Discussion: Is it shameful to fall in love with a married man, is it pitiful?

Updated on society 2024-06-19
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It has to be a last resort and so on.

    What do you think?

    Correct your statement.

    Do you think that he has a wife, and he still goes to pick flowers and grass, which is called very cultivated???

    I think it's deliberate!!

    You think the other way, if he and his wife are not having a good time, they can get divorced and look for it generously!!

    He has betrayed at least his beloved wife now, and he can betray the person he is chasing again in the future.

    Take a step back and think about it, if your friend covets his career success (to put it bluntly, he loves money) and doesn't get married, he wants to break up with him, and you won't get a penny!!

    Persuade your friends to take advantage of the deep that has not yet appeared, and turn back as soon as possible, such people are unreliable!!

    Good luck

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I have also had such an experience, it seems that there are really many people similar to me, he has been chasing me for a long time, and I am also trying to leave him, although it will be sad but it is better than hurting other people's families, if he really wants to be with you, he has to wait until he is in love after the divorce, then the meaning is different.

    In the eyes of outsiders who don't understand this relationship, I think they won't have any sympathy and understanding except for thinking shameful, for themselves, in addition to accepting the strange eyes and incomprehension of outsiders, and at the same time loving him but not being able to have it, but also being tormented by conscience After all, it is to break up other people's families, and then they will feel very pitiful.

    I think the wisest choice is to leave, believe that he has feelings for you, but at the same time believe that he will not divorce because of you, if he promises you to divorce, then it is recommended that you better tell him that he can't touch you until he is divorced, and if he can still insist on being good to you and divorce, then accept him. Otherwise, it's better to leave quickly, after all, youth is limited, and I believe you will find a boy who loves you very much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If that man is really well cultivated, how can it be possible to chase another girl behind his wife's back? Totally a hungry wolf in sheep's clothing.

    If you really like him, why don't you get a divorce? Jokes, no matter how good the lover is, after all, it is secret, and the name is not right. A lover is just another need for him, and there will be no real answer.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's acceptable, I hope there will be a good outcome, there is nothing wrong with loving one, if it's true love, it's acceptable, love is selfish, whether it's in love with a married man or a married woman, as long as it's true love, it's acceptable. As long as they can deal with the problems they have to face and solve them one by one, then why can't the two come together, I think it's okay. Love is sinless, true love is invincible, abandon those traditional morality, the times are different, do what everyone wants to do, as long as you like it, you don't care what others think, you can be happy with each other.

    I don't think so.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on the outcome of the situation, if he divorces his wife because of you, it is shameful, and if he will not give up the family for you, it is pitiful.

    Generally speaking, the outcome of things is more likely to be pitiful, because men will not give up their families easily unless they have to, and in the eyes of most men, the wife (or family) is far more important than the lover, unless he has the ability to balance the two of you at the same time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The third party is shameful, at least until someone else divorces Alas, it's pitiful to fall in love

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Leave people who shouldn't belong. That's wise.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    has a high cultivation, why do you want to do something to hurt your wife, I think it's wrong for him, no matter why he married his wife in the first place, now if he loves you, then he should divorce his wife, he wants to hug left and right, that is hurting two women, no matter how good such a man is, it is not worth it.

    But I think you are so confused, you must be a good woman, you are not ashamed or pitiful, you are just confused on the fork in the road of life and walked on the side of the road.

    Bless you with a reconciled future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's more pity for himself, and more shame for his wife.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Who can control love!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is it shameful?? No, pathetic?? How can I say it, I can't talk about this, if he doesn't love you, it's pitiful!!

    Why did you fall in love with him? If you have to make a trade-off, you should give up if you should give up, I am drunk and despise the third party!! I used to experience it myself!! I sympathize with you, I hope you can let it go!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since it's a married man! Are you sure you're really in love??? There are some questions that you should figure out for yourself! It's not shameful. But recklessness in the end is pitiful!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When two single men and women fall in love, there are many blessings. Men should get married, women should get married. But if you fall in love with a married man, you will become a person and you will be abused.

    The results can be severe, and your life will be greatly affected. Falling in love with a married person is inherently immoral. It can also cause great distress to the other party's family.

    A happy family can be torn apart without a future. Fall in love with someone who is already married. Getting married is not easy.

    This person has a family, and it is very likely that he does not want to divorce, but only with you"Mix"Together. You want to get married, but he just wants the red flag to be at home and the bunting to flutter outside.

    <> don't waste your youth on someone who can't give you a future. My cousin's friend, who is in love with a married man. When you fall in love with someone, your mind seems to be chaotic and you can't calm down and think.

    The other party coaxes the girl and promises to give her a good future and a good marriage. Year after year, the girl finally became a leftover girl. Married men don't keep their promises.

    I don't think married men really want to marry girls in the first place. She wasted her precious youth for her own selfish desires. Find and embrace new relationships.

    The quickest way to move out of a relationship is to move on to a new one. When the time comes, be bold enough to find and accept the right single boy, and don't give up the whole forest for the sake of a tree. When you fall in love with a married man, you have to turn back as soon as possible, give up the idea of being together, and since you don't have a future, don't let this wrong relationship have a start.

    But you must not take it for yourself, just like everyone has hobbies and other possessions, as long as you don't break the law! It is unreasonable, unreasonable, and unlawful for you to love a married man, because it is the same thing that a man with a wife is like a man with a master! Originate from affection, stop at courtesy.

    Love doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong, there is no such thing as a "second-hand" man. Just understand etiquette, stop in moderation, and don't break up other people's families.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Falling in love with a married man will end badly, because most married men like your youth and beauty, and by the time your youth has been lost, he is no longer interested in you.

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