If there is a doubt about our love, what exactly should we do???

I don't know if you have heard the saying of a stool, don't hang yourself on a tree, this is actually exhorting people not to feel that all feelings are not worth it because of a failed relationship, this is a very wrong idea, because a person you deny all people's love for you, your feelings for you then you will put yourself in a predicament, others can't get in and you can't get out, so when this happens, we have to solve it in time, and I don't think it should be, Because a person begins to question all love, let's discuss this issue.

Everyone is persuading others not to be too blind in the face of love, and not to be too dull or confused, if you always treat a relationship blindly, then you don't know what you are about this relationship, if you are always too obsessed with a love, then this love may make you lose yourself, so it is still more difficult to say what a relationship should be, but it is certain that you should not deny all people a love for you because of one person. Many times people will have a process of trial and error, after facing a failed relationship, people may have some fearful thoughts, but I have to say that don't completely deny all your love because of one person.

Sometimes a person's mistakes don't need you to bear, if he is not so good to you in a relationship, and he has done something that hurts you in a relationship, then you should understand that it is normal for you to break up, you don't start to deny yourself because of his departure, and don't feel that everyone facing your love is likely to happen just because of a person, a failed relationship, he may have a great impact on you, But never start denying yourself because of this influence he has on you, or even doubt your future feelings.

The above views are personal opinions only, and we apologize for any errors.

Of course not, everyone is different, and we are becoming more and more mature, and our eyes are becoming more and more accurate.

It's frank, because the person who asks about his character makes Qiaoshan question to eliminate it, some of the things he does will make you feel overwhelmed, and in order to prevent being hurt again, that's why I will start to question all love.

Yes, I do start to question all love because of one person, and I think all love is very impure and has a purpose.

In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate and let everything be.

I think it is necessary to communicate from time to time, tell each other how you feel, communication is the long-term medicine to maintain the relationship, like my previous relationships, too much attention to details, but every time I endure not to say it, but after a certain period of accumulation, it will completely explode, and then break up, but I have not regretted breaking up at the beginning, because I am clearly aware of the gap between the two and there will be no future.

What are you questioning? Is it because of the betrayal of the other party, or is there no common topic between the two? If you still love each other deeply and firmly believe that this person is right, you should cherish it and express your thoughts in a tactful way, without questioning or complaining, many men are not good at expressing or feel that it is better to say more than to act.

I understand you, when you are alone, you will look at things more objectively, you will be more independent, and when there is someone around you to rely on, you will unconsciously lean on. Also, the only one in the world who understands you is yourself, maybe sometimes even you don't understand yourself, don't expect someone to understand you, and you are completely like-minded, that's impossible! I often simply find a friend who has something in common, and get along eagerly, but I always find that due to everyone's different experiences, different family backgrounds, and even different heights, shortness, fat and thinness, there will be great differences, many things are often only one person to bear, those secrets that can be told are not secrets, everyone will be lonely, but the important thing is how to look at it, enrich your heart, and many troubles will become less powerful.

Hope it helps you

I've experienced this situation of yours before, but I've found that if that person doesn't do anything excessive, and you're not willing to let go, then go on like this, after all, when you think about it, you still have a concern in your heart, a little bit of thought, and you shouldn't ask people to know you or something, why do you let people understand you? Do you really understand people? Maybe people need to be understood, so don't ask too much, do what you have to do, let yourself have a clear conscience, and go with the flow.

I just need to believe more in myself.

It's normal when you start questioning him or her, every relationship goes through this stage, but don't openly tell the other person I don't believe you anyway, it's very emotional. Even if you have doubts, you have to endure it, and after a long time, you will understand whether it is right or wrong, and time will tell.

Love again and again, perhaps like a cigarette, burns in the warm heat, turns into fog, rises, and dances in the air with the last beauty, and then it is never seen again, leaving the last soft feeling in the body, which turns into a black dot that hurts the heart, so it will begin to question. Love.

Don't think too much about being eternal, cherish the people in front of you, who is worthy of your love must not have appeared, live happily every day, live beautifully, be the best yourself, and someone will see your light!

Love what I love, hate what I hate, hate what I hate. Don't question too much.

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation, a kind of striving to create a piece of sky for the happiness of the lover, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of interdependence and kindness to each other, a feeling of heartbeat (when missing), heartbeat (when we meet), heartache (when parting and hurt).

To love someone, to understand but also to understand, to apologize and to thank, to admit mistakes and to correct mistakes, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, is tolerant!

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Yes, because in the process of getting along, there were contradictions because of many things, and everyone couldn't reach a consistent point of view, and at that time I thought why I didn't let me order, which is a doubt about love.

Yes, the main problem is my low self-esteem, because I feel that I am not worthy of the other person, and I suffer from gains and losses. Later, after getting along for a long time, I really put aside this concern.

I doubted, I was hurt by my ex, I couldn't feel at ease with many things, I felt like I would be betrayed at any time, so I doubted.

I have often wondered if there is the kind of love that transcends life and death shown on TV in this world, and I wonder if love is all based on material.

I never doubted it, I knew how difficult my love pursuit process was, and I am now trying my best to take care of this relationship without the slightest doubt.

I have never doubted, as the so-called suspicious person does not love, the lover does not doubt, and the love that has been in doubt and distrust will not last long, so it is better to solve your doubts as soon as possible.

No, if you start to have doubts, then the relationship will begin to have a crack in your heart, and it may eventually lead to a breakup.

I have doubted that when he is very busy at work, I will feel that he is hot and cold to me, and I will wonder if he doesn't like me anymore.

When my parents objected to us being together, I doubted my love, but fortunately he persevered, and now we are living happily ever after, and my parents also said that my choice at that time was not wrong.

No, we've been together for a few years, and he hasn't done anything that makes me feel sorry for me, and I trust him a lot.

True love is actually like the other person on the basis of caring about each other, willing to pay for each other and tolerate and understand each other.

If a man loves a woman, he will not force her to do something he is not willing to do, but at the same time, it depends on what the thing is, whether the girl is stubborn or willful.

Two people who love true love are willing to sacrifice almost everything for each other, but if one party doesn't care enough about the other party, then it won't be long before the other party feels tired and begins to be gradually unwilling to sacrifice.

As for the last question, it is almost impossible for the current society to die for the sake of lovers, because people are realistic.

Supplement: In this case, I personally think it is still the man's problem, they obviously want to save face, and they want a child of their own family rather than someone else's.

Everyone's sense of responsibility is different, some people only know how to ask for it and don't know how to reciprocate, and some people are willing to give something back, all of which are different.

For example, I, my boyfriend won't let me do what I don't want to do, and I'll sacrifice even my life for my partner, so we're both truly in love. What is the situation of you dropping.