There were some problems with my boyfriend and I needed to ask for advice

It's a simple question, and I also have extremely macho tendencies.

First of all, you think that you understand that he is good, and you take the initiative to spend money, which is a big mistake and extremely hurts his self-esteem, so don't do it in the future.

What are you going to do in the future, first of all, the two of them spend as little money as possible together, go to some such places less, machismo is generally a materialistic person, they value feelings, and you can take the initiative to ask him to buy something cheap but memorable to give you when necessary, such as if you want to eat ice cream, let him buy it, not expensive, but let him run a long way, so that he also has a sense of achievement.

Second, if you have money, try to spend it on yourself, as long as you are beautiful enough, it is the greatest pride for him.

As long as you don't complain about his lack of money, you should be fine.

Since he complains, then you control it, unless he needs it, don't buy it if it's not important...

Men pay more attention to this issue, especially if the other party earns more than themselves, our colleagues are not as considerate as you, and they are always blamed to death... Your boyfriend is so happy...

He must have hurt his pride because you spent more money.

Then you spend less money on him and give him some time to adjust.

First of all, don't worry too much about that.

If you think it's bad to always let him spend money, spend less.

If he still blows like this, lest he quarrel in the future, and the man will feel inferior, which is terrible.

First of all, I'm glad for him to have you such a good qz, for men. Self-esteem is important. Everyone wants to make a good life for the whole family with their own efforts!

But you're putting too much pressure on him! He's going to have to spend your money so he's going to feel like a wretch! You should mentally encourage him to make his own business, not just material satisfaction!

With your support, as long as he has the backbone, he will definitely succeed! Make you happy. I'm so envious!

Bonus points.

As a man, you have self-esteem, you say he has less money, you have more money, you don't think much about you, but men are different, listen to him, spend less money, if this man has strong self-esteem, he will find a higher job than you.

The two of you can spend together. You buy something for him to make him feel inferior

I will take the initiative to solve the problem. Because emotional problems can't afford to procrastinate, it is easy to create estrangement between each other. Secondly, because I have faith in our relationship and sincerely want to last longer, I will face these problems positively and seek ways to solve them.

First, taking the initiative to solve the problem is conducive to the rapid resolution of contradictions.

Relationship problems can be big or small, and if they are not handled well, those two people may break up because of a trivial matter. If it is dealt with quickly and appropriately, it can turn big things into small things, so that these problems can be cut off in time as soon as they show their signs. In addition, relationship problems cannot afford to procrastinate.

After a long time, what I care about is not the thing itself, but each other's attitudes and emotions. Two people will also have suspicion, insecurity, and some psychological estrangement towards their lovers. Therefore, when I personally encounter emotional conflicts, I will definitely take the initiative to seek solutions, so as to avoid more problems.

Second, it is out of the psychology of wanting the relationship to go longer.

Many people may feel that girls can't be too proactive, otherwise they will be looked down upon by boys and become less cherished. But I think girls must first learn to cherish themselves, understand their real needs, and use practical actions to fight for and protect. Therefore, when there is a problem in the relationship, I will face it with a positive attitude that I want the relationship to last longer and cherish the relationship.

While I still have faith in the relationship, trying to solve the problem and change the status quo is to give the relationship a new chance.

All in all, whether it is facing problems in life or emotional conflicts, the way to deal with them should be the same, that is, to deal with them positively. Evasion will not solve any problems, but may exacerbate conflicts and add to each other's blockages. As a result, we have no way to be accurate**, and it may not be possible to take the initiative to solve it.

But if you don't solve it, you're doomed. All things considered, trying hard first will help us get the result we want.

I'm not going to take the initiative to solve the problem. Because I'm an introvert. If something happens to the two of us, it must be his fault.

I will take the initiative to solve the problem, because if this is good for the relationship between two people, there is no need for a cold war at all.

I will take the initiative to go to this issue. If you don't take the initiative yourself, then you and him won't end well.