A girl who has been in love for 9 years, how to chase it????????

When I was in college, I also met a girl who was very resistant to me.,Always avoiding me.,Later, I graduated.,Slowly faded.,But there's always a knot in my heart.。。。

Since you are in the same city as her, this is your biggest advantage, not to mention, you still have nine years of emotional accumulation. Go for it, in fact, it is a very happy and honorable thing to pursue the girl you really like.

You haven't really started to act yet, it's useless to pursue true love. After reading your introduction, I feel that both of you are introverts. Brother, give yourself a year, pursue it seriously, there is really no chance at all, and then consider giving up...

In this way, you have no regrets when you recall, in fact, when pursuing, the girl is eager to welcome and refuse, a little unmistakable, at this time it is better to strike while the iron is hot.

Eldest brother... I've found one. You still want a woman who has been wand, and in half a year, people will have children...

9 years Are you still human You won't just be a statue

In 9 years, I was shocked, life is just a few decades, and I will shoot when it is time to act.

The skin must be thick, don't be embarrassed, you can only open it if you can put it down.

Eh: I'm speechless to you, is it because of your charm or what? 》？She hasn't found out for 9 years??? You don't take any measures??? It's still up to ??? I admire it

Hey, hey, what do you want to do since people love each other.

Is Marven second?

If you really love it, go for it! It doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend or not. As the saying goes, a family of women asks for it! But what you have to do is really love her and take care of her! Otherwise, your sins will be great. Hehe!

Since you are classmates, it is not easy to do, find all kinds of reasons to have class reunions, find someone who has a good relationship with her and often ask her out, and take the initiative to send her home after the party. When her boyfriend isn't around, it's your best time.

Confess directly, if you don't have the courage, how can you chase the girl. The way to confess depends on the girl's personality and your actual situation.

The other is to do your homework before confessing and find out how the girl thinks of you. Girls' hobbies, habits, etc.

Secret love to bright love, underground to aboveground, go straight to the point, don't hesitate.

Well, after reading it, I was very touched by the pure feelings between you, because it was very sincere.

1. I think you have a chance. It is normal for girls to have some fluctuations at this age when love is beginning to bloom. I think she still pays attention to you, but she may not like your intimate little gestures;

2. It is recommended that you still be a "friend" with her, rather than the so-called "chasing after you". Because you can't catch up with it at all, because there are too many variables in your life path behind you. The sophomore year of high school is about to face the college entrance examination, and I don't know if it will be in a city university; I don't know if there will be a better one around each other in the 4 years of college; I didn't know if I would go after graduating from college; I don't know if you will like another type of person ...... 10 years from now

Since she is paying attention to you, then you should study hard and excel ......

Write her a letter to show your love and encourage each other to study together, and your goal is to get into the same university. Communication is the key to cultivating relationships, and take a long-term view. It won't be so embarrassing when everything is said and done, and you must state that although you like her very much, you are only an ordinary friend now, and you are the kind of person who has nothing to say and encourages each other.

I'm sure you'll be moving by what you're writing. (No need for flowery rhetoric, just the expression of true feelings.) ）

Handsome guy. I'll tell you the tried-and-true wonderful. Because I'm a girl, I'll tell you what a girl wants.

First: shameless.

Second: shameless.

Third: resolutely shameless.

In fact, girls are easily moved, as long as you insist, don't care if she refuses, be brave. Don't be afraid. Don't give up, believe that you can impress her, come on! With your heart, I'm sure you can do it.

Dear, remember to take my answer.

Looking at her previous attitude towards you, she should want to be friends with you, after all, you have been for so long, and I don't want you to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but I don't want to lose you as a good friend, so I expressed her meaning very vaguely. You think she's looking at you or something.,It's probably because you're thinking too much,,, because in this case, when you think that the person you like also likes you,,,It's really thinking too much... But if you want to leave no regrets, or knock on the side to see her reaction, if you don't reject, you chase, if you reject you, forget it, lest friends can't do it, if not, it is recommended that you just tell her that you like her, although you will be embarrassed, but it is better to be direct, so as not to be entangled on both sides.

Reading this paragraph, I think of my junior high school and high school quota, and the feeling of memories. She still cares a little about you, and she hasn't been in love, and her reaction is quite normal, obedient. You better study first, just keep your original trajectory, the boy still takes the initiative, it's better for you to talk to her, it's not good to keep it cold, sooner or later it's going to be cold.

And don't move your hands and feet, girls really don't like it.

Seeing that she likes the food, flowers, trinkets, and other hobbies, let her give it to her.

If you like someone, be brave enough to say it to her. She'll definitely be impressed by your sincerity, girls are like that, it doesn't matter if you try. If she really doesn't like you, you'd better forget about it and don't make yourself too miserable.

It's best to get close to her through a friend, but it's best to try to get to know her first.

You have to build up self-confidence, don't be nervous before you start to confess yourself, you can find a venue in advance to practice what you want to say, and be sure to adjust your emotions.

You can learn the experience of flirting with someone who has been in a relationship, and then combine the preferences of the girl you have a crush on, so that there is a high probability that you can catch up.

If you want to chase down the girl you have had a crush on for 3 years, you have to take the initiative, show your heart, and see how she reacts, and if she thinks the same as you, then you can be together.

I want to get away with it. Usually you have to care about her as much as possible, and then suddenly ignore her one day, she will take the initiative to find you, and then you can talk to her more.

First of all, say "I can do it" to yourself, give yourself positive psychological cues, and encourage yourself. Then make a corresponding pursuit plan according to her preferences, and firmly implement this plan.

Directly express your heart to her, see how she feels about you, if she also likes you, you will be together, if you don't like it, let go, feelings can not be forced.

You first have to turn yourself into a person worthy of being liked by others, you have to have some talents, make yourself more connotative, so that you are more worthy of being liked by others. At the same time, you have to understand her preferences and then prescribe the right medicine.

It's been a crush for three years, it's time to take the initiative, ask her what kind of place she likes, and then prepare to confess to her!

Find a suitable time to ask her to a place with a more romantic environment, and then confess to her directly, it's been three years, you should muster up courage, and you have to be brave if you love her.

If you like someone, you tell him or her that love is something you have to fight for, and what goes with the flow is just an excuse for your avoidance. Maybe he or she likes you too? If that's the case, and none of you say anything, are you going to wait for everyone to get married, and then at a certain party, everyone is secretive, and then you, or he or she, like a joke, say, actually, I liked you before.

How? What will you do when you hear this? Maybe it's useless to regret it...If you like her (he is dead), then be brave enough to say it, and fight for yourself, and if you fail, you have fought for it.

Talk to him (her), after saying it, success is naturally good, failure, then let go of him (her), don't hold the pimple, put the eyelids farther away, and find your true love again. So if you love him/her, tell him/her

There will be no confession during the crush, and the crush is usually a kind of love that is not reciprocated, and you are willing to give for him or her. It is also equivalent to unrequited love. One-sided silent love in the heart.

Crush is a pure classical emotion, classical love can grow silently in loneliness, and clean love may have blind hesitation and trauma, but it will not have any utilitarian and purposeful. It is selfless, as if it exists for the sake of faith.

At first, you may think that your crush is just a good feeling, but when you sprout in your heart, you find that it has gradually taken over your chest. Finally. When you can't suppress it, you may have the urge to hurt yourself, stop yourself, or boldly express yourself to the other person.

A crush is a simple, selfless, deep love.

responded to Jay Chou's lyrics, and spent his life waiting.

No matter when Hengwan remembers it, it will be the most tender memory in his heart.

This is the purest kind of love, because it is buried in the heart, it is simple. It's a rare memory for everyone.

Usually, it's because of your own conditions or your reluctance to confess, so you put it in your heart.

This is a paradox. Although it is painful, but willing to suffer because of it.

Maybe it's because I like the "sweet sorrow".

The phenomenon of crush occurs in a wide range of age groups, whether it is children, teenagers, young adults, middle-aged and elderly people, but it is more common among adolescents and less common among children. Similarly, the phenomenon of crushes occurs equally in men and women. Because there are many cases of crushes among teenagers, there are many works with crushes as the theme in popular culture.

Thomas Mann's "Death in Venice" is a story of a crush.

The phenomenon of crushes mostly occurs among young people who are just beginning to fall in love. Crushes can happen inadvertently or deliberately. Perhaps because of all kinds of pressure and resistance in reality, I have to bury my feelings in my heart.

Secondary school students face academic pressure and parents and schools, and there are more cases of secret crush at the age when love is just beginning. Of course, crushes are also related to one's own view of love.

Crush is a shy love and liking, unwilling to speak, but always sticking to feelings. Exists only unilaterally.

If she doesn't have a boyfriend, she confesses directly.

Brush presence with a cheeky brush.

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