How to deal with people who are not right minded? What are the characteristics of people with bad he

Ignore her and pretend not to know, but never engage in substantive interactions with her in the future. Don't offend the villain, this kind of ungrateful, unscrupulous person, you don't have to be reformed, otherwise it will be a copy of the farmer and the snake. Isn't there a saying called "seeing people's hearts over time"?

In the end, this kind of person will harm himself.

Mindfulness should be strong, and if you are right, you will suppress all evils (his tricks will be automatically dissolved) (and even hurt yourself) (and then'He will think that you are superior)

To be a man is to be positive and strong, always positive and strong, draw a clear line with her, you must draw a clear line.

1. I like to expose people's shortcomings and publicize other people's ugly things:

People have a foothold in society, everything must be left to be leeway, don't do things absolutely, many things are good to understand in your heart, you have to forgive people and forgive people, there is no need to hold on to other people's ugly things, this is not good for anyone.

People with bad hearts always exalt themselves and belittle others, always like to publicize other people's ugly things in public, and wish the whole world knew that they were better than others, but they didn't know that they had been in Hedong for 30 years, and Hexi for 30 years.

2. One set on the surface, one set behind the back:

There is a kind of person who flatters you in every way on the surface, says good things about you, and curses you ruthlessly in secret once he encounters a relationship of interest, looking as upright as a gentleman, but few people know their hypocritical side, such people are called two-faced people.

This kind of inconsistency, mercenary, superficial good, and don't do it later. Do what is already beneficial, and do it whether you harm others or not. So in the face of this kind of person, it's better to break off the relationship as soon as possible.

3. Falling into the well:

When others are in trouble, it is your duty not to help, and it is your duty to help. But a person with a bad heart, not only does not help, but also falls into the ground, he can't wait to suppress others, he is the king and hegemon in a place or a field alone.

2.We can also do this to people who are not right-minded, and that is to retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, because when we really can't avoid it.

3.We can also do this to defend against people with bad intentions, that is, when we face such people, we don't have to be too polite ,.. with him

4.We can do this with people who speak badly, and when the other person says something unpleasant, we can give some examples to try to influence the other person's ,....

5.We also have a very direct way to deal with people who speak badly, and this method is to repeat the ugly words he says

The characteristics of people with improper mental skills are particularly obvious, which can be seen by observation. For example, they are usually very scheming, opportunistic, and often want to profit from others.

Because human nature can not stand the test, so will set up a city in the heart, people have scheming itself is not a bad thing, but some people always like to use scheming in bad places, opportunistic, sow discord, want to use their own cleverness to profit from others, this kind of scheming that harms others and benefits themselves, is precisely the manifestation of "bad heart".

There are also two-faced people, one set on the surface, one set behind the back, hypocrisy. There is a kind of person, flattering in every way on the surface, all kinds of good things about you, once you encounter a relationship of interest, secretly but ruthlessly curse you, look upright as a gentleman, but few people know their hypocritical side, such people we call two-faced people, this kind of inconsistent, mercenary, like to play tricks people are not worthy of deep friendship, must be respected.

The most important point is that he likes to show off the market, likes to expose people's shortcomings, and publicizes other people's ugly things. People with bad intentions always exalt themselves and belittle others, always like to publicize the ugly things of others in public, and wish the whole world knew that they were better than others.

In fact, they don't know that those who have been ridiculed by you for thirty years in Hedong and Hexi for thirty years will one day make you regret it too late, so people who build their happiness on the pain of others are not worthy of being friends at all!

1. Find someone to back up in case of trouble.

In life or work, we all make some mistakes or do wrong things. Some people will find someone to back up when they encounter something, and transfer their mistakes or mistakes to others, so as to avoid responsibility.

For example, at work, when you have to face the company's punishment for your mistakes, you will put your own responsibility on others to reduce your own punishment. Or when the company assigns a difficult task, they will find someone to face it together, afraid that they will not be able to complete it and be ignored by the company, and even if they can't complete it, someone will back it.

And this kind of behavior of finding someone to back up is because of improper scheming, afraid of taking responsibility for things, in order to protect their own interests, they do not hesitate to hurt others, and let others bear their own mistakes and mistakes. This kind of person not only can't get the trust of others, but it will also be disgusting in the long run, so you should stay away as soon as possible when you encounter such a person.

2. Get used to being condescending and refuting others.

When we encounter things, we will distinguish between right and wrong and argue with others. And what we like is politeness, and we will patiently listen to other people's ideas while stating our own opinions.

However, there is such a type of person who will ruthlessly interrupt when others have not finished expressing their thoughts, or will refute others no matter what others say, and then only care about themselves, feeling that what they say is right and reasonable.

Such a person always has a condescending feeling, behaves arrogantly in front of others, and likes to control others. But in the eyes of others, he is a person who has no quality and does not respect others, and no one will want to be close to such a person. Therefore, when you encounter such a person, in order to protect yourself, it is better to stay away as soon as possible!

3. People who don't know how to be grateful.

In many cases, we will encounter difficulties and setbacks, and we also need others to lend a helping hand and give ourselves help, and we need to be grateful and grateful to the people who helped us when we get help. And when we are helping others, although it is not necessarily to be grateful, but when others thank us, we will feel warm in our hearts.

Based on superficial contact alone, it is difficult for us to judge whether the other party is a true gentleman or a pseudo-villain! However, Mr. Wang wants to tell you a little trick, that is, those villains with "bad hearts" often have the following 3 characteristics in their bodies, and once you meet such people, you must break off friends with him as soon as possible!

Dear, those who are really good will not tell right and wrong and deceive you, and those who are not right-minded can see it with a little observation. Some people are very enthusiastic and good at first, but then try to stay away from people who are manifested in all kinds of vices when they are dating. Because it's better to have a villain around than nothing...

People with improper intentions have the following characteristics: 1. Find someone to blame for everything, and say that they are innocent. The most common thing in real life is to do something wrong and put all the blame on others.

2. I don't know how to praise others, and I always like to poke at others' sore spots. 3. I don't know how to be grateful. There are always some people in life who are like a poisonous snake, others help him in life, and he bites them back.

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. In the vast sea of people, some people are struggling on the road of life; Some people run into walls everywhere and are unlucky.

The contrast that leads to this fate, in addition to congenital environmental factors, mainly lies in one's own character. Character determines fate, everyone has character flaws, and more flaws than strengths will lead to tension in interpersonal relationships and bad luck. How do you know the strengths and weaknesses of your personality?

It is better to look at the ten gods in your own eight characters. From the positive and negative minds of the eight characters and ten gods, we can accurately judge a person's mental nature.

The positive and negative nature of the ten gods is determined by the joy and jealousy of the ten gods in the fateful game, showing a positive mind when they like to use the gods, and showing a negative mind when they are jealous of the gods.

Improper mental skills refer to people who are disloyal and undecent in their intentions.

Improper mind, a derogatory term, mostly refers to people with ill intentions. Scheming is unfathomable and calculating, and its performance is highly concealed, focusing on attacking the heart, which is often difficult for ordinary people to identify and distinguish. The word meaning Xianshan explains:

Mental art is the eye of the heart and the direction of thinking. Correct; Righteousness, in line with standards such as ethical behavior and values.

Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" Chapter 84: "When did you hide and hide, you can know that you are also a person with bad intentions." "Translation: When did you start hiding again, you can know that he is also a person with a bad heart.