How long can we go 40, how long can we go

The farthest distance in the world;

It's not that I'm there for you, but you don't know that I love you;

But they love each other, but they can't be together.

The farthest distance in the world;

It's not that they love each other, but they can't be together.

It's that they clearly love each other, but they can't say, I love you.

In the world, the farthest distance is not to love you deeply, but I can't say that I love you.

It's that they love each other and can be together, but in the end they are separated.

Maybe it's in this corner of the world that won't hurt.

I don't know how to say it.

Because I've also recently fallen out of love

Know how you feel.

But I think you still have to be sensible.

Think about whether you really know him. Does he know your heart?

I really want to tell you that we all feel the same way, but the difference is that I already know that I can never go back to the past, and you, I don't know, I'm still wandering, I'm still thinking, but when love quietly leaves you, don't blame yourself for not cherishing it, because it never belongs to anyone, you or me. Fortunately, I want you to know that love is gone, and if you can't come back, you will only give yourself more pain when you come back. You must be very uncomfortable, like me now, but you're a girl, so it hurts more.

But please store your thoughts, I don't want to see anyone continue to be fooled by love. When a lover can't meet the sea and the rocks are rotten, it is just a dream that a lover will eventually become a family, and now, your dream has come to an end, I hope you can recover as soon as possible and study hard. Seriously, you shouldn't have a heart for people on different paths at first, but unfortunately, you still don't have a good grasp of it.

It may be better to cry, and cry with your best friend, knowing that you are in pain and can't help, really. I think you must have given a lot of affection, but don't be nostalgic, because that's the past, and we know from a young age that when we grow up, we can't get back what was in the past, just like you are now. Don't listen to songs, listening to songs will be more uncomfortable, touching the scene, it's really uncomfortable.

I hope you'll get better soon, but I can't!

I think it will be possible to make it to the end.

We have saved 2000+ families who are in a crisis of divorce or extramarital affairs and whose marital relationship is on the verge of breakdown, and summarized the 13 major manifestations of husband and wife when they are at the end of their relationship. If you just hit 2 or 4, then we recommend that you have an open and friendly communication about these issues, and the general problem can be solved and will not turn into a major problem that threatens the marital problem. If you hit 5 or 8, it means that there is at least one major crisis in your marriage, and there is a high probability that it will evolve into a serious problem of malignancy one day.

If you hit more than 9 of them, we recommend that you seek professional help and intervention immediately, because your marriage is already very unhealthy, and you and your husband may suffer from emotional discord every day, which can turn into divorce at any time.

1.To each his own: your life is like two parallel lines, less and less intersecting, living in the same bed and dreaming every day.

2.Long-term absence of sex: lack of interest in each other, no ideas.

3.Words are not speculative: except for those times when you have to speak, you are too lazy to communicate.

4.The distinction is clear: the two sides calculate each other's affairs very clearly, and the other party is absolutely not allowed to cross the line, for example, the left half of the drying rack is mine, and you must not touch it there.

5."Fight for power" around children: "Listen to Dad, don't listen to Mom", "Mom is so good to you, you should listen to Mom". You revolve around the kid "Game of Thrones".

6.Don't want to get involved in the other person's family: You are too lazy to go to the other person's house for family activities, and the other party is not interested in going to your parents' house.

7."Stranger" interaction: When you see it at home, it's like a stranger passing by on the street, or even a stranger.

8."The heart is like water": I no longer pay attention to my spouse's affairs, I have no waves in my heart, and I may feel indifferent even when I know that my spouse is outside.

9.Be selfish to each other: When you discuss something, you don't think about each other, you only think about yourself, like two shrewd businessmen bargaining.

10."Negative override": When you think of your spouse and this marriage, you only feel upset, unhappy, unhappy, anxious, depressed, and this marriage makes you unhappy at all.

11.It doesn't matter about divorce: You are no longer shy about the topic of divorce, and even talk about it publicly, and talking about your new life after divorce is probably the only thing that can get you both excited right now.

12.Planning for divorce: Even if you don't want to divorce intellectually, you always look forward to your life after the divorce from time to time and think about what you should do to prepare for the divorce, and the other person is the same, and you can even discuss this together very calmly.

13.Endless Domestic Violence: Your marriage is full of quarrels, hysteria and even violence, and your marriage has become a ring for your life, not a haven for your soul.

You asked sincerely, I don't have to say good things to you, it doesn't help you, I hope to give you a little reference.

First of all, let me say that you don't love each other as much as you imagined, from acquaintance to true love, in fact, it should be a long accumulation of bits and pieces, you know each other on a blind date, there is no intersection and emotional foundation before, just like two strangers began to make friends, and you are in a long-distance relationship, an average of 20 days in half a year to see each other, that is, only 9 times only, the depth of people's emotions is actually inseparable from the time together, so your feelings are not as deep as you imagined, we want love, but also rational.

Secondly, you said that you will quarrel every time you meet, I don't think it's a good thing, the early stage of love, should be the sweetest and warmest time, not should be quarreled when you meet, because each other is just a stage of exploration and acquaintance, at this time the man doesn't know how to tolerate you, and when you really marry him, can you expect him to be considerate to you? And although he works in the field, he is not the kind of mature and stable man, not generous. I don't know how to think about problems from other people's perspectives, the little boy's temper, he is happy to follow him, and he will be angry with you against his will, when he is a little girl, this point of view is not suitable for you.

Don't feel that you are not young, so you hastily marry yourself, the purpose of the blind date is to get married, but the object of marriage may not be a match, not suitable do not have to be reluctant, delay your future happiness, and don't be afraid to talk about half a year, and then talk about the age, a lifetime of things to consider carefully, at the same time you can talk about some of the problems you get along, or some of the man's shortcomings to talk to your parents, they can use rich life experience to help you provide advice.

If I'm not mistaken, you should live in a small county town or something, and it is best to find someone who can work and settle down in the local area, live a happy and comfortable life, and can honor your parents.

If you still have questions, you can ask me, I have limited time here and can't talk about them in too much detail.