Does love at first sight really exist How to talk to her

Check it out! Maybe it can give you some inspiration!

1.My school sister took a fancy to a handsome guy from our school, so she stepped forward and talked to someone:

Handsome guy, do you have a girlfriend?

Pregnant. Would you mind changing to another one?

Mind. Okay, so do you mind having one more? >

Two months later, my younger sister was successfully promoted

2.In college, when I went to self-study, a strange boy stopped me, I asked him what was the matter, and he said, "It's okay, you're so white, I just want to see if you look good." ”

After a while, he came over and said, "Do you think I'm dark?" ”

Black: "I said. He said, "Everybody says I'm black. ”

Fainted again. 3.See a beautiful mm in front of you... There is no way to talk to you. Thereupon... Pick up a brick ... Above.

Former.. "Classmate, this is what you dropped, right? ”

4.At a Vietnamese restaurant in Connecticut, a handsome waiter asked me, "Are you Chinese?.""

Even with him, he immediately said "I love you" in Chinese

Occasional syncope! Then he kept dangling around my table, and he didn't pay attention to other customers telling him to take the bill, and my friend who went to dinner with me was depressed, saying that she had come to this restaurant and had not been accosted n times, and I was the first time I came

5.A friend's classmate wanted to soak a mm in the evening self-study, so he went up and asked, "Classmate, what time is it?" ”

That mm looked at his watch: "Half past eight." ”

The guy looked surprised and said, "Ah, my watch is also half past eight, do you think we are very fateful?!" ”

Watch more romantic dramas that girls like. Korean dramas or something. Do what you like. The general way to pick up a conversation will be that she will think you are vulgar. You have to have your own characteristics to get her attention.

exists. Find something to say, know that the other party is interested in you, and anything will be speculative... If you don't feel it, say anything...

Yes! It happened to me! I also like her very much when I see her!

The first floor is not right, as long as she likes it, she should chase it regardless of whether she has a boyfriend or not, after all, happiness is fought for with her own hands! And you're not ashamed to chase it, aren't you? Go after it!

Personally, I think that the intention of chasing girls should not be too obvious.

If possible, try to get to know her in a natural way and then be friends.

When you confess, she will feel that you like her character after contacting her, and you think that the two of you are very suitable, so you pursue her, not because of the coveting of her appearance.

You have to believe in yourself, if you really like her, don't care about face and feel embarrassed to do this, if you think she's good-looking, very beautiful, want to know her and want to have fun, I advise you to forget it

Boss, you're too low-level, aren't you, just because she's pretty, you're sure you like her?!

Despise you!

Take the initiative to say hello so you can talk about some other topics next.

Find something that needs the help of the other party to do, take the opportunity to get closer to the other party, and slowly cultivate the relationship between two people.

You can take the initiative to run over and introduce yourself to him, and then find some topics that he might be interested in, so that we can talk.

Understand the other person's interests and hobbies, grasp the hobbies, and cultivate your own interests and hobbies like his, I believe there will be something to say.

You can show the way of accosting a conversation more naturally, such as inadvertently colliding, and then saying sorry, and it has been a successful accosting.

In fact, pick-up is the most basic and must master skills in pickling girls, especially those otaku and more shy boys, their life circle has less contact with women, or they dare not take the initiative to approach girls, which is another headache for them, there are many boys who have a crush on girls who want to see almost every day, but they never dare to take the first step - pick-up, okay, today, let's take a look at the skills of pick-up girls!

The pick-up must be straight to the point: Reason 1, there are too many sales and ** in today's society, so you must first indicate your intentions, otherwise people will not have a sense of security. The second reason is that our culture has been graceful for thousands of years, so sometimes it can become a charm to express one's intentions.

Reason 3, the pick-up pays attention to the eye-catching, and the direct opening can allow each other to be quickly screened.

As the name suggests, it is to start a conversation from a natural topic, which is suitable for parties, nightclubs, bookstores, exhibitions, travels, and friends' weddings. Because when you have to be in the same space, the direct opening is not successful.

It will make both parties fall into embarrassment and fail to accost, and everyone can leave immediately.

Here's a guide to picking up on some common occasions as well as first dates:

1. Shopping mall pick-up.

Choose a relatively open place with few **, run over directly and say, "Hello, I want to know you", just do it, pull it if it doesn't work.

2. Street pick-up.

Don't shoot in a place where no one is around, especially at night, try to find a place with a street lamp before opening your mouth, it seems that you are open-minded and bright. Or open directly, "Hello, I want to know you", okay, if not, you have to pull it, because mm has a lower sense of security on the street than in the mall.

3. Canteen, self-study room, café, fast food restaurant pick-up.

Go straight over, sit down first, and then ask, "Hello, I actually want to get to know you, can I sit here?" Okay, if it doesn't work, get up and go.

4. Pick-up on buses, subway cars, and planes.

It's best to start with an indirect one, such as, "Can you lend me your magazine?" "Your phone is beautiful. And the trouble with the direct opening is that you can't jump out of the car (parachute jump) immediately when you are rejected, and you and mm will be very uncomfortable.

So, if you really can't find a topic, but you really want to get to know her, follow her out of the car (get off the plane) and start with a direct on the road.

5. Campus pick-up.

Both direct and indirect openings are acceptable. For example, if you pick up a mm with a sketchpad on your back, you may start with art in the indirect opening, and then talk about painting after making sure that MM is friendly. Personally, I prefer to start directly, because if the other person is not interested in me, she doesn't have to be polite to accompany me.

Many rookies have a misconception that a direct opening will reduce their first impression on others, while an indirect opening can give them more opportunities to express their inner beauty. In fact, the only benefit of an indirect opening is that it doesn't embarrass MM, and it has little effect on your own image.

1.Asking for directions is a very advanced knowledge, in terms of simple current social quality, the other party will definitely tell you if you ask for directions, but how to continue after asking? That's learning.

For example, you can ask in another way: Hello, is the place next to this? If the other party answers you warmly, then you have the possibility of continuing the conversation, for example, do you also live next to this?

Wait, if the other party doesn't know a word, then there's no way!

2.Directly express affection to the other party and send out invitations, such as: more suitable for women with heavy makeup and full of confidence:

Can I have a cup of coffee? Miss, you are so beautiful, and your hair is so flowing and charming! Miss, your temperament is so charming, can we make friends?

Miss, you look so good in this dress, where did you buy it? I want to tell my cousin. Miss, are you a fashion model?

Please sign your name......What the? You're not? Isn't it, I don't believe it.

You're so beautiful, please sign it." The opening noun that is more suitable for the average girl must be said humorously and funny. The view of the sea in front of you is so beautiful, why don't you go and see the sea together?

I like the way you dress, can you talk to me? I want my sister to learn too. Do you really want to invite you to thirst for a cup and enjoy the light?

I know a restaurant with a beautiful style and atmosphere, so let's go and enjoy it. Reference.

Teach me a little trick I usually use and come forward. A look of anxiety: "Oh, beauty, my phone is out of battery."

Can I borrow your phone for me to call? If she takes out her phone. Resolutely call your mobile phone number.

Remember to mute it before. And then ... It's up to you to develop and evolve.

And if she hadn't lent you her phone. That... It is recommended that you.

Let's give up for now. People don't have any affection for you.

The success rate of pick-up depends on what car you drive, if it is Rambo, the beauty will take the initiative to pick up you.

First convey affection with your eyes, be careful not to disgust the other party, approach step by step, surprise her, a friend of mine is like this to her current wife, you try.

If I had a friend next to me, I would definitely ignore the pick-up, please pick up a lonely;

If I'm in a hurry, or I'm too busy with the work at hand, I'll definitely ignore the pick-up, so it's best to have a little bit of eye and pick up a conversation when the girl seems to be okay and in a good mood

If it's really handsome or something, ......I'm going to take the initiative to strike up a conversation (ahem). But generally speaking, a cleaner look will be a plus;

Speak directly, don't squirm, don't be too shy (of course, this may be because I don't like shy guys). I also don't like to write notes, unless the words are nice;

At the beginning, let's find a topic to talk about, for example, when I see a girl reading a book, I talk about books, and when I am watching a movie, I talk about movies, but I can't talk about it...... angryIt's okay to have nothing to say, but don't come up and say, "Can you give me **?" "Do you have a boyfriend?" "It's like checking the household registration, it's too insincere......It's good to introduce yourself more;

Show concern appropriately, but don't be too eager, too insane, too close, or too ...... in your eyesIt's normal;

If it makes me think, "Well, it's nice for this person to be a friend", then it's quite funny;

Finally ......After the conversation is successful, you should contact in time, don't delay for a week, and you can always send a text message if you don't have time.

If I meet the type I like on the road, I don't dare to take the initiative to pick up someone, for fear of being mistaken for a psychopath.

Dare, it took 500 times to look back in the past life in exchange for an encounter in this life, and I missed something that I might never meet again.

No, I'm a more reserved person, even if I meet someone in my eyes, I won't take the initiative to talk, I'm more conservative and subtle.

If it's the first time you encounter it, you definitely don't dare, so you can only watch it secretly.

I think you should go up and talk, because happiness is earned by yourself, don't try it** to know the result, if you miss it, you will regret it!

If I meet someone who is in love at first sight on the road, I won't go up and talk to him. First of all, you don't know if the other party already has a partner, you yourself fell in love with him at first sight, but does the other party have a crush on you? What we call love at first sight is nothing more than a good feeling that appears in an instant from the appearance and dress, and when you meet someone you like on the road, she may be the standard for you to find the other half, or directly it is your standard for the appearance and figure of the other half, if these are the standards, you will meet a lot of beauties and handsome guys like this every day, so you must not be tired and half dead every day.

In fact, smart people understand that what they need to live a life is the kind of person who is down-to-earth, can share weal and woe with you, and knows how to understand and tolerate each other, rather than looking for a vase and flashy person.

Just by appearance, I like whether it is reliable or not, and it is better to be careful if I don't know and have no introducer.

If it was really love at first sight, with all my courage, I would have gone up and accosted me.

If something like this happens, I can see him more at most, but I don't dare to talk to him.