I m going to get married in a month, and I suddenly don t want to get married, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-06
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you don't marry, you have to return the previous bride price to the other party, and it is not easy for two people to get together, so don't choose to withdraw from the marriage, if you do this, it will hurt a lot between the two.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is very good, if you don't get married, I won't want to marry, so what can I do? It's not eight months pregnant, and suddenly I don't want to give birth, don't think so much, destroy it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then think about it and think about it clearly It's best not to marry before you think it clearly Otherwise, you will harm others and yourself Or don't marry Think clearly Marriage is a major event in a lifetime Implicating two families.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, if you don't change your mind, then you are a phobia of marriage, you have this kind of psychological pressure, and you are afraid that sweetness will lead to this when you are not in love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't get married, continue to be a single dog, and be at ease!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really don't want to, just make it clear as soon as possible, just take the other party's bride price and return it! If you can't be a husband and wife, you can be friends!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then think about it carefully, and remarry, if it is not suitable, it will be even more ugly to break up again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes. Some of them do not want to get married because their parents disagree when they are about to get married, or because the bride price and dowry are not prepared. There are also cases where the couple is entangled and unwilling to get married.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    From the perspective of women, the main thing is the fear of the new environment, the woman marries from a familiar place to an unfamiliar environment, in which not only the person but also the living environment is unfamiliar, which will make people feel fearful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not common, maybe it's too much of a concern. In general, premarital phobia can occur in both boys and girls. Girls' premarital fears can manifest as various feelings of uncertainty, overthinking, restlessness, nervousness, worry, and even thoughts of wanting to escape; The most common thing for boys is that they are afraid of commitment, afraid that they will enter into marriage, and it will be difficult for them to take responsibility for their families.

    In case of these symptoms, it is recommended to take psychological **, and if necessary, you can also take some anti-stress and anxiety medications. It is recommended to go to a regular tertiary hospital to see, there is no big problem.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are such people around her, who finally got married but regretted it, most of these people are not firm in their feelings, she feels that she can't be with this man for a lifetime, and some women are because there is another person in their hearts, and they are afraid when they really end their singleness, so they will suddenly not get married.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you are about to get married, you suddenly don't want to get married, probably because of the bride price money, or you may also be afraid of marriage. Of course, it is not excluded that it will stop when you feel that you are not suitable for marriage. What kind of situation is can only be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, friend, of course, there are people who suddenly don't want to get married when they are about to get married, and there are more things because of the disagreement between the two parties, or because the bride price is unpleasant, so they will regret it when they get married.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is because two people suddenly don't get married when they are about to get married, it may be that they find each other or are unfaithful, and they either suddenly feel that they don't like him, or because of some other family factors, which leads to such a situation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There must be such a person, if you suddenly don't want to get married, you may feel that marriage is of no use to you, or you must feel that you are more afraid of getting married now, so you don't want to get married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There may be a lot of such people, and when it is time to get married, they suddenly change their concepts and think about not taking them. It may be that there are reasons and reasons for not getting married, but no matter what the reason, you can't take the big event of marriage as child's play.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It may be because of the excessive pressure after marriage, the pressure of various car loans, housing loans, the pressure of tea, rice, oil and salt, and the pressure of children's education. It makes people afraid of marriage when they think about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is a premarital phobia. It is a kind of self-defense against the uncertainty of the future. To put it simply, you are not fully prepared to end your current single life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When you are about to get married, you will face a lot of problems, and the bride price is convenient for the two families to have unpleasant conflicts, and at this time they can't understand each other and don't even want to get married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, it may be that the other party feels that it is easier to be bound by years of affection, pay a lot of youth, and be reluctant to let go if you are dissatisfied, and you can't judge more rationally whether the other party is suitable for your marriage.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Some of the reasons for this are that I feel that I am definitely not so happy after getting married, and I will also be asked by others, so I am very afraid at this time, and I am afraid of marriage.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It should be the fear of marriage, some people are about to get married, and suddenly think about not getting married, which is not good in this case, because marriage is not you alone, it is not child's play, you should calm down and face it bravely.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There was a person around me who was engaged after the bride price, and finally gave up a month before the marriage, mainly because the two people had a lot of conflicts in their lives, and finally found that it was not suitable for marriage and gave up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Some people do not want to get married when they want to get married, because they are afraid of marriage, and they are afraid that their life after marriage is too different from what they are now.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Some people will suddenly not want to get married when they are about to get married, maybe there is a problem in the relationship, or there is a person who betrays the relationship, maybe they will only know when they are about to get married.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, in life, there are many people who choose to escape when they are faced with marriage, and suddenly they don't want to get married, this is because they have a fear of marriage, afraid that marriage is different from love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Cases of temporary regret of marriage are not uncommon, some people will suddenly find that they have someone they love more, some people find that they can't get along with each other's family, and so on, so they decide to regret their marriage.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's usually because he suddenly found out that this person's family, or your personality is a bit conflicting with her, and he may be very stingy when he gets married, so he sees this person clearly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The possible reasons are as follows:

    First, some people are overly nervous.

    Second, someone finds out that the other person has deceived themselves.

    Third, you suddenly find that the other party is not what you imagined.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is still a month to get married, but at this time you don't want to get married, I think there are two possibilities, one is that you feel that you don't love him so much, and the second is that something happens between you that makes you feel that there is no way to benefit directly, and you don't want to marry him. But I think no matter which one it is, you should think it through, after all, this is a major event in life, and you can't make decisions casually.

    Whether you continue to marry this person or not, you must think clearly, think clearly, and ask yourself in your heart, have you really thought about it? Is it really decided? Will you regret it?

    Although you may regret any decision you make, if you don't want to be clear, you will really feel very sad, so I suggest you think about it at this time. There are some things that really can't be decided casually, and if you don't think about it clearly, it may delay your life.

    If you still love him very much, but you are a little afraid of marriage, then I don't think it's necessary, because love is something that can ** a lot of things, don't give up on someone who loves you because you feel afraid. But if it's because you find out that he did something sorry for you before marriage, then I think you should give up even if you get married for only one day, because such a person is not worthy of your entrustment for life, after all, you are not married, and he has done such a thing, then after marriage, he may do something worse for you after marriage.

    Every major event in life is a pure auspicious model for us to make our own decisions, and he may also affect everything in our future, so be sure to think clearly. You have to ask yourself, if you cancel the marriage, will you regret asking yourself whether you love this person or not? Do you really not want to be with him anymore?

    If you don't regret it, then don't get married.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then be sure to make it clear to the other party as soon as possible, tell the other party what you think, and then make it clear to both parents.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If there is a problem in the relationship between the two of you, then I think you must deal with the relationship first before thinking about marriage.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it is necessary to think clearly, if you really don't want to marry, you should make it clear to the man and ask for the understanding of the boy and his parents.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think if you don't want to get married now, you can regret it, don't wait until you get married to regret it, then it's even more outrageous.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Some people suddenly don't want to get married when they are about to get married, caused by personal psychological factors.

    In an increasingly fast-moving society, anxiety is also common, and there may be an increasing number of people like these who are ready to get married and suddenly don't want to get married.

    This situation is mainly caused by personal psychological factors, so if you have such a performance or idea, you should find a way to adjust your mentality, communicate more with your partner to find a solution to the problem, believe in yourself, and a happy life must belong to you.

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