I m in love with a girl who has a boyfriend, and I m confused

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You are facing some problems.

    If you chase her, you should be able to catch her. Because you have the conditions.

    If she's really important enough to you, chase after her, treat her well.

    Of course, you will also have worries, that is, the two years between you and her, those two years she is in school, and you have to struggle, this is often a very dangerous time.

    Think about some questions:

    What attracts you to her? The difference between her and others is **, why is she the only one who is attracted to her? What is her personality like? In addition to simple love, is there anything more supportable in this relationship?

    I'm sure you're a junior and know what I mean by asking these questions.

    After thinking about it clearly, you will know whether this love is worth pursuing.

    Bless you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then you're too much, you can't take advantage of others.

    At least make the girl feel that she is really in love with you, so that you can force her to ask if she wants to be together.

    She just doesn't want to lose your friend now, not in love with you, if she does, she would have fallen into your arms with her boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When the judgment continues, you will suffer from it, pursue her, the success rate will be very high, don't be afraid of the front and the back, forget it after it doesn't work.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The love field is the battlefield, since you love her, chase her to death, don't care about anything else.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You are obviously immoral and unrighteous in doing so. Imagine that you are destroying another love when you give her one. To the end....Don't do this. Women hesitate. But you should quit at this point. After all, the boy in the distance arrived before you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no right or wrong in feelings, and you can't control them. It's your job to dig it up. If you can't dig it, stay away.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think the landlord should know that in the end, there must be an echo. Otherwise, such heavy feelings cannot be borne by one person.

    Secondly, the landlord knows that love is exclusive and single-minded, so there is jealousy and jealousy. There is no way that love has these attributes.

    On the question of the landlord saying love and understanding. The beginning of love, first of all, is attraction, whether it is love at first sight or long-term love, it is a sudden touch to the nerves of attraction, and then you will have the urge and desire to know her urgently. Although the word love still requires time and energy to be called love, its prototype is simple.

    Sometimes, love is just like that. If you love her, then go and confess, no matter what the outcome is, remember what you did and bear the consequences yourself. If you can't afford to love, don't confess because you will torture yourself.

    Eventually, the wound will heal, but you won't be able to go back to the way you were.

    Life is such a pity. However, life is full of hope because of regrets.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is pursued by herself, you don't want to lose hope just because she has a boyfriend, she has a boyfriend does not mean that she is very happy, maybe she wants to find a boyfriend who truly loves her? Maybe she has a boyfriend doesn't mean they will get married in the future, as long as you are sincere to her, I think she will definitely accept you, I wish you success

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then give up and don't think about it! It can be temporary, wait until you know she's broken up before you strike. Don't think about it now! Anyway, it's only a freshman in high school, and there are girls in other classes you don't know, right?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's just a freshman of high school, what is happiness, hehe, if you like it, just chase it, it's just three or two years, to put it bluntly, it's really over, and I don't know what will happen in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If he is happy, try not to bother her, and if she is not happy, you can give her the happiness you gave.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    yes, it's just a boyfriend, don't think so desperately.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then be good friends, friendship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. Missed movies, always the best, lost lovers, total.

    is the best to understand you.

    In this world, everyone has something they want to find.

    People, once they miss it, they will not come back.

    If you fall in love. Don't say it lightly.

    Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life of love.

    It's beautiful, and I can't stand it.

    The test of love is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Many things are always understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with.

    Learn to give up, maybe life will be easier ...

    Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable. This journey is deep, to this day, it is not easy, gently pull out your hand, say goodbye, really thank you, this way with you...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's always bad to do all three, you have to see if she likes her own boyfriend first. If her boyfriend is worse than you, you can chase after it. If her boyfriend is better than yours.

    Whether it's better for him or anything else than you, just give up. Because a woman's happiness is important. You have to figure out if you really like her or not.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It cannot be changed from one wishful thinking to two wishes.

    In many cases, there will be a consensual situation between men and women.

    One is wishful thinking, that is, only one side is interested. Xiaosheng was polite, but the woman was not interested at all, or the girl was moved, but the boy turned his head away and didn't even look at it.

    In this case, of course, there will be no love, love is two-sided, wishful thinking, just unrequited love.

    If you are willing, if you are the willing party, wake up quickly and wake up early, it is just an embellishment in life, and it is not interesting at the beginning. If you can't wake up from a dream, or if you believe in something sincere, Jin Shi will open such old sayings, thinking that if you persist, you can become consensual, then it will become a great tragedy, and it will inevitably be painful, and, in the end, it will be a great disappointment.

    Isn't there an example of one wishful thinking becoming two wishes? Aren't there many men and women who are together, and men pursue women, or women pursue men, and they come back with great pain?

    Of course not, it was intentional at all, so one party will give the other party a chance to pursue, if it is absolutely unintentional, there is no chance to even pursue, why is there a possibility of becoming consensual?

    Don't try, won't have.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Ask the people around her to see if she really has a boyfriend, if so, don't be ambiguous, it's useless to like something that isn't your own. If not, it's testing you. Very promising.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on how her current partner treats her, if so-so, you can be nice to her, she will choose what can give her happiness, love is free.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People don't want to hurt you, it depends on their feelings, if it's good, you don't have to dig into the corners

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you really like it and plan to live this life, grab it!! If only you had the strength!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really like it, grab it!!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sad. Please her, if she likes you, then grab her, and if she doesn't like you, find more than one.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You're doing the right thing, we can cry, we can be scared, we can hurt, but you can't let you cry all the time, be scared, be in pain

    Leave early, find a true happiness, and work hard

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The seniors upstairs were right.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think you're wrong, you should take the initiative to be bigger, go and hold hands, and if you refuse to leave, understand?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You are now the 3rd person. He doesn't love you at all. But here you are. You're pathetic. Such a woman, what do you insist on, he will also look for someone else when he is with you. He doesn't love you at all.

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