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This kind of mentality may be caused by long-term introversion. For example, if you see something or a person you particularly like, and you don't have the effort or the courage to have it, then you can only think silently in your heart, so that over time you see something you like, you will gradually feel that what is the use of what I like if it is not mine, and gradually you will not be interested in anything. In the end, it prompts you to like fewer and fewer things.
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I think the following short article may give you some other unexpected inspiration
Tired of life. It refers to people's burnout in work and life, which is a feeling of wanting to vomit after eating too much and wanting to escape after a long time. At the macro level, it can be listed as a product of modern society, and it is a typical phenomenon that has been highlighted with modernity.
People can't escape the worldly framework, and in order to "succeed", they try to pursue a house, a car, and face; However, people want to be able to live their lives a little bit and live their lives on their own terms. On the one hand, they are trying not to do something, and on the other hand, they have to do it in reality. At this time, if you measure real life by your own will, it will lead to a sense of meaninglessness, which will lead to boredom.
In fact, everyone has encountered this situation in their lives, and it is normal, and it just proves that we have a deep pursuit and reflection on our own existence, the value of life, and the dream of life. People who have not experienced this kind of emotion are naïve and superficial. It's nothing, just grasp the degree, and it's fine.
After a while, it will dissipate on its own...
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Speaking of my personal experience, there was a time when I was always in the house and didn't want to touch anything else. And then I didn't know what to do. All you have to do is participate in social activities as much as possible.
Maybe after this you will realize how beautiful the world is, and then complain that life is too short to live in the world. (Personal opinion).
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Then just like something.
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Twelve years later, the question continues, and the answer is, thank you.
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It may be that I have been under a lot of stress and depressed recently, so I will not be interested in other things. We should adjust our mentality in time and face life positively and optimistically, so that we can see the color of life again and feel the joy of life.
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I've liked the handbook for a long time.
I've been crazy about buying tape.
Buy all sorts of things.
even dragged a lot of people into the pit.
I also opened my own rice ball.
But just yesterday.
Go to Xinhua Bookstore with my friends.
I saw a set of books that I liked very much.
It's just over sixty pieces.
I just think it's so expensive.
Reluctant to buy. But it's the same.
If it's tape, I'm sure I'll buy it because it's cheap.
At that moment, I suddenly felt that the handbook was boring.
Because of my excessive pursuit of her and blind liking.
My values have even changed.
I don't think that's right.
My quest for this semblance of a journal has not improved my life in any way.
Instead, I compromised some of my good habits to it.
But I feel sorry to give up on this thing that I like all of a sudden.
Obviously, someone has done a good job of making a handbook.
Life with them is also rewarding.
It's a sense of loneliness with failure.
It's a very uncomfortable feeling.
It's as if something you've been pursuing for a long time suddenly becomes clear.
But it's a far cry from what you imagined.
Alas, it was because of this feeling that I came to search for this kind of question, but I didn't expect to say it again.
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Everyone hopes to meet the right person in love, and hopes that the person I love will also love me, but not everyone can do it.
Lucky people will directly meet the destined person, and there are many people who will experience the situation of not being able to love, maybe you have chased him for a long time, you have paid a lot for him, but you just can't get his heart.
At this time, it is naturally helpless and powerless, but the person you love doesn't love you, what a sad thing!
But then again, it's really not to blame him, it's to blame yourself, if a person doesn't love you, you can feel it, it's just that you don't want to admit it, you still want to try what will happen if you continue, will it move him, or it will be different after a long time.
And in fact, the person who loves you, his words and deeds will reveal his love for you, and the person who does not love you, no matter what you do, he will be indifferent, stop deceiving yourself!
He says he loves you, but he never cares about how you feel.
What to like; knew that she didn't like to watch art exhibitions, but he dragged her to accompany her parents to watch the exhibition to show respect; I knew she was sick, but I didn't know to rush over to accompany her.
In fact, from these performances, it can be seen that no matter how much you give, he will not respond.
What is the most feared thing in a relationship? It must be that one party pays, and the other party does not respond at all, just like when you talk to the other party, but he never replies, then your mood must be very disappointed!
Sometimes, don't always be moved by yourself, don't think that as long as I pay, I will get something in return, love is the most unreasonable thing to talk about, it is likely that you give everything, and you can't get a thank you from him, at this time you should understand what he means: he doesn't love you!
Self-touching in love is a very silly act, and usually it will only move you and not the other person.
He is with you, not necessarily because he loves you, it may be that you love him, he is with you, love or not, you can feel it, the person you don't love, no matter how much you give, he doesn't have any response.
If you understand this, stop giving stupidly, love without a response is destined to have no results.
Love is not about one accommodating the other, but about evenly matching, and both parties can give willingly for each other. ”
If you know that the person you love doesn't love you, then quit calmly, don't struggle in the love that doesn't belong to you.
Barely can not be happy, if a person does not love you, you can not force it, instead of entanglement, it is better to live your own life, you have to understand that a person can also live a happy life.
Love is not everything in life, if you love the wrong person, then let go and wait for the right person to appear, he doesn't love you, you can feel it, don't deceive yourself, don't continue.
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I used to like things, but now I suddenly don't like them, and I suddenly lose interest in eating and playing. People reach a certain age. Hobbies and interests change.
It's like going from ignorance to understanding. People are slowly changing. At a certain age, personality changes.
These are the laws of nature.
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I used to like things and now I suddenly don't like them.,What's the matter.,I like to eat and play.,Xidan did things all of a sudden full interest.,I think maybe that's it.,When you grow up and mature, you feel that the things before are relatively naïve.,Like to eat.,It's not so delicious.。
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What used to be liked is now suddenly not liked, what's wrong? I like to eat, I like to play, I like to do things, and I am not interested in them at all.
Because you now have love, and you have the psychology of falling in love. has a relationship and a psychology of love, so I am not interested in the general all of a sudden.
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Maybe you've grown up and matured, or maybe you're sex enough, and you think it's just like that! Everything is constantly changing, and people's hobbies and interests may also change!
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I used to like things, but now I don't like them anymore, I like to eat, I like to play, I like to do things I like to do all of a sudden, I think you should get some new support, some yearning for new things, it will be better.
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Mood: You are in a bad mood. There are annoying things. That's how it goes
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My friend would like to talk about my thoughts on the situation I understand described, and this situation is normal.
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The material world is complicated and chaotic, but there are only three things I like.
1. Source: "Twilight";
2. Original text: Three thousand floating worlds, I love three, the sun and the moon and Qing, the sun is not the morning, the moon is the twilight, the Qing lead and silver talk is the twilight of the dynasty;
3. Interpretation: It is a confessional sentence, that is, there are three things I like most in this world, the sun, the moon and you.
I like the sun in the morning, I like the moon in the evening, and I always like you;
4、i love three things in the world,sun ,moon ,and you sun for morning ,moon for night ,and you forever.
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