Why is childhood education so important?

Teacher Lai Guoquan, the founder of the cumulative education method, said: the production of a product, the initial stage of the mold is the most important, if the mold is not done, it is very difficult to make the product qualified when it is processed later. Childhood is an important stage for the formation of qualities and habits, so education at this stage is particularly important.

Some parents complain that the school teachers are not good and do not educate their children well, in fact, think about it carefully, are the children you give to the school qualified? For a qualified child, the teacher only needs to guide him, and the child can perform well in all aspects. And an unqualified child will be very difficult to educate, and the result is a headache for teachers and dissatisfaction with parents, which is an inevitable result.

Because from a psychological point of view, education in childhood is a critical period for the formation of personality and character, which has a great impact on a child's life. So it's important.

Belief in authority and pursuit of truth.

In the past few years, I have been back to China many times, and many of my relatives and friends' children are gifted and intelligent. But the expectation in their parents' eyes, the cruelty reflected in the grades in school, also filled the children's hearts with sadness. These children are losing curiosity, their self-confidence is waning, and their creativity is not being nurtured.

Passive learning and active exploration produce students who are not the same, and the former is looking for standards.

It's blind nervousness, nonsense. I believe that childhood education is an aid, and it is important to guide children how to play and train children to have more children of the same age.

Answer: The biggest impact on children is home education.

Analysis: Children's concentration and good habits of thinking are cultivated by parents, and there are so many children in the school that teachers and grandchildren cannot stare at one-on-one, many children do not understand the importance of learning at first, and their parents have not told him, so they have fallen a lot, and finally lead to a weak foundation.

Expansion: In fact, school education is also very important, but if a student does not listen carefully to the teacher's level, it will not help, so parents should pay attention to cultivating children's concentration and good habits of thinking about problems.

Homestead education.

In my opinion, I think the most important thing for the growth of children is the family education of Lu Shanzi, a good family atmosphere, the environment in which the child grows up is happier, and it will be more gentle to accompany him when he is in the world. Parents are also very important to their children's education, and the role of parents as role models is definitely higher than that of teachers and classmates in school.

Analysis: The child's concentration and the good habit of thinking carefully are cultivated by the parents, and there are so many children who go to school and the teacher cannot stare at them one-on-one, many children do not understand the importance of learning at first, and the parents have not told him, so they have fallen a lot, and finally lead to a weak foundation.

Expansion: In fact, school education is also very important, but if a student does not listen carefully to the teacher's level, it will not help, so parents should pay attention to cultivating children's concentration and good habits of thinking about problems.

0-6 months, I think the most important thing is sleep. My personal experience is that the newborn baby does not sleep well and needs the mother's help to sleep, but the freshness of the family can be tolerated, and everyone wants to play more while awake, so the baby always cries intermittently. For this reason, the policy of directly holding the baby back to the room and closing the door was adopted, and the baby's sleep was forcibly ensured.

From six months to one year old, there are various opportunities to perceive the world, eat and eat hands, grasp complementary food to feel the state of real things, play with toys with hands and feet to feel colors and shapes, and explore all kinds of curious worlds.

After the age of one to two, it is language and walking, no matter what you encounter, you have to communicate with the baby, after a hundred times of various repetitions, the words that come out of the baby's mouth will surprise you. The movement of the limbs should also keep up, whether it is crawling or walking, fully respect the meaning of the baby, and good exercise will also make the brain develop faster and better.

Rebellious two-year-old babies begin to have their own little thoughts, there are all kinds of meanings to do, sometimes you will be angry that they do not play cards according to the routine, the most important thing at this time is to understand what the baby's small thoughts are, their original intentions and you think may be completely different.

After the age of three, there will be more requests for knowledge, and it is necessary to prepare more short and easy-to-understand knowledge for the baby to understand, at this time you can fully explore the baby's interest, for interest, deepen the impression, in-depth understanding, cultivate the baby's concentration, and the baby itself will be more fun to keep interested.

Childhood doesn't seem to be so good after primary school, although the schoolwork is not too heavy, it is inevitable that the role suddenly becomes a formal primary school student, and it is best to pay more attention to the cultivation of self-confidence at this stage while accompanying, and children with self-confidence will get a smooth effect both in learning and life. While grasping the foundation of study, we can also appropriately broaden our knowledge, and extracurricular reading materials must account for a large proportion of study and life.

The pressure in junior high school is starting to be a little big, and psychological counseling should be online, especially with the arrival of adolescence, without a reasonable way to dredge up, it is easy to make this adolescence very difficult, parents and teachers may wish to pay more attention to the psychological level of children.

There is no need to talk about self-discipline and self-control in high school, the highest level of attention must be given, can the single-plank bridge of the college entrance examination be crossed, this ** can be said to be fatal, and if you can master this, you can see that good grades are beckoning to the baby.

The university will no longer talk about it, and in a relatively free country, I hope that the new blood will continue to collide with new sparks and change the world with new ideas.

When the child is one year old, it is necessary to cultivate his logical thinking, usually you can build Lego bricks and puzzles with your child, and cultivate his reading ability and reading habits at the age of three.

It is different, we should pay attention to the cultivation of right and wrong when we are young, we should pay attention to the cultivation of energy in primary school, and we should pay attention to the cultivation of skills in junior high school.

Kindergarten is mainly to stimulate children's observation and curiosity about the world, primary school mainly cultivates children's ability and habits of independent learning, and junior high school and high school can focus on children's interests to prepare for university majors.

On the one hand, different people have different views on education, for example, some people feel that they should be more patient and caring for children, and educate with love, while some people think that "filial piety comes out under the stick", the more strict the more excellent children can be educated, we think that the correct way of education may not be a good way in the eyes of others, but for some education methods are recognized as correct, recognized as the most beneficial to children,Let me list some of the more important educational points.

1. Lead by example and let your children be inspired

First, if you have children, if you want to educate them well, it is most important to regulate your behavior and correct your thinking, Because parents are the first teachers of children, parents who have been around their children since childhood, children will consciously learn the behavior of their parents, parents' behaviors, attitudes, and thoughts may affect the child's life, and the recent popular British drama "Melrose" tells such a story, the male protagonist Melrose has been violated by his biological father since he was a child, and was affected by his mother's cowardice, and has lived in struggle and redemption all his life. The cowardice of the mother even hurt her children many times, and she wanted to ** her childhood but was deeply affected by her childhood.

2. Companionship is the most important thing

If you want to educate your children well, companionship should be the most important thing, We have seen too many children who should lack parental care, and go astray and are confused, there are many such children in the well-known variety show "Metamorphosis", their nature is not bad, but because of the lack of parental care and guidance, they rebel against society by hurting themselves and others, so the companionship of parents is very important, in the process of parental accompaniment, let children feel the warmth of the world, understand how to treat themselves and others correctly, and how to communicate with others.

3. Have patience and correct guidance for children

Finally, in the process of educating children, we must be patient, most modern people have their own jobs, have the pressure of life, when they come home and have to face the twittering children, naïve children will always ask us this and ask us that, most parents show impatience in the case of exhaustion, and even scold the child loudly, so that again and again it will hurt the child's heart, ruin their innocence, so in the education process, no matter how tired we are, we must also squeeze out time and patience to deal with the child, they are still young, The most powerful people in their world are their parents, and we should lead by example and guide them correctly. What do you think about this?

Happy education is the most important thing, when educating children, we should make children happy, and let children learn some truths, so that it is the best.

Attitude is the most important thing, as long as there is a good attitude, children will be willing to accept it, and it will not affect the educational results.

1. Good conduct.

No matter whether a person's grades are good or bad, character is the key! Morality can compensate for the shortcomings of ability, but ability cannot cover up the defects of morality.

But a child's character is largely related to his upbringing. Teachers are only preachers and puzzlers, but parents are the influencers of their children's lives.

2. Good habits.

Children who grow up at the mahjong table or in front of the TV must be very different from those educated by parents who love to read.

This is why many parents often receive a strong rebellious mentality when they urge their children to study seriously while watching TV.

As the saying goes, "parents are their children's first teachers", which makes sense. Some scholars have shown that children are the most rapid period of intellectual development before the age of 5, and if parents give their children a good enlightenment education during this period, it will be the key to children's early intellectual development. In addition, after the birth of a child, he or she spends a long time living in the family and staying with his parents.

The words and deeds of parents affect children anytime and anywhere, and they can be said to be children's lifelong teachers. Especially in terms of behavior and habits, the role of family education is definitely greater than the role of school education, which is why teachers often complain that "I finally got rid of the bad habits of so-and-so, and how did I go back and spend the weekend and reveal my true form". The famous Soviet educator Sukhomlinsky once compared a child to a piece of marble, saying that it would take six sculptors to shape this marble into a statue

Family, school, the child's community, the child himself, books, accidental factors. From the point of view of the order, the family is listed in the first place, and it can be seen that family education occupies a very important position in children's development, so the importance of family education cannot be ignored.