Does love at first sight exist in real life?

From a psychological point of view, the illusion of a lover of "Prince Charming" or "Snow White" is hidden in the bottom of their hearts in advance. Freud, an expert in psychoanalysis, believed that many of these fantasies were children's collections of their parents' impressions, that is, the "mother-love" or "father-love" complex, which was later reflected in the "love at first sight" for the opposite sex who looked like their father or mother.

It is love at first sight if you have a good impression of someone you meet for the first time within 1 hour. Psychology researchers in the United States have found through research that 60% of both men and women have experienced love at first sight.

However, there is a gender difference in love at first sight – men are more likely to appear than women. 70% of men and 80% of women believe that love at first sight can only be once in a lifetime, which is contrary to the idea that only people with flowers will fall in love at first sight. More than half experience love at first sight before the age of 20, and 10% over the age of 30.

It can be proved that love at first sight is easy to happen at a young age.

Well, there is.

Two people, on a certain occasion, on a certain encounter, are inadvertently, eye exchange, and you know that feeling.

There must be, the problem is that it is very rare for both parties to fall in love at first sight.

Yes, but the odds are very small, and I don't believe in love at first sight.

Who said that there is no such thing as me and who is in a hurry.

As the so-called "bystanders are obsessed with the authorities", but sometimes it is the other way around, it is the bystanders who are obsessed with the authorities, although there is love at first sight in the world, but it is not necessarily the intention of seeing the color, but it is definitely not a "long-term love". If I say it's an innate feeling, just meeting the right person at the right time, will anyone believe it?

In fact, the probability of falling in love at first sight is very low, but as the parties concerned, at that moment, they not only took a fancy to each other's appearance, but also had a feeling of "this person is what I was looking for" in their hearts. Some people say, "Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a thousand", which is actually the case.

When you meet the right person at the right time, although the first thing you see is the other party's appearance, but in fact you have seen the soul of the other party, and this spiritual resonance is the reason why the two fell in love at first sight, although it sounds a little mysterious, but in reality there is indeed this emotion, and this is the "authority is clear", both sides clearly know why they like each other, but they can't say why.

But not all love at first sight triggers soul resonance, and there is also a kind of "door-to-door pair", which is a bit inappropriate to describe it as a door-to-door pair. Today's older young men and women must have heard a saying: "high vision, too picky", when we want to seek the other half, because of the limitations of their own conditions, they will set a relevant standard for themselves, although they may pay attention to it, but if possible, they will still follow this standard to find a partner.

Therefore, when your appearance is high enough and your temperament is good enough, when you meet a person with the same conditions and the same needs, then you will have a kind of "the same kind of people are close to each other", which can be said to be the intention of seeing color, but in fact it is "the dragon looking for the dragon, the phoenix looking for the phoenix, and the fly looking for the fly".

In addition to the above two situations, there is also a kind of "lustful intention" Many people will think that lust is the nature of men, but in fact, women also have a lustful side, after all, opposites attract. When we seek the other half in the vast sea of people, in a special environment or scene, we will involuntarily be attracted to the opposite sex, and this attraction is actually fair and reciprocal, such as "he is too handsome", "she is too beautiful", when a pair of the opposite sex have this feeling for each other, then love at first sight happens.

Yes, but very few.

Two people are together and need to get to know each other. can produce feelings, love at first sight, just impulsively, attracted by the appearance of the other party.

Real love at first sight is often like this, only when you see that person, and suddenly have a heart-warming feeling, you will understand that there is some love, which is destined at a glance, and this kind of love has nothing to do with looks.

Because of feelings, sometimes it is "inexplicable".

Summary. When two people get along with each other, emotional management ability must be the primary condition; Observing the harmonious and stable couples, they are two interesting souls who come together; You have given yourself a basic sense of security and love, and what you do is based on your willingness and ability to do so that you can cherish your feelings and love each other

Hello dear and happy to answer for you. Love really exists when it is worthwhile, and it is closely related to a person's appearance and temperament and superficial talk, which is a kind of personal value, but it is the peak of encounter. Both parties have stable emotional management, and the relationship between the two parties is maintained by "love at first sight" as a bridge, and then after it is gradually consumed, other feelings are accumulated

When two people get along with each other in the relationship between the two parties, the ability to manage emotions must be the primary condition; Observing the harmonious and stable couples, they are two interesting souls who come together; To properly retain the sense of freshness and mystery so that the feelings will be cherished, you can love each other, you have given yourself a basic sense of security and love, and what you do is based on your self-search and ability to be long-lasting

Scientifically speaking, love is the same as everything in the world, it has its natural laws, and the occurrence of an intimate relationship must go through four stages, acquaintance-acquaintance-ambiguity-love. Although there is no fixed time limit for these four stages, if it happens too quickly and they don't even know enough about each other to fall in love quickly, then this kind of love is likely to be unscientific, not strong, and not sustainable for a long time.

In a relationship that is established too quickly, you are not actually in a relationship with someone, but with your own fantasies. "When a person has been empty for a long time, it is actually easy to fall in love at first sight, and at a certain right time and place, you meet the person who is covered in light. In your eyes, his gestures are full of education, and his cheeks and clusters exude a unique charm.

It just so happens that you are in his eyes. Staring at the cherry blossoms.

Love at first sight is not science, it's love.