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Honest people are divided into true honesty and false honesty.
The character of an honest person has three main characteristics, the first is kindness, the second is enthusiasm, and the third is silence. Kindness is the basic rule, enthusiasm is the way to treat others, and silence is the rule of escapism. With these three characteristics, it is easy to distinguish between real honest people and fake honest people.
Real honest people are always taking care of other people's ideas, to a certain extent, they will change themselves in order to accommodate others, and the most important thing is to know how to give in in the face of contradictions.
Therefore, a real honest person accounts for all three characteristics of an honest person.
The only characteristic of a fake honest person is silence, and the reason for silence is just that he doesn't know what to say, or because his temper is really too irritable, he uses not speaking to cover himself, or it is too easy to cause contradictions, so he uses concessions to cover himself.
It seems that they are easy to bully, but in fact, they are just trying to get along with themselves. Therefore, fake honest people give people a feeling of conscientiousness, but there is also an aura that no one should enter.
The way to distinguish between a true and a false honest person is very simple, that is, to look at his attitude towards people, the true and honest person is always low-key, but the fake honest person is always low-key and hides a trace of unruliness, and also hides an uncontrollable.
Therefore, when you meet someone who doesn't like to talk, don't easily judge him as an honest person, otherwise you are more likely to suffer.
Why do you say that honest people are not easy to mess with? In fact, there are several reasons.
First of all, there are two reasons why honest people are not easy to mess with.
1. I have a lot of friends, but I can't mess with them.
Real honest people, who do not fight or grab, are temperamental, and it is easier to make friends, and their way of doing things is appreciated by many people. Therefore, a real honest person never brags about how powerful his friends are, but when he really encounters a problem, the person who bullied them will definitely regret it, after all, no one wants to see "good people being bullied".
2. The bottom line is stable and unshakable.
Those who bully the soft and are afraid of the hard are easy to change their bottom line, and they will retreat again and again when they really encounter problems, but the real honest people always retreat again and again in ordinary things, and when they really encounter problems, they will show their courage. Therefore, people who like to bully honest people can easily succumb to their bottom line in the end.
Secondly, fake honest people are more difficult to mess with, and there are two reasons.
1. Lack of pressure release path, easy to break out at one time.
People who like to quarrel are actually venting their emotions, but people who don't like to quarrel have no outlet for their emotions. Watching each other calm every day, but it is difficult for you to know which behavior you will touch the other party's bottom line, and then it will explode at the first touch.
2. There are too many emotions accumulated, and the damage is greater when it erupts.
It's like inflating a balloon, it doesn't have much impact at the beginning, and then it seems that it can still be inflated when it comes to the critical point, but once it passes the critical point, the balloon will **. Fake and honest people don't want to socialize, so emotions are accumulated in their hearts, and once they are stimulated, few people can bear it.
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Reasonable, moral, and legally speaking, bullying honest people is definitely a manifestation of incompetence, and will be looked down upon by colleagues around them
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Why can't honest people be bullied? The meaning of this sentence is to say that if you are honest, he will not provoke you, so why should you bully him? You have the ability to bully some particularly domineering people, or particularly bad people.
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Honest people are more terrible than others, so don't bully honest people, honest people's anger has accumulated for a long time, and once it breaks out, it is terrible!
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Why can't you bully honest people, because honest people are very kind-hearted, and they are very responsible, and they never do things that hurt nature and reason.
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He has a noble character.
That's the bottom line of dealing with people.
Why do you want to bully honest people?
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There is an old Chinese saying that rabbits bite when they are in a hurry, and if you push an honest person in a hurry, you will regret it.
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Because honest people are in a hurry, they don't even let go of themselves.
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Honest people are often bullied, and honest people should be treated with an honest mentality, not to bully, honest people.
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The opposite of introversion is extroverted, doing things in a more high-profile manner, and usually likes to talk, laugh and behave. This kind of person's personality tends to be more emotional, good at thinking, and has a strong sense of control over the overall situation. Look at most of the leaders around you, there are fewer introverts, most of them are more extroverted, good at expressing their opinions, even if they are very superficial.
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Are people good at being bullied, and horses good at being ridden?
We want to treat everyone equally.
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Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, because as far as the facts are concerned, honest people are based on forbearance, and when they can be reasonable, they often choose to take a step back, and they will not be prepared to worry about being old and others for a little thing, and even if they suffer a big loss, they may choose to swallow their anger. However, honest people are also dignified, and they also need to be respected by others, and they will not be bullied all the time, and they will not let their dignity be trampled on by others. Let's put it this way, the first person bullied him, it's okay, the second, the third and even many people bullied him, but when you don't bully him, his patience may have reached the limit, and the biggest counterattack may be on you, and this counterattack is often something you can't afford.
So, we say, never bully an honest person, because the biggest anger of an honest person is likely to be you!
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Hello, although honest people can start from the perspective of the other party's lack of chaos, they have a stronger bottom line and principles than ordinary people. Honest people also have a higher EQ and IQ than ordinary people, they care more about each other's dignity in the relationship is not harmed, once the other party's behavior violates the honest people's preset principle requirements and their dignity, they will use their own methods to quickly give a counterattack, so that the other party is punished as it should be.
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As far as the facts are concerned, honest people are based on forbearance, and when they can be reasonable, they often choose to take a step back, and they will not worry about others for a little thing, and even if they suffer a big loss, they may choose to swallow their anger. However, being honest is also dignified, and it also needs to be respected by others, and will not be bullied all the time, and will not allow dignity to be constantly trampled on by others. Let's put it this way, the first person bullied him, it's okay, the second, third, and even many people bullied him okay, but when you bully him, his patience may have reached the limit, and the biggest counterattack may be on you, and this counterattack is often something you can't afford.
So, we say, never bully honest people, because the biggest anger of honest people is likely to be you!
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