After 5 years of work, what do you regret?

What I regret the most is that I didn't think about the direction of my future work at the beginning, so the first three years were all kinds of explorations, and in the end, I didn't have any special strengths, and now I don't have a special focus on finding a job.

I regret that I didn't read more books when I was in school, and my choices were narrower when I worked.

I regret that I didn't study well and didn't get a higher degree. Academic qualifications are very important in your current job and determine how quickly you will be promoted.

I remember when I first stepped into the workplace, the administration wanted to transfer me to the purchasing department, but I refused. It's all tears when I think about it now!

I think the thing I regret the most is that at the age of hard work, I didn't work hard, I would have struggled at work, and I didn't learn what I had learned before.

I can't regret it, and it's useless to regret it.

After work, when I encountered difficulties and was unable to ask my colleagues for advice, I felt that I hated to use the books when they were ready. I feel this way when I am unable to solve a problem, when I am faced with an opportunity but not able to grasp it, and when I compare myself with someone who is more capable. First, when I encounter difficulties and cannot solve them, I will have the feeling that I hate less when I use the book.

One of the fundamental purposes of reading and learning and acquiring knowledge is to solve all kinds of difficulties that we face. Only when we read more books and have stronger abilities can we effectively solve difficulties. If you read too little and your ability is insufficient, you will be at a loss in the face of difficulties.

At this time, I will have the feeling that I hate less books when I use them, and regret that I didn't read well at the beginning. Second, if you don't have the ability to grasp the opportunity in the face of it, you will also have the feeling that you hate less when the book is used. When we are faced with opportunities, we need to use our knowledge and abilities to seize them and seek development.

But if we lack ability, we will be powerless in the face of opportunities, and we can only sigh. At this time, we will also have the feeling that we hate less when the book is used, and we regret that we did not study hard. Third, with people with more outstanding abilities in the teasing belt, you will directly feel that the book is used when you hate less.

In our daily lives and work, we often interact with people. When we meet people who are more capable than ourselves, we will feel ashamed in front of them, and our knowledge and skills will be dwarfed in front of those people. At this time, when I face the books again, I will definitely read carefully and study hard, and go all out to improve my ability, so that I can not regret reading less.

It's impossible not to regret it!

If you think about it from the perspective of personal development, you should spend more time on work, because work itself is a good learning process, put yourself in the process of work, and the process will lead you to grow and improve. Similarly, if you're happy with the job now and have a good future prospects, focus on your work. The times are changing, the market is changing, and the technology is upgrading, which makes us feel uncertain all the time.

Only when we keep up with the trend and have the ability to make the tide will we not be eliminated.

In other words, if your current job is what you have wanted for a long time and that is your interest, then it is meaningless. You can achieve your dreams, gain recognition, and improve your life through work, which are all the meaning of work.

You don't have to be like this for the rest of your life, but you have to have a period of time (about 3 years) when compared to your almost 35 years of working life.

Judging from my personal growth experience, there is no shortcut in life, and the harvest of other people's filial piety that you see is not formed overnight, but a process of accumulation.

The other day, when I was consulting with a client, I gave an example of wheat. In our hometown, wheat is sown after October every year. After October, the weather will only get colder and colder.

After the wheat sprouts, it grows a few leaves, but it is only 10 centimeters high, and it is very weak, and it has to meet the coming winter, including the coldest time of the year.

During the long winter, the leaves of wheat do not grow and can even freeze. If the weather is dry, you see the green layer of wheat on the surface, but the leaves are already dry, and they will crush if you pinch them with your hands.

But, don't worry. When spring arrives in March of the following year, these wheats will grow rapidly, tiller, and turn from a weak seedling into several seedlings, or even a dozen seedlings, and then tassel and fill until they mature, which only takes 3 months.

To sow one mu of wheat, no more than 10 kg of seeds are needed at most, and the yield per mu is generally 500 kg after maturity. The output is 50 times the input. The core key to achieving such a high input-output ratio lies in the coldest three months of winter.

At that time, although the leaves did not grow and were even freeze-dried, the roots of the wheat were still growing slowly in the ground and growing into a large patch. In this way, when spring comes, they will have enough roots to absorb nutrients, and they will complete their life's mission in 3 months. These three months are the coldest and most difficult moments, but they are also the most important moments.

The same is true for human growth. Whatever you want to gain, you have to put in the hard work and effort to deal with it (except in the case of family wealth inheritance or other fortuitous outbreaks). Even if it is practiced deliberately, it takes 10,000 hours to become a talent.

If you want to achieve more than 90% of the results, you have to work so hard for a period of time that it takes root like wheat to ensure that the nutrients are absorbed in order to ensure that you can harvest later.

Do you regret it after work? This is a big problem because everyone's experiences and feelings are different. But for me, I can safely say that I don't regret my life after work.

When I graduated from university, I was excited about the upcoming work and life. I knew it was going to be a new journey, and I was ready to face the challenge. I feel like I'm ready, but the reality is brutal.

I found that my job was not as good as I thought it would be. My job was hectic, tiring, and didn't have the freedom and flexibility I had imagined.

Still, I don't regret choosing this job. First of all, this job cracked and made me understand my strengths and weaknesses. I found out where I needed to improve, and I found where I was very good.

These experiences have made me more aware of myself and have given me more confidence to face the challenges ahead.

Secondly, my work has allowed me to make a lot of like-minded friends. Like me, they are passionate about their work and life, and they are willing to share their experiences and insights with me. We work together, learn together, and grow together.

This friendship is very precious to me, and I am confident that these relationships will accompany me through every stage of my life.

Finally, my work has made me more independent and confident. At work, I need to take charge of my tasks and responsibilities myself. I need to make the right decisions and take the consequences of my failures.

These experiences have made me more independent and confident, and have given me the ability to face the challenges ahead.

Overall, although my job is difficult and challenging, I don't regret choosing this career. My job has allowed me to grow and progress, made me make a lot of friends, and made me more independent and confident. I believe that these experiences will make me better prepared for the challenges ahead.

I regret giving all my time to my career. Because life is the most important thing, work is just a career, don't think too much, no desire is rigid.

Most people work just to mix up and eat, and the other is to pass the time so that they don't get too bored.

As Schopenhauer said in The Wisdom of Life, pain and boredom are the two mortal enemies of human happiness, and too much leisure will lead to boredom.

In the past, I was responsible for not renewing the contract when it expired, but now that I think about it, it is a waste of time, and this is not something I can control at all.

In the past, I wanted to get ahead and surpass anyone, but in fact, the essence of this idea is to seek superiority.

Now just seeing others do well, learning by yourself, or humbly asking for advice, there is really no need to be anxious or surpass anyone.

A few years ago, I was staring at Zhengmao, thinking that the work at hand must add value to my next job. Otherwise, I am very anxious, and I am afraid that I will not be able to exercise myself and my ability will grow slowly, so I want to change jobs. Now I think it's good to have a moderate amount of work and even a little idle, and you can do a lot of things when you're idle, look at writing something, study something else.

Don't compare yourself to others, and don't always think about how you should be. Don't keep thinking about graduating from the same famous university, everyone has achieved the director level, it is really meaningless to be like this, it just adds to the troubles, everyone has their own little happiness, and the goal of life should be the pursuit of happiness.

Now I am a professional coach. Before that, I was an HR for a business.

Going back to my past career path, I occasionally regret it. That's right--- I regret that I came a little late.

If I had to be given another choice, I would have entered my current industry 10 years ago. If I had been on the road I am on since then, I would have had a better development as soon as I was sensitive.

Of course, I know that I can't help my past me make decisions. Every decision is the best choice at the time. to give up, there are reasons for giving up; Persistence, there is a reason to insist. How do you know that the potato is afraid, it is helpless, and even painful.

Professional coaching is still relatively new to most people, which means that this is still a new industry and there is still a long way to go to achieve their desired goals.

However, I have no regrets. I knew this was the path I was going to take. Like I said when I chose this career:

Now, look back at the road you've traveled. The stubborn childhood who likes to break the casserole and ask the end, the teenager who is obsessed with the ideal life and does not want to face the reality, the young man who is confused and struggling in the imperfect reality, and the whole process of investing the most enthusiasm and energy in literature, philosophy, sociology, psychology, and management, I understand the meaning and value of all this - I will become an excellent coach, even excellent. I'm sure, pretty sure.

I hope you are the same, choose what you love and don't regret your choice.

No regrets, work is always a very important part of life, because this is the foundation of life. In fact, one of the most obvious problems with the plot in the TV series is the estrangement between Sun Heping and his daughter.

In his own view, what he paid was actually for the sake of being able to give his children a better material foundation.

However, when he gave all his time, even with almost no precondition to accompany his children to grow up, he did not get what he wanted, and even made his daughter look so rusty when she stood in front of him.

This is the reason for his regret: he has done his best, but the results are always unsatisfactory and the goal is not met.

Of course, for us, perhaps, we can't experience Sun Heping's feelings, because we are just facing a job.

This job can provide a family with the most affordable daily consumption, and can meet the daily needs of the family.

However, it is true that this job also consumes a lot of time with family and occupies a very important part of our lives. In life, I think that in addition to work, I should spend more time with my family, pay more attention to the children's learning and psychological dynamics, etc., followed by the dedication to work and work diligently, but we should pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and then pay attention to the body, and spend more time with our families. When you work, don't talk about work when you get home, try not to bring work home to do, and don't bring bad emotions at work home.

Life is live every day, and you can't do it all over again, so it's useless to regret your socks! Instead of sighing in regret, it is better to summarize the past and improve yourself, so as not to fall again in the pit like a sail in the future.