I m going to be a boarder, and I m going to have a relationship problem

There is no other way to change a person's perception than to prove that he is not what others say he is in his relationship. Don't let this put you in a burden and refuse to associate with others. Only by communicating with others will you let your true self be presented to others and let the rumors be self-defeating.

Therefore, first of all, be kind to everyone and communicate with everyone, so that you can be recognized. Dafang said to his roommates: My little brother has just arrived, please take care of me.

Wait a minute, think of some tricks to connect feelings. It's not low, because you're inserting halfway through, and others have already formed a stable relationship, so first of all, the posture should be a little lower. Don't worry, it's okay, you can do it.

This kind of trial may be frequent, some people can't get used to saying bad things about you behind your back, resulting in some people you don't know have a bad impression of you, naturally, there is no need to please him, I think if you live under the same roof in the future, he will slowly find out your good, and you just need to be friendly. May you make more friends.

The dormitory is a great place to enhance the friendship of students, live together in the same house, get to know each other and help each other. You don't have to do anything, you don't have to think about it, do ordinary things with a normal heart, after a long time, there will always be roommates who understand you, and no one will believe what others say badly about you, and there will be many more friends around you in the future, maybe you will find a bosom friend there.

Don't be too nervous, it takes some time for classmates to get along with each other.

Be kind to others and get along with each other, after all, are we all classmates?

Accommodation should be harmonious and friendly, with honest people, your grades will be good, bless you.

Classmates, don't be nervous, you can do whatever you want.

Being introverted does have some communication implications. That's not the main reason, though. You mainly lack self-confidence.

In fact, when you have just started your university life, what you are worried about is also what other students are worried about, and it makes no difference. Recall carefully, how many classmates you have changed in the process from elementary school to high school, not from strangers to familiar with each other, until they get along. So everything is nothing to worry about.

When you arrive at a new school, everything is a new beginning, you don't have to stick to the past at all, just remember the following points according to your personality.

1. When classmates greet you, you should respond loudly, be approachable, and don't reject people and give people the impression that they are difficult to get along with.

2. When getting along with classmates, you should be broad-minded, don't have a small belly, and let others think that you are not good to get along with.

3. Treat classmates with honesty and integrity, neither humility nor arrogance, and do not participate in the struggle of small groups within classmates.

4. Know how to take care of students in difficulty, (this is not limited to money, other aspects can also be, even if it is a warm word).

5. Don't gang up to bully your classmates, then you will be rejected by the vast majority of your classmates.

6. Don't skip group activities. Unless there is some special reason. (e.g. preparing for an exam, feeling that the content is unhealthy, not having enough money or energy, getting sick, etc.).

7. Don't spread gossip, especially when something related to classmates. Otherwise, it will burn you out.

That's all I can think of at the moment.

As for what you say about whiteness, richness, and beauty; Tall, rich, handsome, whatnot, it's not something you need to worry about. They just relied on the shadow of their elders, and they didn't have anything of it. If you can get along, you might as well look everywhere.

If you can't get along, it's better to stay away. Nothing remarkable. Remember one sentence - there will be no seeds, and men should be self-reliant.

For you, anything is possible.

Finally, I wish you a happy university life.

I think you're thinking too much, I haven't lived on campus before college, I went to college by myself, and when everyone arrived at a dormitory, they introduced each other to each other, and they were all familiar with it, after all, it was a dormitory, and everyone still took care of it. It's just that you should participate in more group activities in school, and don't be afraid of anything else. For the way is to be walked by itself, and not to think of anything else.

In fact, college is a very complex social environment, different from high school and junior high school, college students have their own different goals, but also have their own different personalities, so if you want to have a good interpersonal relationship in college, you must first have a broad mind, and a skill that can be used as your own brand. For college relationships, I prefer to make a few close friends, and the rest can be a little more ordinary! Of course, my opinion is only for non-leadership students, and if you want to become a leader in the school, it is a different matter.

I am not talented, forgive the owner of the watchtower.

I've got a brilliant idea, but you have to give me one first. Then I will give you a satisfactory answer in the follow-up question.

This is normal, so don't worry.

Think too much, it's not that complicated.

It's not a relationship problem, it's a money problem.

Look at the problem and focus on the point, and if you have something to say, just say it, I'm like this.

Your problem is that you don't have enough money to live in and you don't want to spend more.

To put it simply, there are 4 people in a house, and 5 people with your parents.

It's not a matter of wisdom or strategy. It's just a matter of how to allocate space reasonably, and if you have to elevate it to wisdom and strategy, it can only mean that you want to be clever with those 3 friends.

From a normal point of view, you are sharing a house, and you are the one who has a special situation, so there is no reason to separate everyone else.

If your parents come often, you have to count as 5 people, so it's best for you to rent alone.

If you come occasionally, what's wrong with staying in a hotel? You just don't want to pay for it yourself.

Although saying this may seem to deviate from your original intention, your burden is the heaviest. But I'm just talking about the most reasonable answer to this question from everyone's point of view.

If it's a brother, don't calculate the details, find a day (abcd) to sit down and have some wine together, and then don't mention the previous one (you took advantage of it at that time), and then you will clearly state your problem: your family will come to see you at any time, it may be more frequent, and you now want to live alone in a single room, and there are a series of problems such as work, study, and girlfriend to come to the family.

All in all, let's find a three-bedroom one.

Is it hard?

I don't think you can directly explain your situation to Xiao A, or introduce other friends to share a house with Xiao A?

Either way, parents are the most important thing.

Don't you have your own opinions? If something happens, you have to think about what the result is, and only by seeing the result clearly can you come up with a good solution, since you are friends, why can't you make it clear? Friends will understand each other because they are friends.

Let's talk about it, it's still for the house!

Belch.. Think with people.

Actually, can't you find a bigger house?

Everyone lives together, which is good.

At least.. You won't be alone.

After reading it very carefully, I fully understand the landlord's entanglement o (o I think the best solution is for you to find a small single room or single apartment nearby to move out, not far from your good friends, you can take care of each other, and you can lose your freedom, and have more space (of course, if the economic conditions allow).

You can tell your friends that your mother meant it, and I'm sure they won't have any ideas!

Good luck with a speedy solution

It's better to cut ties with such people.

Just make it clear to them, after all, you're buddies.

Let's talk about it, it's still for the house! I think things are very simple, you know that you complicate it, there is nothing in life that money can't do, if it is for the sake of brotherly righteousness, you have to look down on money, many things you know what to do, because you haven't calmed down and thought about it!! Think about it yourself!

You can fix it.

Parents and friends are very important at home, and you can only embarrass yourself, no matter what decision you make, I think they will understand you

Thou hast borne my life, and thou hast repaid thy debts, and thou hast endured a thousand eons, and thou hast lived and died. Thou hast loved my heart, and thou hast pitied thy colour, and thou hast been entangled through a thousand eons.

There are too many words, which makes people too lazy to read and confused.

First of all, if you want to use one room alone, you can use one room by one, and you are entangled. Just tell your friends what you really think, just like now! Also, the place you rented is too small, and it's all boys, how are your mother and you two going to sleep!

Even if you think that this shows that you welcome your mother, but your mother may not be willing to do so, and wonder why this child is still trembling like this. Your mother won't want to huddle with you, and parents are afraid of burdening their children when they get older. How do you make your parents live with peace of mind in this condition, you don't know what to do if you try your brain cells to coordinate everything so that your mother will live in a hotel after your mother is afraid of trouble.

Isn't this just Zhu Bajie looking in the mirror, what's the matter! Of course, it's definitely not good to let your mother stay in a hotel. On the contrary, if you have the opportunity, you can go home and take a look, and connect your father to your relatives, friends, former playmates, in short, if you have the opportunity, just take a vacation!

You just tell your mother as I said, saying that the conditions are too bad now that you have the opportunity to go home to visit your parents, and you usually have to call more ** to greet your parents, and you can also mail order things home, why are you so desperate, be careful that you can't find a girlfriend in the future! Now let's talk about that little A, you didn't even arrange it for your mother, if Little A knows, you will know how determined you are! If the conditions allow, you can invite him to dinner in the future, your friendship is not a day or two, the four of you can still go to play together, there are so many remedies, why do you have to put your life in dire straits, besides, he still has months to find a house.

Personally, I think that a man like Xiao A who lives with a girl at will and doesn't pay responsibility for his feelings should also be taught a lesson, and if Xiao A has a good turn for the better after a while, don't bother you, don't you worry. I said you're not tired!!

Everything is difficult at the beginning, you can completely relax, everyone comes from all over the world, they don't know each other, and no one will discriminate against you. Everyone should be friends.

The dormitory is a small society, and you will always have to face it as a social experience in advance.

Why can't you experience college life if you are suspicious.

Hello, in fact, I also live in the dormitory, and I understand your troubles. In fact, as long as there are people, there will be contradictions, and sometimes you have to consider whether it is your own problem to have such a situation. I feel like now you have two options:

1. If you really feel uncomfortable living in a dormitory, you can move, because if you have been living in that dormitory, you will feel uncomfortable every day when you return to the dormitory, and your studies, your mind, and your rest will be affected. Sometimes the distance may produce a certain beauty, but it is recommended not to move to the girl next door who is playing well to avoid similar situations. But I think it's an escape; 2 You can try not to move, try to think about the advantages of other people in your dormitory, the places that have helped you, slowly get to know them, understand them, learn to associate with them, and then integrate into them, after all, everyone is in the same dormitory, and they have been in a relationship for so long, there is nothing that cannot be passed.

In interpersonal relationships, there is a fixed pattern, that is, acquaintance, running-in, and then harmony. No matter where you go, there will always be conflict, and I had a very awkward time with my girlfriend. You're almost a junior now, in fact, the important thing about going to college is your own mentality and willingness to enjoy, don't worry too much about whether she doesn't like me, and I don't like me.

In the matter of choosing roommates, I suggest choosing a girl who is as simple as you, and people are divided into groups. As long as you recognize who is a friend for life, cherish it. The others went their separate ways after graduation, so why bother with these.

Uh, hello, for your situation, my classmate has also encountered it, she has also moved to the dormitory many times for various reasons, but every time she moves to a new dormitory, it was okay at the beginning, and then there were a lot of conflicts, so that she had to change the dormitory again, but if she changed the dormitory, there would still be contradictions... So, I think, don't change the dormitory, it's not interesting to change around, it's also very tiring, and you have to run in with the people in the new dormitory after changing the dormitory, and getting along with the people in the new dormitory is also a very time-consuming thing, and you're about to go to graduate school, and you can't afford to toss, right, so just keep this kind of face-saving relationship, it's good for everyone, besides, the dormitory is just a place to sleep, if you study well and love to study, you can just stay in the study room for a day, just go back and sleep at night, and sometimes it's clean to be alone.