Introverts are not good at communication, and it is really troublesome in the company

Leaders pay attention to work, but if the work is not effective, it is necessary to let go, be bold, and there is no big deal. You can get into the company, which means that you don't get there more than a mark-up dish. You are qualified to enter this company, and you have your status. Why not let it go?

If you let go, the leader will feel that you are capable. If you can let go, you will have the courage to communicate with others, and you will have confidence. It's much easier to communicate this way.

If you don't communicate with your colleagues all the time, your boss will think that you won't work with your colleagues.

Now the leadership pays the most attention to the spirit of cooperation between employees.

So, what you have to do is go out there and change your introverted personality.

Change your introverted personality. You have to be bold, people are equal, it's no big deal.

In this way, people also think that you are very enthusiastic and cheerful, not so cold and dull. Even though you really aren't, an introverted appearance looks like that to others.

Therefore, change yourself, life is constantly renewed, constantly changing. That's what Darwin's is: survival of the fittest. Change yourself as the environment changes to adapt to the changed environment. Otherwise, there is only out.

Everything is constantly renewed, and man, as the ruler of all things, not only needs this, but even more!

In the unit, the leader values your work ability and work performance, rather than your closed inner world. Now this society is not as good as before, now working in the unit, on the one hand, it is your ability, on the other hand, it is your interpersonal relationship, everyone likes you when you come back, the society is like this, you will be promoted and rich, otherwise you will be a subordinate. You have to change this kind of personality of yours, and you can't always be silent in any situation, so that your boss will think that you have no opinion and follow the crowd.

So I suggest you read more books on human relationships, such as Dale Carnegie's Human Relations.

Introversion is not too much of a disadvantage, the key is to do a good job. I think the most important thing for leaders is to work, be confident, show your best side to everyone, don't always stay on the introverted personality, take your time, you will do it.

Sincerity, openness in the heart, slowly can eliminate tension, communication is not necessarily flamboyant, sometimes a few words can solve the problem, the important thing is to let everyone see your true side, so that you can be accepted.

You can try to chat with strangers, chat QQ, talk to others about things of common interest, smile more, and express your ...... moreHope you can be cheerful.

The key to changing your introverted personality is to first ask yourself, "What kind of personality do I want to be?" ”

Once you've decided who you want to be, ask yourself everything.

F: "If I were the person I want to be, what would I do?" ”

Once you know what you want to be, all you need to do is go with the flow and behave generously.

These can definitely be changed.

My brother is an example

He used to be an introvert and had very few friends.

Then the DAO was only a year or two.

He stepped into society.

Do business and associate with a lot of people.

Now being able to speak is a versatile thing.

I think it's better for you to communicate with people more.

Don't communicate online.

Then observe more and observe how others are mellow in things.

After reading it, you always feel very lonely inside.

I think you should always talk to your friends about your worries or worries.

There may be unexpected gains.

Don't close yourself off!

In fact, some things are not as difficult as you think.

When you take the first step,'

It turns out that things are very simple

There are a lot of people around you who care about you...

I hope LZ won't have so many troubles in the future.

Hello to Chen: Believe in yourself!

Can you elaborate on your symptoms? I don't dare to go to a crowded place, I don't want to go anywhere all day, I don't even want to find a job, do I? How long has this been going on? The more you say, the more advice you have, the more answers you have.

This should be considered a house.

For example, you used to surf the Internet at home a lot, and you didn't go out to play, but you were at home every day. If you don't have contact with friends or classmates, you don't talk much, and you don't talk very well over time.

The first thing to solve is that you can't continue to stay at home, and you have to go out to play basketball with your classmates when you have nothing to do, because when you play, people are more able to talk... Then you can accompany the student to buy clothes and so on, remember to go to the kind of place where you can bargain, and then ask you to bargain with others. Learn how to communicate with people, what kind of people you meet, what to say...

I used to be like this, afraid of this and that. But now a lot has changed, and I think the most important thing is my own psychology. For example, if you go for an interview, you say to yourself, the worst is that you can't be accepted, and nothing else.

If you think it's going to make a bad impression, like why is this person so bad? Comfort yourself and say that she won't know me tomorrow anyway, so whatever.

There is also forcing yourself to do it as soon as you have an idea, so as not to let yourself have time to hesitate.

Once, twice......And then it's fine.

Don't overthink it, get a job and do it well.

You're not very confident. So many times you don't dare to speak in front of everyone, for fear of making a fool of yourself and so on. Therefore, the success index of doing things is not high.

So you're a little depressed. So you ask this question now. The only way to solve it is; Exercise your self-confidence.

You can go and buy books to read. You can also do anything first without losing face, and you can achieve the effect. Do a few successful things, and then you will have confident chips!

Good luck to you!

Silly hat to win women's sympathy?

Bubble mm?

Accounting, finance and taxation are better, introverts are more careful, and now it is easy to find a job in finance and taxation.

Teachers are more promising, or accounting

Secretarial, professional in dealing with computers.

At the beginning of the battle life, we met many unsuitable people and made you feel sad.

Try to be confident, communicate with people more, and practice your language skills.

Take your time and participate in more activities, parties.

Make yourself cheerful.

Don't think about it. Work hard.

Practice speaking in front of the mirror every day, well, the content is yours.

It's best to be able to socialize with others, so that you don't seem introverted when you see others.

When encountering a problem, think about it from a different angle, if the work is dead, the person is alive, and it can still be called sad to death.

Well, introverts can be introverted without being autistic, there is nothing wrong with being introverted, and introverts make friends and silently care about their friends.

Praise others more in your interactions! Take the initiative to say hello to others, attend more parties, and take your time!

Everyone has a certain personality, so don't set your goals too high, just try to do it. If you are not good at communication, you just need to be able to express your meaning clearly, listen to others more when chatting, and give some reactions. For example, laugh and laugh.

You don't need to be the one who controls the scene, everyone is vying to say that it's a vegetable market. If you want to change, you need to have the courage to do whatever you want. (That's nothing to be afraid of).

Exercise, try to say a word when people are communicating, and then try to say a word in front of strangers, and slowly develop your courage and confidence.

Participating in group activities will help you a lot.

I'm sure you can.

I'm just like you. I'm also looking for a way right now.

Whether it's a man or a woman who changes in a different way...

A little bit of work, such as author, cartoonist, online store, etc., can also do the job you love, and the personality can be slowly adapted.