How to deal with a group of scheming girls who often fix themselves?

They want to see how you are reorganized and reshaped, so you have to analyze them, see what kind of people they are, don't get along with them, treat them as transparent people, and be expressionless to them, they won't pay attention to you after a long time, and they shouldn't fix you, even if they do, don't have too many mood swings, because that's their goal. Don't care too much, they're actually doing cheap themselves, every man won't like a girl like that, you have to work hard.

Or to understand the reason why they do this, if there is an explainable misunderstanding, to resolve it, even if you can't be friends, don't make too many enemies for yourself. Otherwise, it will make life very unhappy, and you will have to be affected by them every day.

I hope you are immune to these external influences and get out of this state as soon as possible.

...No way. That's okay. Bullying us boys. Ay. There is no way. If you pay attention to her. She'll kick her nose in the face

Don't show any emotion when you're straightened up.

It's good if they're boring.

Situations like yours have also been encountered by friends around me, and there is no denying the reality. There are indeed "villains" like the kind of "villains" in life. But since you have encountered it, you have to face it bravely.

First of all, don't lose to the other party in terms of belief and momentum, when you meet her at school, you must be upright, don't let the other party feel that you are afraid of her, but don't show that you hate her, and don't say things that are unfavorable to her in front of good friends and teachers, even if what you say is true. Because if you say this, others may not only not believe it, but also think that you are "that kind of person". In this way, from your point of view, you are worthy of her.

In addition, you should communicate with others with a sincere and enthusiastic heart in addition to studying, so that over time, others will have a fair evaluation of Ling, and even if she frames her behind her back, I am afraid it will be very difficult to succeed, on the bright side, she may be touched by her tolerant heart and feel her own shame, isn't that a double win?

Though. It's easy to say, but it's difficult to really face it, I hope you can stick to your principles, no matter what, you can at least have a clear conscience!

The fact that you can ask this question proves that you are already a scheming girl. There is nothing wrong with scheming girls, but the terrible thing is that they always feel that they are scheming enough, and they suffer more than others. However, in order to answer your question, I still give you a few suggestions, I hope you can grasp the scale and don't go astray.

1. In case of trouble, take half a beat in action, think more, weigh the stakes, and then make a decision;

2. Think about it from the other side's point of view, how you will think, how to do it, what is the most taboo, and then change the role back, so that it is easy to peek into the other party's vital point;

3Don't believe anyone lightly, every word and deed of everyone is influenced by the first self consciousness in the subconscious misunderstanding. Only a saint can restrain himself, and there are too few saints around us. Therefore, from the perspective of self-interest, everyone is like this, and when they analyze themselves clearly, they will basically analyze others clearly;

4. Don't express your opinions or suggestions lightly, and when 60% of people agree, it's best not to express opposition anymore.

5. Do not get involved in any contradictions, because the representatives of both sides of the contradiction are the greatest beneficiaries of the interests of each group. If you participate in any side, even if you win temporarily, you are just a pawn. The best way to look at it is to obtain the benefits you want from a 'non-contented' attitude;

6. Be clear about what you want, make your goals concrete, make them clear, and most importantly, be hidden. Do not participate in matters unrelated to vital interests;

7. There must be three strategies or plans for doing things, otherwise you will never act.

I think that's enough, and if you don't think it's enough, it's a bit dangerous. I'm afraid that with a certain state of mind, it's hard for you to be happy and happy. This is also the price that must be paid by being a scheming person, and it is a price that must be paid.