I broke up with my girlfriend because my parents didn t agree

It's a cliché, but it's always been said that explanation is the truth.

At this stage, the focus is on academics.

The most important thing is to study hard, I believe that the family disagrees and believes that it is also because you are still young and learning is important, so don't think too much now, the feelings at this age are not mature, calm down, pay close attention to your own learning, treat each other as best friends, if you really have feelings, it is not too late to be older in the future.

If it's divided, it's divided, there's no need to reunite, if it's compounded, there will be shadows, just like a mirror that is broken and then glued up, you can't always see cracks!

Go to school! Must still be a student!

Parents are also for your own good!

Let's study with peace of mind first, and you can put your business aside.

In the process of dating between men and women, when the relationship reaches a certain level, they will begin to discuss the matter of getting married and buying a house. If you face opposition from your family, will you continue to hold on to the relationship? Do you think your family is right?

My girlfriend wants to get married, but her parents don't agree, do you want to continue or propose to break up?

After all, your parents have been through more than you do, and what you're seeing may be your boyfriend's low level of education. You worry that his parents look down on him, but their parents will consider the reason for his low level of education. It's because the family conditions in his hometown are too poor.

Or they are not self-motivated,Don't like to read. If your educational background is very different, your parents will definitely be concerned about whether you have a common language.

Also, as the parent who gave birth to you and raised you, when they have problems with you and your boyfriend,will unconsciously project various problems and some negative emotions encountered in the marriage. The essence of the projection effect is that your parents speculate that the psychological and behavioral traits that exist in them are also present in you. Because they care about whether you will be happy in your married life in the future.

Decades later, they may see a problem, and you care about whether you are happy with your boyfriend now, so the contradiction arises.

For men and women in love, the halo effect will make you inadvertently ignore some of each other's shortcomings, which can be the key to affecting the quality of your future marriage. If your parents feel that your three views are inconsistent or that his personal values are insufficient, you can let your parents see the way you live in harmony with others, or let your parents see his efforts and values in other areas, and let your parents know that these three views and his personal values will not be a stumbling block to your happiness. But if the other person really has a bad character, such as lying, violent tendencies, or even bad habits, I think you really need to listen to your mother.

Once some boys are opposed by their female parents, they will say to the girl, "Your parents don't agree with us, maybe we really shouldn't break up together." If you are determined to be with her daughter in the face of their opposition, they will become soft-hearted after a long time.

This is a test. Don't give up until you start working hard. Not all parents play mandarin ducks.

It's important to know what your parents think.

If you want to spend the rest of your life with her, persuade your parents to support your marriage, if you are not willing to face the obstacles of your parents, and you don't really want to spend the second half of your life with this girl, then propose to break up as soon as possible, don't delay each other.

Then it depends on whether you really love your girlfriend or not. If it's true love, you try to make your parents like her, if not, then you break up.