Do you think girls should be married and raised at home?

I don't think that girls also have freedom, if in the family, they all rely on boys to support their families, girls will marry and raise children at home, some men have no interest, and girls have to earn money or something.

Nowadays, the society is equal between men and women, and many girls are more capable than boys. They also hold important positions in various jobs and earn no less than men. So girls don't have to be at home with their husbands and children.

Of course, girls should not be husbands and children, there are more and more women in the modern workplace, and many women are more capable and courageous than men.

I don't think girls should be married and raise children at home, girls have a job of their own, and I think it's especially good that they shouldn't rely on men alone.

I think girls shouldn't just be at home with their husbands and children, as girls, they also need some personal space, and they can also have the right to choose.

I think that girls should have husbands and children at home, and they should also have their own careers, be a gentle and virtuous mother at home, and be a strong woman who struggles for their careers outside.

In my opinion, I don't think that girls should be married and taught at home, and girls also have their own independent careers and cannot be attached to men.

No, I think girls can also go out to earn money to support their families, what era is it now, there should be equality between men and women, and we should be optimistic about the future.

Modern society does not encourage this kind of behavior, but many families who are more polite and old-fashioned do not need women to go out to work, so they still have a more old-fashioned attitude towards women.

Modern women are not only husbands and children, modern society is equal between men and women, and women sometimes have advantages in some aspects that men cannot match.

Not necessarily. Whether you want to stay at home or go out to work depends on how you choose.

If you think that husband and child generation are all there is to a happy life, then OK and do what you want. However, you must be reminded that in general, it is difficult for a personality to be independent without economic independence. Not to mention the other half who is not related by blood, even if it is the biological parents, they will make all kinds of demands on you because they are raising you, and you have no way to survive independently without your parents as a child, this is a dependency relationship, to put it bluntly, you have to listen to your parents.

The same is true in a couple's relationship.

If your husband recognizes the value of what you have produced in the family. However, most people will still ignore women's contributions in the family, and only judge women's contributions to the family by whether they generate income for the family. Just like in today's society, whoever has money is successful.

In the family, whoever earns more has the final say.

Therefore, even if you choose a husband and children, you must be mentally prepared. If one day, this gentleman no longer recognizes your contribution in the family, or takes back the financial security he has provided for you, you must be able to live independently. You can also switch between home and work.

If you choose to work and raise children at the same time, I would probably encourage that choice even more. Because earning more and earning less is one thing, whether you can be financially independent and self-reliant is another. Working outside the home allows women to gain financial security, which is also one of the most important aspects of security.

You no longer put all your hopes in others. Further, it is the basis of personality independence.

The male protagonist and the female protagonist are basically a tradition in our country for thousands of years. In modern society, this tradition is also deeply ingrained in people's lives. In many families, after getting married, the husband does not want his wife to go out to work, one reason is that he does not want the other party to be too tired, and the other reason is to show his ability, thinking that he can afford to support him, and he does not need the other party to go out to work.

So, what should I do if my in-laws don't let me go out to work after I get married?

As the rights and obligations of the people, labor is stipulated in the laws of our country, and our citizens enjoy the right to work and the obligation to work. Moreover, under article 13 of the Marriage Act, husband and wife have equal status in the family. Article 15 goes more directly to stipulate that after marriage between a man and a woman, both spouses have the freedom to participate in production, work, study and social activities, and one party may not restrict or interfere with the other.

It can be seen that the wife also has the right to go out to work after marriage, and the husband cannot restrict or interfere with the wife's participation in the work, whether out of pity for the wife or for the purpose of demonstrating his ability.

Moreover, China advocates equality between men and women, not only in terms of legal rights, but also in terms of equal rights at work. Moreover, in the economic field of modern society, more and more women are showing their extraordinary abilities. In many large companies, female executives are not uncommon, and even on the road to entrepreneurship, women have fully demonstrated their different abilities and strengths from men.

Contemporary times are not a patriarchal society, and women's human rights are guaranteed and their abilities are demonstrated, which is not only a blessing for this society, but also a blessing for the family. By keeping a woman's job, she can reduce the burden on her family and even become the breadwinner of her family. When educating the next generation, women who remain in the job will be able to raise children who will be useful to society and the country in a more targeted manner.

Therefore, after getting married, if the in-laws are not allowed to go out to work, the best way to avoid hurting the feelings is to negotiate calmly, and if not, they can seek mediation from a third party as needed.

That's the saying and practice of the old society. Now women can continue to work, educate their children, take care of their families, and share the responsibilities of husband and wife.

Not necessarily, depending on their own situation, it is better for a woman to have her own career, if there is no one to watch the child, then there is no way.

One party is already married, and the other party is single and unmarried.

But no matter who you are, work is always a very important part of life, because this is the foundation of life.

1.How to balance family and career.

For the plot in the TV series, in fact, one of the most obvious problems is about Sun Heping's estrangement from his daughter.

In his own opinion, his efforts are actually to be able to give his children a better material foundation.

However, when he gave all his time, and even on the premise that he barely accompanied the children to grow up, in fact, he did not get what he wanted, and even let his daughter look so rusty when standing in front of him.

That's why he regretted it: he had done his best, but the result was always unsatisfactory and he didn't reach his goal.

Of course, for us, perhaps, we can't experience Sun Heping's feelings, because we are just doing a job in front of him.

This job can provide a minimum daily consumption for a family and can meet the daily needs of the family.

However, it is true that this job also consumes a lot of time with our family and occupies a very important part of our lives.

Therefore, how to balance and coordinate the balance between family daily life and workplace work has become a problem that many people also need to face.

2.At home and abroad, it's all giving.

Excluding some single men and women who are not yet married, couples who have entered the palace of marriage are faced with nothing more than two problems:

First, there is the sharing of family problems. Second, it is the balance and care of various material needs of the family.

Especially for those dual-income families, the daily contradiction is nothing more than the disproportionality between the pay and the gain.

In the eyes of many husbands, they have been fighting for this family all day, and when they return home, they should get enough rest.

In the same way, the wife also worked a day. She was reluctant to go home and face all the chores, so an argument ensued.

But in fact, the question has never been who has done how much, but how the other party views the other party's efforts.

When anyone tries to do something, he doesn't want to be happy, and they just enjoy the results and ignore their own efforts.

In other words, the out-of-home out-of-home is a contribution to the family, and the care of the home is also a kind of contribution, both of which should not be ignored.

3.You have to know what you want.

For many strong women, the most important problem they need to face is not knowing how to balance family and career.

They are accustomed to putting some of the rules of the workplace in their own family business, which is actually impersonal in itself.

Whether it's the male protagonist and the female protagonist, or the male protagonist and the male protagonist, the essence of it, everyone hopes that your home can become better.

After getting married, a woman has to take on the job of husband and child, which is what countless mothers-in-law want their daughters-in-law to do. But the reality is that women also need to be independent, and they are even more reluctant to stay at home and waste their time. The mother-in-law hopes that her daughter-in-law can be honest at home, take care of her husband, be filial to her elders, and reduce her pressure.

But the husband is not happy to see his wife living comfortably at home.

When a woman stays at home for three years, she will be completely derailed from society. Times are changing, and if you can't keep up with the rhythm, you will be eliminated by society. When a woman first gets married, she has a job and money**, so she will naturally dress up beautifully and be intellectually generous.

But after staying in marriage for a long time, the only thing that can be discussed between a woman and a man is housework and money. From the previous dream, falling into the abyss of reality, men will turn from expectation to disappointment, and more and more disgusted with women's chatter. In the end, the in-laws were satisfied, but the husband was bored.

Marriage is not about marrying a "little ancestor" and going home, and no man really wants his wife to stay at home and only spend his own money. The in-laws want their daughter-in-law to stay, because they are afraid that the daughter-in-law's ambition is too big and she has made achievements in her career, and her heart will deviate from the family. But the husband wants to have a wife who can share the burden of the family with him, instead of a person who revolves around his parents all day long, but has no financial ** and increases his own burden.

Therefore, when the wife does not go out to work and asks her husband for money, she will gradually get bored.

Deal with each other on a case-by-case basis. Women inevitably get married and have children, and if they are three years before giving birth, they can indeed consider not going to work. The child is still young and needs the company of adults, and it is the enlightenment period, so it will be better for the parents to take it with them.

At this time, the mother-in-law did not let her go to work, which is understandable, and she communicated with her husband in time to let him understand the importance.

Communicate with your in-laws to let the elderly understand that her husband is under pressure if he doesn't go to work. The in-laws feel very sorry for their son, especially after marrying their daughter-in-law, they will be more partial to their son. Because one person raises a family, this tiredness is not only the body, but also the heart.

In this regard, the daughter-in-law can start from this aspect and tell the stakes. Let the elderly understand that their daughter-in-law goes to work for the better of the family and reduce the pressure on his son.

What should I do if my mother-in-law doesn't let my daughter-in-law go out to find a job after I get married? In fact, I think that every family has its own troubles and different situations, and it is impossible to use a unified standard to act as a standard.

Suppose the family is very wealthy. There is no need for a daughter-in-law to go out to work for a living. The daughter-in-law herself does not have a career plan of her own.

Then it can indeed be taught at home. Be a rich young grandmother. Managing the family well is also a good job, and it is very proud.

However, if the family situation is average or the girl has a long-term plan and goal for her career, she is very strong and very ambitious, then she can go to work directly by herself without the consent of her in-laws, because the status of women is very high. If you give this to your child, you can give it to your elders or hire a nanny to take it, which is not a problem.

But if the family conditions are very poor, the in-laws do not let the daughter-in-law go out to work. It would be very unreasonable to make money. Of course, as an urban woman in the new era.

They are all eager to have their own careers, their own work circles, and their own social circles. Then the in-law's request not to let the daughter-in-law go out to work seems very ridiculous and unreasonable. As a daughter-in-law, she must rise up and resist.