Ask for the answer of the wise, why is the wise called the wise?

I sympathize with you and your brother living in such an unfortunate family.

I don't know how old you and your brother are, but no matter how old you are, your parents' actions have caused irreparable damage to your psyche.

Fortunately, you still seem to be a person with a lot of self-control, and although your brother has started to give up on himself a little, it is not irreparable.

What should you do as a child in this situation?

First of all, you need to know if your parents are literate people and whether they are reasonable people. From your words, it can be seen that your parents still care about you. If they are sensible, you can find a suitable opportunity to talk to them calmly.

Don't think how can a child talk to his parents, it's nothing. Because you are in a special abnormal family, you have to take responsibility for maintaining the integrity and stability of the family as a member of the family.

You can talk to your parents about how you and your brother feel as children, about the psychological damage you have suffered, about your pain, about your fears. Also, it means that you want to have a warm home and ask them to stop arguing. Quarrels are not the solution to the problem, but rather the ruin.

You could say that if they don't feel like it's right to live together, they can just get a divorce. Don't quarrel all day long, this will not only affect your learning, but also deeply affect your physical and mental development, and your brother is already showing some signs now. Use your sincerity to move them, and believe that as long as they still care about you and love you, they will change.

If your parents are unreasonable people, or don't take your words seriously, can't listen to you, and don't even care about your words anymore. Then there's very little you can do. If you are still in school, then just be patient, do what you have to do, study hard, and try to leave this place of right and wrong as soon as possible.

If you're an adult and can earn a living on your own, get out of here, find your own life, and forget about the pain of the past.

As for your brother, you have to try to persuade him, as much as possible to prevent him from learning badly, and not to let him continue to sink. Of course, he may not listen to you, so you can find some relatives to help persuade him and try to guide him to a better path. You must know that at such a young age, once you go astray, you may regret it for the rest of your life.

Okay, let's talk about that first, I really sympathize with your plight, and I hope it can help you. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me and send me a message.

Find a school where you can live in it, the conflict between adults is not something that juniors can solve, and the only way is to see it out of sight.

It's best to seek outside help

If you can, take your brother to see a psychiatrist

This matter is urgent, and your brother is still young

The best thing is to find a reliable person to figure it out

LS's makes sense.

I'm afraid that your brother won't believe in love anymore and feels that love is full of quarrels and resentment.

You should ask your psychiatrist.

Your parents are really annoying, but they can't help it, it's your parents. I really want to persuade you to take your brother with you, leave here, and go to work in other places. But I know you're going to be tired, and your parents are going to be anxious.

If you are capable enough to take care of your brother, take him with you. If not, find a way to heal your brother, take him to play with friends more, let his life be more sunny, make him optimistic, treat your parents' affairs a little more openly, everyone will have unsatisfactory things in life, we must learn to decompress ourselves. Now only you can help him.

If possible, it is advisable for you and your brother to go out to work and study, because your parents don't care about your feelings......

Also, if you go out with your brother, pay more attention to his thoughts, you say that he is "depressed, withdrawn, introverted, low self-esteem, and wants to go out with others, and does not want to stay in this sad home".

After all, he is still young, and what his parents didn't take care of, only you can do it!

I don't know what your parents are fundamentally responsible for the conflict, you judge realistically, in the final analysis, whose fault it is, and start with that person's problem.

Wise people don't fall in love" comes from Bob Dylan, and the idea is: too rational love is not love.

The original sentence is: awisemandoesnotfallinlove, butafoolistrappedbyhisfeelings

Translation: The wise do not fall in love, and the fool is trapped by love.

A wise man is a person who is intelligent and has the knowledge and skills of a certain fission species, from "Han Feizi: The Way of the Lord": "The way of the wise man makes the wise man do his best." ”

Wise man" example sentence: "Huainanzi Master Training": "Those who can prepare things, the wise man prepares them; Those who have power, do their best. This wise man is so widowed and prosperous.

Wise man" in a sentence:

1. The wise man knows the law, and the wise man channel. The wise people in the world do not use the law, and the wisdom of the world is all in the Tao.

2, "Crossing the Gate": "The sage took the wise man to plan, and he still remembers the beginning of the river incident. ”