A 28 year old man who can t fall in love, what should I do

Directly say that you can't do it, then write a letter, now people feel that writing a letter is outdated, but writing a letter is very romantic, and girls may feel that writing a letter is more intentional. I wanted my boyfriend to write a letter, but he was so stupid that I reminded him that writing a letter was the most romantic, but he still didn't understand.

Say it directly to her, you like her very much, if she doesn't agree, don't be discouraged, there's no girl who doesn't like to be chased, and then you often ask her out on the street to buy her things, and the most important thing is to treat her with a sincere heart

Say I appreciate you and would like to have a further relationship with me, of course, you have to say to the opposite sex who is more familiar, and if you are not familiar, you have to slowly become familiar with her.

Use words and psychological cues when talking to her, and if she has the heart, she will succeed!

If you can't say it, you can confess by text message first.

Is it that your life circle is too small, so the person you like has not yet appeared.

Wait patiently.

Khan: I've really never seen anything like that, just make friends with women and just talk.

Love is action, you just have to remember that.

Lou Zhu simply became a monk.

What kind of love is there in this era, everything is messed up!

May I ask this murderous brother, are you physically defective? Or is it psychologically flawed?

It's the 21st century now

This stuff is really hard.

This brother really can't do it.

Psychoanalysis: Hello! From your description, I can feel your inner anxiety, irritability, loss and overwhelm.

You said that you have never been in love, and you don't know how to chase the girl you like, although you know that you are no worse than others, but you constantly belittle yourself every day, which makes you very anxious and can't feel the joy of life, so you want to know how to start falling in love. Next, I will give you three suggestions for your reference: First of all, I suggest that you talk more with your good friends who have been in love around you and learn some skills in falling in love.

You said that you are 28 years old and have never been in a relationship, but I think you should have friends around you who are already in love or married, so you can learn from them and listen to them"Someone who came over"Some dating experience and skills, which may be useful for you who want to fall in love. What's more, after you communicate with those who have been in love, it will greatly alleviate the anxiety that you want to fall in love but don't know how to make progress, just like someone who has taken the exam will greatly ease your exam anxiety after telling you some problems or situations in the exam room. Secondly, I advise you to act according to your goals and plans.

You talk about having goals and plans, but you feel anxious when you think about them, maybe it's because of your lack of action. When you live step by step according to your goals, you will have a sense of control over your life, and you will naturally not be so anxious. What's more, your sense of purpose in life will go a long way in relieving the irritability that you want to fall in love with, but constantly devalue yourself every day, that is, the sense of certainty in life will boost your self-confidence.

Again, I advise you"Get started"Go after the girl you like, even if it's just a simple chat. Because to fall in love, to fall in love, to fall in love is to be in love"Talk"of, and this"Talk"It basically starts with a simple chat. In other words, you have to put yourself in a relationship to really know what it takes to be in love"Talk"What.

Although you may have learned some dating skills, if you just stay in your head and don't practice, it will not improve your ability to love. Learning how to love is something that needs to be learned by doing. Also, I hope you understand that even if you walk into a relationship and it fails (which is likely to happen because love is uncertain), don't be too sad, because your experience is more important and it teaches you how to love.

When you develop your ability to love, you will feel the joy of life because you know that you care about yourself, regardless of whether others care about you or not. Hope mine can help you.

Older leftover men and women are a commonplace topic, and I haven't fallen in love at the age of 28, and I think it's still very common, so don't worry too much. But 28 years old is already considered a late marriage age in my country, so I still have to find some ways to solve one of my marriage and love problems.

It is suggested that you can find the reason from your own conditions, whether it is because you are not good enough, so the girls around you are reluctant to get close to you. You can start by examining yourself in terms of personal image, career, and lifestyle habits.

Personal image is the first impression of a person, and I don't think it's just a handsome person's image. Anyone can create a good image, and cleanliness is the most important thing. If it gives people a clean feeling, it will naturally enhance their personal charm.

In addition, you need to work your career. has a good career, which can add points to your marriage and love opportunities.

I think we can also learn about the surrounding environment. Is it because you are in an environment where you can't come into contact with the opposite sex? If you are stuck in a pile of men every day, of course you can't find a partner.

Therefore, when you find that the environment does not have many opportunities to contact the opposite sex, you must create opportunities for yourself to contact the opposite sex, so as to have the opportunity to solve this problem. There are also many ways to create opportunities, such as attending more gatherings with friends and participating in more events organized outside.

If you don't have a chance, go on a blind date, and if you don't hurry up, it'll be too late. Falling in love doesn't necessarily mean being together forever, at least it can help you develop the right outlook on life. If you don't talk about it because you have to divide sooner or later, then don't live at all, you will die sooner or later.

I don't think you have to fall in love, get married, or work...If you don't feel like you need to be in a relationship yourself, then you can continue to enjoy your single life regardless of what others say, whether you are 28 or 38 years old. What is even more sad than not being in love at the age of 28 is that after a casual kiss, I found someone I didn't love and got married quickly. The only question is, if you've never been in a relationship, how do you know if you're fit for a relationship?

So, I'm afraid I still have to find a girl you like to try. Don't suffer from gains and losses, just remember that idleness is idleness.

28-year-old almost 29-year-old people floated by, the first date was when I was a sophomore in China, because I brushed up credits in my freshman year, so I didn't have extra energy to add energy, and it turned out to be the only serious date in my life so far, and the first date was actually very successful in my heart....I did all the hand-holding and hugging, and I even wanted to be together afterwards, but I was serious...Then I went abroad not long after.,And then I went abroad for 8 years and so far, I haven't had a serious date.,I think I would have had a second child if I was in China....What can I do, I can only know more people and try slowly.

32 years old, male, I haven't talked about it either. What is even more tragic for me is that in the rural county, the children of women my age can go to primary school. Women of marriageable age look down on me. Prepare to be alone for the rest of your life.

I don't feel like I'm in a hurry to fall in love, don't fall in love because I'm in love, I'm also 28 and I don't have a love experience, sometimes I'm also very distressed, I'm also very anxious, and then I read an article, and the state is slowly adjusted, the general meaning of the article is that when you're single, live your life well, work confidently, love life, and your destined people will naturally be attracted, which means to be the best version of yourself and attract people with similar interests!

Don't deliberately do anything or not do anything, falling in love is like sleeping, sometimes the more you think about it, the more insomnia you get...Go with the flow. Really go with the flow, and then it will happen.

This question is actually not a problem, if you don't study at the age of 16, then you haven't been in a relationship because you have to find a way to find the reason. But if you come out after college, you're all gone, and some people may still have a graduate doctorate or something, and then they're even older. So if this is the case, let's not rush, just learn some tricks and methods.

Let me tell you some tips for chasing girls.

1. The personality should gradually be cheerful and outgoingMany boys gradually become a little soft and weak due to the care of the school and their parents. In the face of the girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, and just wait for the girl to send it to the door herself, which is very unrealistic. So if we want to fall in love, then our personality must start to be extroverted.

Outside, we must force ourselves to talk and have more contact with girls. Because there are some things that you really have to fight for! Personally, I feel that girls also prefer some cheerful and outgoing boys, so we have to do what they like!

2. Learn to clean up and dress up

3. Learn to be romantic

I think if a man hasn't been in a relationship until he is 28 years old, it's actually a little problematic, after all, you're so old, it's not normal to have never been in love, maybe I think I can let myself have the energy to experience it.

I think first of all, you have to expand your social circle, only by meeting more people will you have more opportunities to meet the person you like, the person you like. Or you have more opportunities for others to see you, communicate with you, and then know more about you, and want to know you more. It's all based on the opportunity to look at each other, say a word, smile or something.

Otherwise, you can't stay at home all day, or bury yourself at work all day, and you can't communicate with people or people. Just like what is said in the border city, it is because Cuicui is going to see the dragon boat that she will meet the send-off, everyone will meet the half of their destiny, and we have expectations for the future, because it is all based on the moment of meeting. Only when you know more people will more people know you.

Secondly, I think you may be more introverted. Whether you're an introvert or an extrovert, know what kind of person you're looking for to spend the rest of your life with. The rest of your life is not long, but it is not short, and it is the most important thing to find someone you like and spend it with someone who has similar views to you.

Although you may be an older leftover girl, I think no matter how old a person is, don't be in a hurry to marry herself. The more urgent this kind of thing is, the less urgent it is, and it is good to really feel that this person is worthy of entrusting him for life. Don't marry yourself off in a daze, so that there will only be more bitter fruits waiting for you later.

Therefore, once the threshold is closed, others can live a better life and live a more comfortable life.

In the end, I think love is a wonderful thing, maybe it is not measured by age, one person meets another, you have to have fate. Believe that everyone in this world will have their own fate!

The first thing you need to do is to determine your view of love. Treat love in the right way. When you have your own love, you will definitely have the day when you will go to the palace of marriage.

So you have to adjust your mindset first. If you haven't been in a relationship at the age of twenty-eight, it may be that you did like some people when you should be in love, but they are not with you, which will lead to a state of confusion about love.

Or you find that you simply don't feel the urge to fall in love. When you meet the person who belongs to you, you will find that you have the urge to pursue love, and you also have the state of longing for love and being filled with love.

You can expand your circle of friends. When you have free time, you can spend more time with friends and colleagues, and have some activities at parties. You can actively participate in these language communication activities, you can meet more friends, and you can get to know more people.

When you don't expand your circle of friends, you will find that there are only a few boys around you. And none of them are yours, heartwarming boys. This is the only way you can find your true destiny.

When you know more and more friends, so will the number of male friends around you, and there will be some enthusiastic people who will introduce you to your boyfriend. At this time, you will find that you know more and more male friends around you, and you can find the one who belongs to you among them. When you find your true destiny.

You love him so much, and he cherishes you so much. At this time, your love has reached a peak, and you will enter the palace of marriage. Enjoy your own marriage.

How to get married? If a girl is in a hurry to get married, she will lower her requirements, I believe that there is always someone waiting for you, you can have a good relationship, enjoy the process of love. Before that, you can dress up and become more beautiful.