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Because it is impossible to raise children. At the age of 60, the body is not suitable for childbearing, and the energy of raising children after that is completely unable to keep up, and now it is a dilemma.
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He gave birth to a child through IVF, but the pressure of life from two children overwhelmed him, and the child needed to spend a lot of money at any time, which is why he has been working outside all year round.
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Because the twins made themselves very uncomfortable, and it was difficult for them to accompany the twins at their own age, and gradually grew up.
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<> Bao, I went to eat noodles today, what kind of noodles did I eat, and I suddenly wanted to see you.
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<>The rest of my life is full of you, and hundreds of millions of stars are still too late'?'●)
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The old mother became the oldest mother in China at that time, and now, she also said that she wanted to live well for these two daughters, and I have to say that maternal love is very great! The story behind it is also touching!
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Originally, this mother had a very happy family, but fate played a joke on her, because of improper heating in the home, resulting in the death of both daughters and sons-in-law, the old man could not accept this reality, all gave birth to twins to the late daughter's lovesickness, which truly reflects the greatness of maternal love.
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The touching story behind it is that the mother's son died due to some diseases, so the mother gave birth to twins through IVF in order to extend her offspring.
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The mother lost her daughter in middle age, and the originally happy family broke down, so she decided to have another child in middle age.
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The mother who lost her life in the year of the sixtieth year risked her life to give birth to two twin daughters, although she had a heavy hemorrhage during childbirth and experienced unimaginable pain, but compared to the pain of losing her daughter, what is this? In order to give birth to two daughters, Hefei's mother almost lost her precious life, which is really difficult, but in 2021, she is close to the age of ancient times, but she thinks that it is even more difficult to raise children. If she could go back nine years, she might have been more cautious in her choices.
Although she did not say anything regretful, she obviously did not agree with her decision that year after her husband spent nine years raising two daughters by herself after a stroke, and after going through so many things.
How hard is it for seniors to raise children?
Nine years ago, many people scolded the mother for being too selfish and wanted to fill the void in her heart by having another child. She and her husband are very old, and it seems difficult for them to achieve their goals, whether it is raising their children or accompanying them to adulthood. The accusations of netizens also seem to have some justification, but they have no position to accuse, nor do they have the right to help them make decisions, so they can only provide advice to the mother.
After her husband suffered a stroke, the elderly man in his 60s went around giving speeches to earn money to support the family, even though it was very difficult, but she has been persevering under the supervision of netizens and the urging of a strong sense of responsibility. While other retirees were attending senior universities and square dancing, she was on a business trip. But since you choose to give birth to children, even if you are very old, you have to be responsible for them.
Raising a child is not an easy task
Even if she raised a child, after more than 20 years, the mother in Hefei seems to have forgotten the difficulty of raising a child, and it was her husband who raised her daughter with her. And when her husband suffered a stroke and was bedridden and she was already in old age, the mother realized how difficult it was to raise two daughters. She even regretted her impulsive decision, but taking care of her husband and raising her daughter was her unshirkable responsibility.
Reunion and separation are life issues that everyone faces, and the pain of losing a loved one sometimes takes time to fade rather than welcoming a new family member if you are not able to do so.
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I have no regrets, the current child is very cute, and now this woman has returned to her family and taken care of her child, such a family atmosphere is really very warm.
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I definitely have no regrets, my life is very comfortable now, very comfortable, this kind of life makes me look really envious, this is also a great mother.
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She did not regret it, although life was relatively difficult and the energy used to take care of the two children was relatively large, but she was very happy.
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No regrets. Everyone has their own life and their own choices, and they live happily ever after.
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regretted that she worked hard every day for the sake of a good life for her twins, and lived a very hard life.
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This mother's life is still very good, her life is very stable, although the living conditions are not particularly good, but her life is very fulfilling.
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Now life is very hard, because this mother not only has to take care of the child, but also has to go out to work to earn money for the child, although every day is very tired but also very happy.
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Now the mother's life is not very good, the pressure is relatively large, and the financial pressure is even greater.
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Because of the loss of her daughter, the 60-year-old mother could not get out of the pain, and gave birth to twins despite the dissuasion of her relatives, and now her life is very difficult.
Behind every lonely person is a very painful experience. Often this kind of pain needs to rely on some feelings to sustenance, so we understand that the 60-year-old mother still chooses to give birth to twins after losing her independence. But because everyone gets old, and everyone loses their labor force at some point, then if the children are still young at this time, it will add pressure to the family.
1. The story of the lone mother. Second, she is not so smooth sailing now.
3. Personal opinion.
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A 60-year-old single mother in Anhui gave birth to lovely twin daughters despite everyone's opposition. Now she lives a very happy life, always with a smile on her face, and does not regret her decision. She also has her own child, but the child suffered an accident at the age of 20, so she was in pain.
The life blueprint she planned has been completely disrupted, and she loves her daughter very much, so she decided to take a risk and gave birth to twins. What is the beginning and the end of the matter? Let's find out!
The mother has a good job, she is a doctor herself, she has reached retirement age, she has planned her daughter's future, and her daughter has found an excellent husband. She lived a happy life, but during the Chinese New Year, her daughter returned to her husband's hometown, and the two of them slept in the house and died of carbon monoxide poisoning. This bad news is like a bolt from the blue, and I still miss my daughter very much, and the room is also full of wedding photos of my daughter and son-in-law.
When you lose your child, you feel like you don't have any hope for the rest of your life, and you can even die the next day. In order to continue his belief, he considered giving birth to twins, and his family and friends were very opposed, after all, he was already 60 years old, and he was afraid that she would not be able to bear it.
is completely different from the previous interview picture, now she is very happy, although it is very tiring to take care of the child, but the child has gradually grown up, and has won many awards. As a mother, she spared no effort to take care of the twins and gave the best to her two children. After having a child, the mother seemed to have hope in life, she did not believe in fate, so she wanted to change her future, and through her own efforts she got the results she wanted.
When people hear some tragedies, they only listen to the stories, because these things happen to other people, and only the truly lonely person can understand the pain.
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Now life is very good, the family looks very warm, very harmonious, very happy, and spend the rest of their lives with their children.
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She is doing relatively well, because she has her children by her side, and she is happy.
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Certainly not regretted it. She still has her own children, watching the children are very cute, growing up day by day, and being a mother will not regret it at all.
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She did regret it, because she didn't have the ability to raise her children at all, and she was very tired of taking care of the children, so she now regretted giving birth to the twins.
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This must be a very unfair thing for children, generally when children are about 11 years old, parents are about 30 years old and 40 years old, which is very normal. But this single mother is 70 years old, this is the age of being a grandmother, and even some people who get married early can be great-grandmothers, do you think this is fair for children? I think it's absolutely unfair.
Because their childhood is destined to be different from other people, destined to be worlds apart.
Although we can understand the mother's mentality, because he lost his daughter and son-in-law in an accident when he was middle-aged, he also felt very sad. He also said in an interview that if he doesn't have another child, then his life will not be able to continue to support, and he will feel very sad, after all, the pain of losing a middle-aged daughter is not something ordinary people can bear. So from this point of view, we can understand one of his practices, who doesn't want the family to be reunited?
But the problem with Tan Zhijian is that she was 60 years old when she gave birth to the twins, and she and her wife are not particularly in good health, and their economic conditions are relatively average. So in order to feed the twins, he really paid a lot of hardships and endured a lot of hardships. Some people are definitely going to say, what about being old?
At least he was able to take good care of the children and didn't throw them away, which is very good. There are some young parents who don't raise children, and they haven't thrown them away, so what can they do when they're young?
But have we ever thought about a practical question? By the time the twins reached 20 years old, their mom was 80 years old. No matter how good the health is, they are already in their eighties, and this time should be the time when they need to be taken care of, but they may still be studying, they may have just come out to work, there must be no big financial conditions, and when other children are carefree and filial piety, they will start to support their families.
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It is unfair for children to guess Huaiping, because the parents are already very old and do not have enough financial ability to raise the children, which will make the children experience a lot of ups and downs in the process of growing up in the future.
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There are indeed some problems, and these children are likely to face the situation where their mother dies before they grow up, and there will be many problems.
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It's unfair, and this situation is incomprehensible to many people, and it's a lot of pressure for your children to do so.
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The two children were born prematurely and were not in good health, and now their physical condition has recovered to a great extent, but the financial burden is very large, and they cannot support the expenses required for the children's growth.
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The current situation of the twins is still relatively good, and now they are in their teens, and their lives are very good, mainly because this mother is richer, so he can bring a better life to the twins.
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Now life is very ordinary, basic food and clothing is not a problem, but there are not many toys.
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