My best friend s vision is too high to find a partner, should I persuade her to lower her head?

In fact, it is really common to encounter this kind of thing in life, but if you say something as a best friend, I think you should be cautious, I once had such a best friend, who is a very good woman, whether it is my own conditions or, I still have academic qualifications, it can be said that I am the best choice. But I just can't find a kind of person who I am in love with, at that time I also wanted to persuade her to lower her own requirements, but she later told me that I am a person who has requirements for love, I hope that my love is perfect and happy, and I have this condition, so why should I lower my requirements?

I was really speechless when I heard her words, and then I thought about it, wasn't I actually as stubborn as her when I was looking for a boyfriend? stubbornly thought that I could find a boyfriend who was suitable for me, loved and spoiled myself, and as a result, I really found such a person to accompany me into the palace of marriage. So why do we persuade others to lower their own standards for mate selection?

Everyone has a different view of love, and everyone has the right to choose to love and be loved, so in the matter of love, I think sometimes we really shouldn't talk too much to give others any advice.

Here I want to give you a suggestion, if you really care about your best friend's love life, then we can help her pay more attention to whether there is a suitable opposite sex for her in daily life. Introducing these good boys to him is the most effective way to help your girlfriends. There is also the fact that you can usually chat more with your girlfriends, go shopping more, and go shopping with two people, which can also alleviate the loneliness of your girlfriends, or that sentence, life must always be chosen by ourselves, and we should not give too many opinions.

Everyone thinks that they should be honest with each other, but there is one thing we must pay attention to, that is, do not easily intervene in other people's love livesEven the most intimate friends must define where the taboo between two people is, so that our friendship can last for a long time

People have their own aspirations, some people are unwilling to compromise on feelings, you persuade her, people still feel that her own requirements are not high, and they think that you don't believe that you can find a good one on her terms, or don't persuade it!

It is your responsibility to persuade her to lower her standards, otherwise your best friend will always use such high requirements, and you are really worried that you will not be able to marry one day, and for the good of your best friend, you will act as the bad person.

Talk to your girlfriends, after all, you can't be too demanding to find a partner, and you can't be perfect for everyone, I hope your girlfriends can lower their eyes a little, and then find a suitable object, just do that.

It's not necessarily that the vision is too high, it may be that you haven't met someone who is tempted by yourself, and this kind of thing can't come in a hurry all depends on fate.

Summary. She thinks that a good friend was snatched away by her boyfriend, or her girlfriend changed her mind and was very unhappy, this is actually abnormal, no matter how good her girlfriend is, she has to talk about her friends, and if she gets married, she can't be single for a lifetime, her best friend opposes finding a boyfriend and sees herself as her private property, which is very selfish and very narrow-minded, if the relationship between the two is really good, then as long as you are open and honest, both parties have a good talk about their views on this matter.

She thinks that a good friend was snatched away by her boyfriend, or her best friend changed her mind, and she was very unhappy, this is actually not a good spring, no matter how good her best friend is, she has to talk about her friends, and if you get married, you can't be single for a lifetime, your best friend opposes finding a boyfriend and sees herself as her private property, which is very selfish and very narrow-minded.

It's useless to talk about it. She said that when she saw me chatting with other people all the time, she couldn't control her feelings.

Dear, then bear with me.

After all, girlfriends are also important.

She made me choose to continue playing with her, so I cut off contact with others.

I don't want to lose on either side.

Dear: That's extreme.

This is incorrect.

Now they don't reply to my messages, and I don't know how to do it.

Weigh in on what this friend has for you.

It's been too long, I guess it's a bit gay, what should I do? Knowing that both parents will not agree to this behavior, how to deal with it?

We respect homosexuality.

But some people don't accept homosexuality and have the right view of love.