to get along with him slowly and make him fall in love with you. Then he pursues you frantically in front of your friends, and you look erratic and hesitant] so that your roommate doesn't blame you, and love and friendship are both abundant. 2：

He has feelings for your friend [You give up, there are many good boys.] But you can't lose a good friend who gets along day and night] If she also treats you as a good friend, maybe she will give up with you! 3；If you don't like it, then you can be friends with him for everything.

This question depends on the boy you like, if he also likes you, not your friend, then you can accept him, if your friend really likes your friendship, she should be more aware that it is not your fault, and will be so blessed If the boy doesn't like either of the two of you, then it's nothing, everyone has a love for beauty, since you are good friends, it is not surprising that you have common preferences, but if he likes your friend, then you better bury your feelings in the bottom of your heart

Boys are all different, some like cheerful and some like introverts! It depends on which type he prefers!

As for the girls! There is no way to grasp the release of feelings, and sometimes boys will not like it if they are too active, because many times what they can't get is the best! However, if the boy is introverted, you also need to take the initiative!

I don't know much about the situation, so everyone can only talk about their own feelings, and everything has to be grasped by yourself!

Get to know the boy first. If it's me, I don't like it, I don't like it, it doesn't matter if you come first or last, if I like you, I will always like you, if I don't like you, someone I like will appear in the future, or I will leave you. So find out what type of person the boy likes.

If you have a particularly strong relationship with your social friends, find an opportunity to reveal to her that you have a crush on that guy, see how she reacts, and if she explains it to you, you'd better give up, she's more important.

Zhang Ailing said: Meet the people you meet among thousands of people; In the past tens of thousands of years, in the wilderness of time, there is no earlier or later step, and I happened to meet, only to ask softly: "Are you also here?"

Be the first to show your attitude!

Strike a strong attack!

Happiness is earned by yourself! You also have the power to fight for it.

There is no need to make.

Ha ha! Let's find out if he likes you or not. Then make an informed choice!

Ay. Love has to take the initiative.

Otherwise, no one can help you.

If she had said it first.

Then you'll have to never be able to say anything.

Otherwise, your friendship will be gone.

So you have to strike first.

This is the reality.

kidnap your roommate, otherwise learn from Ma Jiajue, how simply do you!

See if you have the courage!

There's nothing wrong with liking him!

Be bold! Support you!

If you like it, go after it.

You said that you are an introverted girl, so what others say you will listen to?

Let's figure it out for ourselves.

Don't hesitate to chase after the first strike.

Roommate Peng told roommate Yu that Xiao D would invite her to dinner tomorrow.

Because of running, I met Xiao D first and got to know each other first. I had a crush on him during the two weeks I ran with him, and I was happy to think about him during that time, and I was especially looking forward to running with him during the day.

Although I have a crush on Xiao D, I basically don't talk to him except for running. When I was running, Xiao D would talk to me a lot like a chatterbox, and I was very happy when I ran with him.

Xiao D has a good impression of his roommate Peng, and invites his roommate Peng to dinner tomorrow, I am indeed a little sour.

I don't know how my roommate Peng attracted him, is it because she is more active and humorous in chatting with people online?

To be honest, I didn't find anything outstanding about my roommate Peng. Maybe it's because she has a lot of love experience and has learned the essence of true love.

Also, I basically send text when I chat, except for my family and boyfriend, I basically can't send voices. For boys who have a good impression, they will not send random voices. I was a little surprised to hear my roommate Peng send a voice message to Xiao D at night, and Xiao D also voiced back to her.

In my case, I feel that voice can only be pronounced by very close people, maybe I'm too old-fashioned.

Although I've been in a couple of relationships, I've never been casual with feelings. There is a clear boundary progress towards feelings. For example, if I have known each other for less than three months, it is absolutely impossible for me to pierce the window paper.

For feelings, I uphold the attitude of digging slag and disturbing the cycle gradually, and the gradual span of this cycle may be a bit long, at least half a year.

So the average person can't notice my slow pace of advancement, and gah, maybe I'm waiting for the enthusiasm to gradually dissipate, and the interest will soon be gone.

Some people are very dull and shy in real life, but they are very open-minded. Some people are very enthusiastic in real life, but they are very "cold" online. I fall into the latter category, and if no one is looking for me online, I basically don't take the initiative to find someone else.

In real life, I may not be happy to talk to you for an hour or two, but online, I can talk for half an hour and be considered "enthusiastic".

I really don't understand the girls who are very enthusiastic and open online, don't you feel "embarrassed"? They may also ask: Why am I so "social cow" in real life, don't you feel embarrassed?

It's really contradictory, no matter what.

I, a person who comes and goes quickly, don't fall in love, so as not to delay other people's youth and harm others, hehe.

If you can't fall in love in years, don't start it!

Summary. Dear, when a boy likes you, he will silently care for and take care of you, when you are happy, he will be happy with you, when you are lost, he will find a way to make you happy, because he only has you in his heart, and your happiness is his only wish. <>

The boy I like, he also likes me, but I feel that my pants friend also likes that boy, and they have a good chat, I wonder if that boy has any thoughts about my roommate?

Hello dear. The boy you like, he also likes you, but I feel that my roommate also likes that male manuscript Lasheng, they have a good chat, this boy feels that your roommate is just an ordinary friend, and the chat is just a feast, because the person he really likes is you, and he should have confessed to you, so you can rest assured. <>

Dear, when a boy likes you, he will care for and take care of you silently, when you are happy, he will be happy with you, when you are lost, he will find a way to make you happy, because he only wants you in his heart, and your happiness is his only wish. <>

But my roommate was bad between us and sowed discord, and the boy has a very bad attitude towards me now.

Dear, then you should pay attention now, you must find a way to get the boy's heart, your roommate is indeed very <>

Dear, does that boy know that she is making a bad deal in the middle?

I don't know.

Dear, you are a very kind girl, so don't let your roommate sue first. <>

Dear, when the boy confessed to you before, did he say that he liked you**? <>

No. Dear, boys like gentle, beautiful, sensible girls, because people are lacking in the visual animals of the forefront, and they all like beautiful things, so you must do self-regret and not improve, and deeply attract her. <>

Dear, is the boy ignoring you now? <>

Dear, you can explain the situation in detail with the teacher, so that the teacher will better help you find a way to regain his heart. <>

Give you the Imperial Judgment Mausoleum to be careful to calm the hearts of Qi Chong Yin].

I don't bother with it.

Dear, he ignored you, and you didn't take the initiative to look for him? <>

Dear, your biggest problem now is that your roommate and this boy can talk more about the car, it should be that you don't usually communicate with him much, so it will lead to the chain imitation of others taking advantage of the <>

Hug and call hug].

Summary. Honey, is there a possibility that the guy is bribing your roommate to get your news.

The boy I like, he also likes me, but I feel that my roommate also likes that boy, and they have a good conversation, I wonder if that boy has any thoughts about my roommate?

Honey, is there a possibility that the guy is bribing your roommate to get your news.

Probably not. So when the three of you are together, how does the boy behave, do you care more about you or your roommate?

The three of us had never been together, and I had met the boy alone. But I feel like my roommate is making a bad deal between us and sowing discord, and the guy is now very bad towards me.

My roommate and I were interning in the same place, and we didn't see anyone looking down every day.

I don't even know how to face her now! Because she regarded me as her rival in love, and targeted me everywhere!

Dear, her performance like this shows that she is in a hurry, and it shows that she knows that the boy cares about you.

Maybe. Dear, what state are you in with the boy now, do you have a clear relationship? If you want to know what the guy thinks in his heart, you can try to say ** (your roommate's name) in front of him is very good, have you ever considered her.

If he is eager to say no, it means that he still values you. If he's distracted, or even a little shy, then he probably has a crush on your roommate.

If it were me, I would probably see how I had a relationship with this roommate, and then see if I could compete with this roommate, and if I couldn't compete with my roommate, I would choose to hide my liking.

If I like a boy at the same time as my roommate, first of all, I don't think this roommate is very important, whether she is my best friend, whether she is a person who has more power to speak in the dormitory, because these are very important, if I don't understand this, this girl is in the dormitory, or in the class is very powerful, then once I fail to compete, I may become a laughing stock in the mouth of others, and I will become an excluded person in the dormitory, so my future college life may be very painful.

So if I can, I don't want to make my future college life too miserable because of a boy, so I will choose to see if she has the ability to make moves, that is, everyone will respond to what she says, or someone will always answer when she speaks, and I myself may be a character with no bright spots.

After all, if both of us confess to the boy now, it will be a competitive relationship, maybe the other party or myself will regard the other party as an enemy, once one of them fails, then the losing party may be ridiculed, so I have to think about how much chance I have.

If I don't have any chance of winning, I won't confess to this boy, and I won't get close to this boy again, if I have a chance of winning, and in the dormitory, in the class, everyone likes me, then I will confess to this boy, but once I don't have these, then I will choose to keep this like in my heart and never mention it.

I think it's better to go with the flow, and the main thing is to respect the boy's mind and see who he likes. If you like roommates, you should also learn to let go and respect the feelings of both of them. If you like yourself, don't give up the right to pursue happiness.

I think if you like it, you should be bold to chase it, even if you like a boy at the same time as her, then everyone has a chance, so don't worry, be bold and chase it.

I think I can talk openly and honestly with my roommate, say what I think, and then the two of us agree to play fairly, no matter if you end up with him, don't hurt your feelings.

To compete, look at each other's abilities, and you shouldn't give up just because the other party is your roommate, after all, the relationship is your own.

Tell my roommates that I like this guy too. The two are very fair to play. Let's see who the guy likes in the end.