How do we treat the people around us, and how should we treat the people around us?

We should be sincere and trustworthy to our friends, and as a good friend of our friends when they encounter difficulties and troubles, we should help them do our best, and some people will say: "Friends are in some kind of interest, or they are good for each other before they return to help." "I don't think so, no matter how much you pay to help your friends, don't blame others for not giving you in return, be generous and tolerant, and in the end you will get praise from friends and a source of happiness.

Treat the person you love the most, you must learn to be considerate, understanding, and tolerant, this is not one person's business, but each other has to do it, only in this way can you spend every day happily with the person you love the most.

Treat strangers, to distinguish their good from bad, for example, if you talk to a stranger very speculatively, try to become a friend you just met, no.

I said that you also know how to do it, and if you want to fight or die of anger before you say a word, ignore him, and try to calm yourself down and calm down.

In short, no matter what kind of friends you treat, just treat them with a sincere heart.

Actually, everyone has it.

Hypocrisy. , but the degree of expression is different.

Because people want to survive in society, there is competition in order to survive, and in the competition there is a connection to the ability of the individual, and some hypocrisy is because of the means used to achieve certain ends.

Sometimes you have to be hypocritical on certain occasions, and you should understand the truth that the law of the jungle is the strongest!

Some friends are worthy of your heart's work for him, and some are just ordinary friends or can only be regarded as superficial friends, so hypocrisy is only for those who need to be hypocritical to them, not in front of true friends.

We have to admit :

Sometimes just getting to know a hypocritical person will leave you with a good impression.

However, after a long time, as soon as the veil of hypocrisy is lifted, there will naturally be no good imprint in the bottom of one's heart.

Personally, I think you should be honest with your friends! The realm of a friend is to put one heart in two bodies! Therefore, we must treat every friend who loves us with a sincere heart, and don't let good friends cry sadly. Yes, that's how it should be!

Treat it with a normal heart, see the people of certain people clearly, and don't look at yourself with an inferiority complex.

We only have this one life together.

No matter what they do to you, you have to be kind to them and smile at them.

Are you a Capricorn? This situation should be typical of Capricorn's apathy, suspiciousness, lack of trust in others, try to open up, and communicate with those around you.

Try to raise some small animals, cultivate love, and slowly transfer that feeling to people.

Being sincere and polite is also a way to treat people.

Be upright. Be generous.

Doing things and talking has gone through the brain

Friendly, harmonious, caring, helpful.

It can't be taught, and it's hard to change people like this.

Somebody will teach me

I'm pretty much like you.

What should you do if your friends always compare themselves with you, beat you up, and belittle you from time to time?

One: a beautiful counterattack.

If others not only look down on you, but also speak ill of you behind your back, you can fight back. But if there is just a quarrel with the other party, it will not change him, but it will be a waste of time and energy. It's better for us to talk about our strength, and use our salary that is higher than his every month to fight back against him.

Two: Be the best version of yourself.

From a psychological point of view, the reason why some people look down on us is that they want to use their arrogance to cover up this inferiority complex in their hearts, they are afraid that you will look down on them. If you go to argue with them at this time, not only will you waste time and energy, but also look down on you more people, and he will be the oldest! You don't have to fight with him, you didn't eat him or spend him, why do you have to ask him to look up to you, we just have to look up to ourselves.

A truly smart person never lives in the eyes of others, he only inspires him to live in the moment and be the best version of himself.

Three: Work harder.

We occasionally care about what others think of us, and we get angry because we care, but it's useless to be angry, it's better to be angry. If you change what others say, you will encourage them, and strive to live the way you want them to be, that is the most worthwhile thing you can do. If we care too much about the eyes of others in life, we will lose our self-discovery and become goalless, and we will end up living this life in the wrong way.

We are all human beings for the first time, there is no need to be angry for some irrelevant people, but we should learn to please ourselves, do what we like to do, and achieve our own goals in life.

As for whether others look down on you? It's someone else's business, and we don't have to worry about it. As long as it's right, as long as you like it, because there can be no perfect person.

If you can get there, you will be scattered if you can't get out, the so-called Tao is different and does not conspire with each other, and whoever leaves can live. He's not as important as you think, and you're not as bad as others think.

Use five methods.

Treat the people around you better.

When we treat the people around us, please give more encouragement and praise, and you will find that many things start to change.

1. Positive encouragement.

I believe in you, no problem!

Give it a try, it doesn't matter if you succeed or not!

Do it a few more times and it will get better and better!

2. Give respect.

Now that you've thought about it, I'm here to support you!

I respect your choice.

3. Empathy.

I know how you feel, and I've been through it too.

If you want to cry, don't hold back, cry for a while!

4. Give up the right to choose and decide.

It's up to you to decide.

You can choose ......or ......

5. Give pertinent advice.

I love you, but I don't like you doing it.

If you are a little more patient, I believe this thing will be better!

In family or career, the above five suggestions can be applied to couples, children's education, friends and colleagues.

If you want to ruin a person, then you can criticize, judge, and deny them as much as you like;

If you really love someone, please let the words in your mouth stop being a sharp blade on the other person, and use the best words to help them become a better person.

Bless you.

Hello dear, 1 treat the enemy, either to defeat or to forgive. Be more mature - calm down to strengthen yourself and use your strength to defeat him; Calm your mind, think calmly, and conquer him with wisdom. 2. Treat villains either ruthlessly or pretending to be stupid.

In front of the villain, learn to be ruthless, refuse the request to cross the line, learn to pretend to be stupid, and it doesn't hurt to suffer some losses, so that you can skillfully avoid the villain's "hunting range". 3. Treat friends with either sincerity or usefulness. Sincere friends bring "emotional value", and useful friends bring "practical value".

4. Treat your parents with both material and time. As a child, don't believe in the so-called long future. When dealing with parents, we should not only give material, but also time.

5. Treat your lover with either gratitude or understanding. If you want a long-lasting marriage, love alone is not enough. It also requires two people to have mature emotional intelligence, stable emotional control, strong endurance and adaptability to mutually beneficial cooperation.

6. Treat yourself, either self-confidence or self-discipline. Self-confidence is to see the good of others, recognize the difficulties of the moment, and still be neither humble nor arrogant, and treat life with a normal heart. Self-discipline is never to give yourself chicken blood, but you can stick to the loneliness of the state day after day, work hard in pain, and repeatedly fight with yourself and be ruthless.

An Xin he lost, and he lost very badly! Because in the past twenty years, he has lost so much, too much because of the struggle with this gang! Life is not easy, and we are eager to meet warm-hearted people.

We are at home, and we hope to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry, how good.

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good.

If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, and I don't think anyone would want to. However, looking back, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?

Blind hands always want their lover to treat themselves well, but have you treated your lover well?

Gu Hong laughed and said that respect each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face became wrinkled, not beautiful, and her speech was vulgar, so I got tired of it.

Quarrels are frequent, and it is not pleasing to anyone's eyes.

So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people. Those who love love to return, and the love is deep. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are distracted

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of harmonious, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, every day smile at you, never quarrel with you.

But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Have you never taken your anger out on other gods and men?

If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person.

But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, such a day can be called a good day.

We should respect and care for the people around us, and not discriminate against or exclude them. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and we should respect their individuality and respect their choices. We should pay attention to their needs and feelings, help them as much as possible, and make them feel cared for and loved.

At the same time, we must respect their rights and not infringe on their privacy and freedom. In short, we should treat the ordinary people around us with an equal, friendly and inclusive attitude, so that they can feel our respect and care.

Summary. Hello, I am Teacher Ruolan, get along with the people around me, you only need to remember the following 3 sentences, you can handle the relationship between yourself and the people around you, and have a good popularity: look at people's strengths, Sam Walton once said:

All have strengths. So there's always something we can learn from. Helping people in trouble is the icing on the cake, it is better to send charcoal in the snow.

Help someone else when he's smug and he won't necessarily remember you. But if you lend a helping hand when others are in trouble, they will remember you for the rest of your life. I don't ask for favor, but I want to be worthy of myself.

How to get along with the people around you. Are you there? Dear

Hello, I am Teacher Ruolan, get along with the people around me, you only need to remember the following 3 sentences, you can deal with the relationship between yourself and the people around you, envy Mao Kai has a good popularity: look at people's strengths, Sam Walton once said: "Everyone has strengths."

So there's always something we can learn from. Helping people in trouble is the icing on the cake, it is better to send charcoal in the snow. Help others when they are proud, and he will not necessarily remember that he will call you.

But if you lend a helping hand when others are in trouble, they will remember you for the rest of your life. Don't ask for favors, but ask for oneself to be worthy of things.

1. A few bunches of punch lines:

1. More communication, less problems.

2. Know more and make more friends.

3. Be calm and solve problems.

Second, think differently:

Put yourself in other people's shoes and feel how they feel, and you'll know how to act without messing things up, and that's the benefit of thinking differently.

Now add: Especially think about the problem from the customer's point of view, think about yourself as a customer, and you will know some of the other party's ideas.

Three, two people get along:

When two people get along, in addition to the basic sincerity, it is more important to understand (understand each other's situation or difficulties or hardships or performances), and then do self-adjustment and improvement (that is, adjust their mentality and improve their behavior), followed by care and care (more care can bring each other closer, and more care can deepen each other's understanding).

Now add: As Lianzhi said, when there is a contradiction:

1. Find problems in yourself first, don't complain about others first, and push the problem onto others.

2. To change things, first change yourself; To make things better, make yourself better first!

3. If you want others to respect you, you need to respect others first.

At the beginning of 06, a senior surnamed Liang, who had been in the supply and marketing cooperatives for decades, gave the lotus branch this sentence when chatting: things are reasonable, and the heart is peaceful! To comprehend the lotus branch more, it is really very philosophical, and I will also send it to you here to think about and comprehend.

Fourth, we must pay first

Everyone wants to be understood, cared for, and loved by others, but how? Hee-hee, just one sentence: if you want others to be good to you, you have to be good to others first.

That is to say, if you give your understanding, care and love first, you will get a correspondingly better return, believe it?!

Now add: Do you understand the concept of "giving"? Give it up before you get it.

As long as you understand the phrase "giving is happier than receiving", you will understand. Lotus Branch Lotus has been doing this, giving up its own knowledge, experience, experience and cases, to help friends who are destined, so that they can learn related knowledge, including health knowledge, and help them improve their health step by step, and Lotus Branch is the opportunity for others to understand, recognize, recognize and generate a small business. Even if there is no business, helping people is happy, isn't that good?

Accumulate virtue for this world, haha...

Fifth, be a person and do things:

A sage said to me: To learn to do things, you must first learn to be a man. To be a human being is to do a good job in the relationship between people (including family, relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, other organizations, etc.), which is also interpersonal relationships and connections.

Good connections can help you develop and help you succeed; If you mess up your connections, you'll have nothing and bear it alone.