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First, it depends on whether you really love each other and whether you have deep feelings.

Second, it depends on what kind of person your husband is, conservative or open.

1. If you really love each other, the relationship is very deep, and the husband is very open.

Then it doesn't matter if you tell him or not, he will love you as always, because true love is very inclusive. If you are open-minded and feel that premarital sex does not matter, then there is no need to tell him; If you are conservative and feel sorry for your husband if you don't tell him, then you can tell him and you will be better off if he forgives you.

2. If you really love each other, the relationship is very deep, and the husband is very conservative.

Then don't tell him, because it will not help your feelings, but will increase his distress. If you are conservative and feel that you have to tell him that you can be liberated, then you need to be prepared to suffer both consequences. One is that he wants to open it and forgive you after a painful struggle, but your relationship may have an extra layer of separation from now on.

The second is that he can't figure it out and can't accept this fact, so he breaks up with you.

3. If you have never had true love, your husband and you are married just to make up for it.

Then there is no need to tell him. Because a marriage without love needs to be managed carefully, and it can't withstand such a blow. If he doesn't care about you, he doesn't care. But if he demands a lot of your loyalty, your marriage will be over.

Yes, there should be no hiding from each other, otherwise it would be very bad for him to find out. You have to tell him the truth, maybe he will think that you will tell him everything, and he will tell you about him. There should be nothing to hide between husband and wife!

mm can't say ah everyone has their own privacy I believe your husband also has some things to say Some things can not be said Like you said about abortion must not be said Otherwise you will regret it My friend is also in your situation After telling her husband Although her husband said to her very understandingly, It's okay It's all in the past But after a long time, it's different As soon as I quarreled, I said it My friend was sad when he heard it I can't say it I am also a married woman I still know some things After I heard my friend say this I'm starting to be vigilant, and many times I want to blurt out words to my husband, but I swallow them back, and I still have to keep my mouth tight, and my husband is a relative when it's good, and when it's bad, he's an enemy, and I really don't say it.

Don't say it, sometimes you can use white lies to make your lover psychologically happy and not make him feel shadowy, so why not?

I said or don't say it, it will make him feel uncomfortable, he can't say it on his lips, but it's still bad in his heart, I'm a man, I look at it from my point of view, it's better not to tell him, let him end up with time. To tell the truth, one of the people who cares most is his woman.

Absolutely. It's good to make it clear. If you know about it later, it's all over.

It's better not to do this, otherwise your husband will have a shadow in his heart. Everything is naturally the best.

Actually, it's nothing, as long as you know how to tell now, it doesn't matter if you tell or not

I told him, and he said he didn't care, but two years later he told me to break up, and one of the reasons was because of this!

I think it's so hard.

Let's not tell it.

But when you get pregnant and go for a check-up, the doctor will ask if you have had an abortion.

You have to be honest.

Be lenient in confession and strict in resisting.

You insulted your husband! Don't make people sad, you go and sell it! Is it so good to rely on people without self-respect?

Conceal the facts, hide from the world!

Doesn't it mean that Gome's mobile phones are cheap? It seems that the country has both places... So it should be about the same...

If you want me to say no, but you have to see how deep your feelings are for him.

You might be used to that feeling of being together! If you suddenly separate, you will be very unaccustomed, as if something is missing! Maybe you're not love!

can tell you unambiguously that he doesn't love you anymore. This kind of boy can only say, just let it go Don't continue, let it go now, you still have a good impression when you recall.

You are really generous enough, it's been three years like this, and he's still like that after sacrificing himself, it's not very reliable for you to entrust such a man for life.

He's tired of you. Girls should love themselves, if you are irresponsible to yourself, you will hurt yourself and others!

The same thing between you and me, I also want to say what to do? I must be reluctant to give up, leaving me feeling that he is no longer in love, in fact, the love is not there and you are still in love.

No, you should be called yourself, and you should be someone else.

(Good to get together, good to disperse, he may be a little annoyed with you.)

Go on, one year is not as good as the year, it is better to break up.

Communicate with him well, if he is still like that, he will disperse, why be nostalgic if he doesn't know how to cherish you.

He probably doesn't love you anymore. If you can, let it go.

Don't continue, there is more than one man in the world, he doesn't cherish you, someone will cherish you.

It depends on what you do with him, generally no more than an hour a day, he just wants to break up with you.

Such a man is not worth guarding for the rest of your life.

He may have a new love, but he doesn't have feelings for you anymore.

Let's get married, it's not good to drag it out any longer......

Little Biesheng is newly married, understand?

You can change me, and I'll stick to you.

Fengzi got married, what is the child's father doing, he doesn't even have the least responsibility, what is the point of you caring about him and loving him.

It's better to live a good life, forgetting about him is your wisest choice!

Hello, if you already have this idea and are not satisfied with your current life, then you are in danger and your marriage will not last long.

The answer above is really irresponsible, since you are so realistic, then I also ask a realistic question, have you ever been married and had children, does your ex-boyfriend still want you? If you can't figure it out, you can go to the weaver house to find the answer.

Since you are already married, don't think too much, in terms of marriage, you can marry a man who can be relied on, and lovers will become unloved, and those who fall in love and marry lovers are not in the minority.

Don't you have your child, who has become a relative, so put him in that corner of your heart.

Loving someone doesn't mean you can have them, reality is always the case.

Let's assume a good memory of the past! There are not so many things that go well in the world, please live in the moment

Being his lover will make you feel better.

Marriage to a son? Why do you want to be together without love, and you have children! Are you worthy of a child like this? It's all mothers, and you still say such things!

It can only be said that you are very ignorant and irresponsible.

Once is once, don't think about going back in time. After you leave, everything has changed, giving you a chance to go back, but everything has changed, you will only have broken dreams and memories, cherish the present, live life, is looking for a life that can live, not looking for feelings, after being together for a long time, there will be feelings.

I'm dizzy....Feelings are heart-to-heart, not you love, you love your ex, he will marry you, don't tease yourself.

I have to get used to my current husband. It's been a long time coming. It's been a long time. Probably just fine.

We're all married, let's live a good life, forget about my ex.

For the sake of the child, it is also necessary to keep sanity.

We see two points from your question.

1, your husband doesn't love you.

You said that your husband dislikes you, and everyone has no children for the time being. It is not difficult to see that your husband does not have you in his heart. Your union may be just living together. From between your words is able.

Realized. For this situation, it is recommended that you do not rush to divorce first, whether you sit together, communicate openly and honestly between the two parties, whether you have chatted heart-to-heart, and face the problems of both parties.

If not, we suggest not to take the last step, but to communicate with each other first. You tell me? Once the communication is over, see how it goes.

2. You don't love your husband either.

The last sentence of your question is: "The person you love but don't love yourself", if the "person you love" here refers to your current husband, we don't have anything to suggest next, but if it's something else.

If you are a man, I think you also have a big problem, no matter what happened before, now that you are married, you have to take your heart back, unless you talk about it after the divorce. So for this kind of crisis that arises for you and your husband.

situation, your responsibility is not small, but also has a great responsibility. There is no regret medicine, take the path you choose, don't complain too much about others, unless you are self-reliant, and you have the courage and wisdom to get out of this.

predicament, otherwise it is recommended that you solve the problem by communicating with your husband.

Think about it for the sake of the child, what should you do if you divorce the child, doesn't he need father's love, if you get divorced, you will definitely regret it!

What is the geometry of life? Why not cherish what you have? Does your friend understand what she wants? Why don't you think more about your child's growth and future, and instead put your own desires first? Your friends are selfish!!

Divide! Even love scores, you can't indulge his domineering for the sake of love, besides, is this beast worthy of your love? Whatever his reasons and excuses, such behavior is unforgivable.

Sit down and have a good talk, maybe we can handle things well, but it can't be ruled out that she will bite and hold on. But that's how life is, bear with me.

It's really a scripture that is difficult to read. How can I say that there is something hateful about the wretched. Abandon her, she is pitiful. If you don't abandon her, you're pitiful. It still depends on yourself, sometimes the quality of parents really affects the relationship between husband and wife.

This kind of thing is still up to you to see what you think.

No one can afford this responsibility, it's about your happiness.

You're still young, though.

Don't think too much, there is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. If you can be sure that the woman is not a water-based poplar person, you should be glad that your husband has a warm friend of the opposite sex. Is it possible that your husband wants to marry you, but he has low self-esteem, and he happens to have a confidante who encourages him.

Why can't I read your words......

There are signs that need to be paid attention to.

Hehe, their relationship is not ordinary?