Once a good confidant, but due to a long period of no contact, will the relationship change?

If it's really a good confidant, then the relationship won't become after a long time.

Well, I will. But if the feelings are really sincere. Then, a miracle will happen. Feelings don't change.

Are you sincere enough with your friends? Are they really your best friends?

Choose your future with the most mature mindset.

Real friends, ordinary friends.

An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A true friend has the shoulders to make your tears water.

An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.

An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.

An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.

An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.

An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!

When you want others to see you as a true friend, you have to do it yourself! See if you treat them as good friends as you say above! If you do, they don't think of you as a good friend! Then such a friend is not worth making!

You can meet new people on the go! After all, there are still good friends in the world who can find the right one for themselves!

I have a deep understanding of this, and Fa Xiao has known each other since childhood, but then he dropped out of school, I also went to high school and college, and the time to contact him is getting less and less, at first we will still talk and laugh when we meet, but then there will be less tacit understanding, the memory of the past joy is getting shallower and shallow, and the feelings will slowly fade away, after all, people are going forward, I think this is the trend of time. But we still had a deep friendship.

If there is less contact for a long time, there will be less communication and understanding, less topics and common language, and the two sides will become unaware of what to talk about, or even have nothing to talk about, and the feelings will fade.

Because if they don't keep in touch for a long time, they will have a lot less common topics between them, and they will be slowly replaced by other friends, so that the natural relationship will fade.

Because feelings are like blooming flowers. If you don't defend him, he will naturally wither, and only good friends who are in constant contact will. The more you go, the better.

You didn't keep it anymore, and I didn't look back, just like that, no wind, no rain or sunshine, and it ended without illness.

On the day when the flowers bloom again, will there be a time for people to reunite?

I think all relationships need to be maintained, and only you have enough nourishment for a family. Feelings can grow and grow stronger, otherwise they will wither.

This problem, most likely yes, the current relationship is not so deep in the first place, not together for a long time, the relationship will slowly fade, at the beginning can still be contacted, slowly less, and then it will be gone, this is a normal phenomenon, understandable, but there will also be some good feelings, will not fade over time, but too little, if you meet it, cherish it, good luck.

Do you often say some vows when you are separated from elementary school, junior high school, and high school, such as "we must keep in touch", "never forget me in the future", "we will never be separated", "friendship lasts forever", etc., but how many people can usually keep it?

When you come to a new environment, work or study, you will start to make new friends one after another, and then play with them, take photos together and post them on Moments. Have you ever thought that your old friends are watching you laugh with your new friends ** nostalgic for your past.

Have you ever asked a former friend to go shopping and drink tea on a sudden whim, and then you made an appointment, but suddenly you couldn't come because of something. Then your former friend just went shopping by herself for an afternoon, and you apologized afterwards, and she just smiled and said it was okay.

Introduce whether you will go to a private room to bring your former best friends and current best friends together, and then eat and chat together. But will you find that they don't have anything to say, just smile or look down and play with their phones, and you're the only one in the mood from beginning to end?

Annoyance because you think your relationship is extremely good, and then you often pester him, and then he plays with you, and does not let him have his own space to move, and does not let him make other friends. Thinking that you are so good to him, he must also be so good to you, but this is often only counterproductive.

Note that because you are not together forever, don't often post things that don't concern you in the circle of friends, which will make them think that they are not important to your heart, you don't need them anymore, and don't go to them when they have nothing to do, after all, they have their own things to do. You need to give them a little care when they need you, a little warmth to prove that you are still there for them.

It mainly depends on what kind of friend it is, half of the friends have not been in contact for a long time, and the relationship will naturally fade, because the lifestyle environment around them is completely different, and occasionally chatting so much can not say anything, this kind of friend must be extraordinarily distant with time without contact, if it is a more iron friend or girlfriend, even if there is no contact for a long time, the relationship will not fade much, because this kind of friend knows each other very well, and the position in each other's hearts has always been relatively stable. Personal opinions are for informational purposes only.

That's a certainty, no matter what the relationship is? If you don't have contact for a long time, you must forget it, maybe you have a place in your heart, but you don't know where to start when you don't see each other for a long time, so people have to be in frequent contact to maintain friendship, and they can't fade, even if they say hello, or chat a few words on WeChat on their mobile phones can also add mutual feelings.

Friends are meant to be connected, and if you don't contact each other for a long time, your feelings will fade, and you will feel familiar when you meet, and there will be fewer words.

No matter how good the relationship is, if you don't contact it for a long time, this relationship will slowly fade away, and time will wash everything.

Yes, feelings need to be maintained. This is the most clear about the importance of customer maintenance, and often talk to customers so that others don't forget you.

Time can dilute everything, including friendship.

We always take it for granted that the friend is still the friend we knew back then, this is impossible, time will not stop Each of us has changed in the accumulation of years, even if we meet again one day, the person in front of us will not be exactly the friend in our memory.

I still remember the first time I attended the class reunion, I was very excited before I attended the class reunion, I could meet a lot of good classmates and good friends that I don't usually meet, I was full of expectations, and I wanted to relive the school time with them, and when I participated in the class reunion, I realized that these people are no longer the classmates I once knew.

After walking out of the school gate, everyone developed on their own routes, and gradually had their own social circles, and the gap widened, and even formed a chain of contempt, which I am also convinced. The class reunion has changed its taste, and the once good buddy has now become the general manager, and his wealth is quite generous, so you can't get close to him and hug his neck and waist like before.

Some students know that they are not good at mixing, so they almost don't talk at the class reunion, just sit quietly in the corner, do we hold the class reunion to witness his success? The original friendship is indeed gone, and the dye vat of society has dyed us into various colors.

So, don't be too confident in friendship, those friends who haven't been in touch for three or five years are either borrowing money or pulling you in, be realistic.

If it's just an ordinary friend, if you don't keep in touch all year round, I think the relationship will definitely fade. But if you are all close friends who know each other, I don't think time is the biggest problem, the question is whether you are the same after this period of time, as long as your heart has not changed, even if you don't keep in touch often, your relationship will not change much.

No, it will be the same when we meet again. Although the circle is different, the people I know are different, and I don't often contact them. But after we met, the chat was still very cordial, there was no taboo between words, and we didn't get angry when we joked, and we said whatever we wanted.

So if we don't contact each other for a long time, the relationship will always exist, and we will still help each other when there are difficulties.

As long as the classmates are connected, they can still repair the relationship, as long as they are sincere enough to believe that there are not so many estrangements, ask more questions and care more at the beginning of the contact for a long time, how is it lately? I care about how the sections that I haven't contacted before are doing and what has changed, and it's easier to close the distance between each other when these family routines are made.

I think that if the relationship is really good, it will not say that the relationship will become weaker if there is no regular contact. A true good friend is one who will give each other more space, and then support and encourage each other, after all, they must stick together at all times and respect each other's every choice. You can get together at the right time, but it doesn't have to be so frequent, after all, everyone will have their own work and things.

Yes, I have two good high school classmates, because I graduated from college and worked in the field, and later got married and married in the field, they have been in their hometown, usually busy with work and have not had much contact, but when it comes to returning home for the New Year, a **, we will still go out to play and eat together, there is no barrier at all, and we are still very good friends.

A person like a friend is the only one who has the same experience as him who is most likely to become good friends with him!

Because only people who have had the same experience as him know what he is thinking! Doesn't that make you a good friend ...

The most important thing is to be friends only if you are sincere for each other!!

If it's a friendship to be cherished, try to grasp it, and if it's not sincere, give it up

After a long time, the feelings will fade. Time will change everything. Therefore, if you are a friend, you should keep in touch often.

No, because I think of him.

Yes, just like flowers, there is always a time to wither, so some people like plastic flowers!

True friends don't dilute their feelings because of time and distance, they care about each other in their hearts.

Yes, they will slowly forget about the bits and pieces they have been with you. If he has other friends, even ordinary friends, your value in his heart will be greatly reduced.

Eh....I'm worried about this issue as well....

It's been a long time since I've been in touch with my friends, I think.

The relationship will indeed fade slowly.

Because when two people are together, they may have more of this happy existence, but if two people have been separated for a long time and have not been in touch, then they will slowly become forgotten, and slowly this relationship will be consumed, and it will not become so good when it is exhausted.

If you don't contact your good friends for a long time, your relationship will indeed fade, but if you get in touch and get together again, meet and contact often, the relationship will still be the same as before. I remember reading an article on the Internet that said that our lives are subtraction, and there will be fewer and fewer people around us, and they will be renewed, and some people will be different because of our later life circles. Therefore, there is no need to be sad and sad when some people leave.

There will be new circles of people joining your life.

If you don't contact for a long time, the relationship will definitely fade easily, and you and your high school classmates won't be in touch for so long. We can't immediately go back to talking like we used to. You can mention more about what happened to you together, or what you went through with each other.

More contact and more exchanges, feelings will slowly get better.

After all, after a long time of not being in touch, you don't know what to talk about when you meet again and contact again, and you may be able to talk about some things in your past or present. But no matter how long a true friendship does not connect, as long as you need the other person, he will appear unconditionally.

Summary. Hello, dear, whether men and women will have feelings after a long time of contact is a complex issue, because everyone has a different definition and understanding of feelings. But one thing is certain, prolonged contact and getting along will produce a certain degree of interaction and feelings, and these are one of the important factors that promote the development of relationships.

When men and women are in frequent contact and communication, they will gradually get to know each other and explore each other's interests, hobbies, values, living habits, etc., so as to deepen their understanding and affection. If there are common topics and interests between the two parties, and they are able to appreciate and support each other, then the relationship between them may develop further. Of course, there are many factors that need to be taken into account for the development of a relationship, such as the personalities of both parties, their living conditions, family backgrounds, and so on.

Therefore, not every long-term contact will trigger feelings, but if two people have a good foundation and are attracted to each other, the relationship will gradually deepen and stabilize over time.

Hello, dear, whether men and women will have feelings after a long time of contact is a complex issue, because everyone has a different definition and understanding of feelings. But one thing is certain, prolonged contact and getting along will produce a certain degree of interaction and feelings, and these are one of the important factors that promote the development of relationships. When men and women often come into contact and communicate with each other, they will gradually get to know each other and explore each other's interests, hobbies, values, living habits, etc., so as to deepen their understanding and feelings.

If there are common topics and interests between the two parties, and they are able to appreciate and support each other, then the relationship between them may develop further. Of course, there are many factors that need to be taken into account for the development of a relationship, such as the personalities of both parties, their living conditions, family backgrounds, and so on. Therefore, not every long-term contact will trigger feelings, but if two people have a good foundation and are attracted to each other, the relationship will gradually deepen and stabilize over time.

Hello, I am a cola teacher, and I am good at answering the problem analysis of marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. Qingstool can feel that you are very confused now, if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation