I m very introverted! What should I do if I am not good at expressing myself and dare not make frien

First of all, no one is stupid, not stupid, not good at it, or has not exercised. Suspicion of others is caused by the fact that you have no confidence in yourself, that is, you will doubt it if you are unfamiliar with friends, people don't like strange things, because they are afraid that strange things will hurt themselves, if you are a student, participate in club activities, be active, don't be afraid, you can make a lot of friends there are both men and women. If you want more people to know you, you can show yourself, and then you will make more friends (when you think you have the ability).

As for if you have already entered the society, generally the company will participate in more parties, and getting together to chat after work can also enhance the feelings of colleagues. In fact, making friends is still very simple, the first is confident enough, and the second is sincere enough to make basic friends. Confidence is the first step to opening up a conversation, sincerity is reflected in a long time, and this is the case if you want to make friends.

This Your situation is similar to mine, this is typical depression, usually talk to friends and chat, don't be in a nervous state to relax If you don't have the courage to confess to him in person, you can send him a message and write a note

Integrate into the circle of peers as soon as possible, and don't be too closed.

Low self-esteem Discover one of your strengths and try to show it.

If you want to make friends with an introvert, I think you should first reach out to him, find the same interests as him, and finally attract him with his personality.

1. Take the initiative to make friends with introverts.

In fact, making friends with introverts is very simple, it requires us to be proactive. Two extroverts make friends perhaps by saying a few words to each other, opening up the conversation box, and then going to dinner together, going to the movies, going to the library, going shopping.

Making friends with introverts requires extroverts to take the initiative, find topics that introverts like, take the initiative to go out to dinner with them, take classes together, study together, and go shopping together.

However, most introverts like to be quiet, so we must also be careful while taking the initiative and not let these introverts turn against us.

2. Find the same hobbies as him.

Most of the reasons why they become good friends are because they share the same hobbies. You can ask him directly what he likes to do and what he likes to eat. A lot of introverts like to watch ** or play games, and some are still veteran foodies.

When you understand his preferences, you can generate topics with him according to his preferences, make him feel that you and him are people of the same world, and then he directly begins to trust you, open his heart with you, and become friends.

3. Personality charm is very important.

In addition to becoming friends, the most important thing between people is personality. A charismatic person will not lack friends, so if you want him to be your friend, you should show your unique charm so that the friendship between the two of you can last forever.

In fact, in any case, the most important thing is sincerity. Sincerity is an important principle for us to make friends. Especially with these introverts, be honest. Don't be flattering, don't deceive, if you give him your heart, he will feel it, and he will also give you the same cherishment.

If you can't be friends with him after thinking about many ways, then don't be too sad, it's not your fault, it's just not suitable.

That's all for me.

I think it's best not to have too close contact with introverts, but also share with them what you find funny and say something honest.

First of all, we must take the initiative to communicate with him, create some interest for him, improve his expression skills, get along with him more, and understand what he thinks in his heart.

You should know what their interests are, you should talk more about their interests and hobbies, and know more about their details so that you can make friends with them.

Is this really a problem? Don't be afraid, people always change with the environment! You are one of those in this society, and if you want to learn to sell yourself, I suggest you read some books on psychology, or communication, survival of the fittest! Good luck!

Actually, you talk quite slippery It's good to communicate with others like this, a true friend will know everything about you one day, so you don't have to hide it, be true to yourself, say what you like and don't like, everyone likes straightforward and honest people, it has nothing to do with appearance and other things, I think.

Listening to what you said, the problem is still a bit serious, not only introverted but also seriously lacking self-confidence, and the solution is referred to below.

1. Read more books on interpersonal communication.

2. You can go to the insurance company to participate in some training, where the training person's communication ability is better (not for you to do insurance).

3. If you have nothing to do, go to the talent market to have a look, participate in more recruitment interviews, and exercise your courage, (don't have the intention of applying, just go and have fun).

4. Attend more gatherings with friends.

5. Between men, drink a little wine and talk about anything.

That's your lack of opportunity to speak. This only happened to me when I was in elementary school. When I got to junior high school, I wasn't afraid of anything.

Let's go out and walk around the society more. Have time to see 100,000 whys. You go out and ask why.

You know what? Child. 、。

Hello,It seems that I'm your senior, I used to be very timid.,Not only blushing after seeing a girl.,And when I speak, I feel that my tongue and lips are not good.。。。 Later, I found a problem, the main reason is that I have too low self-esteem, in fact, when I meet others, nervousness is a sign of my lack of self-confidence! For example, when I met my girlfriend for the first time, when I saw my girlfriend so beautiful, I felt that I was too ugly, and I didn't have any talent, I was very unconfident, and even my usual humor and humor disappeared, and I was embarrassed.

Later, I got acquainted with her, and I realized that many people don't care about the things you care about at all, as long as you have confidence, that's enough! Of course, self-confidence also requires strength, and without strength, self-confidence is empty talk

So I suggest that friends don't always think that you are very introverted, just relax and be casual, and you will receive unexpected results Hehe!

Of course, there is another way, which is to work hard and do some things well, so that others will be impressed with you, and then you will not be so shy This will take a long time!

First of all, try to communicate with people more and slowly change your introverted personality. The second is to exercise your expressive skills and overcome the problem of timidity. In fact, the normal communication between girls and boys is very simple.

When friends are chatting together, just plug in a sentence or two, and the situation will gradually get better.

Hehe, try to talk to them! If you don't dare, just chat with them online, maybe you get acquainted with them, and you don't have to be afraid of them.

When you see a beautiful woman you like, you pick up a brick and walk up to her and ask her Hi! Beauty, this brick is not dropped by you.

Buy a brand name brand first, change your new self, understand your strengths, and be confident is very important, and your heart should be calm.

If you really don't know what to do, teach you the easiest and most effective way to do it, and that is to keep smiling, and people will think that you are very kind and willing to make friends with you, and after a long time, your problem will not be a problem.

Take your time, and when you are more mature, you will naturally not be afraid

Let go of your heart and think to yourself that women are more wolves than you.

Only by taking your time to get in touch will it get better over time.

Make friends of the opposite sex and learn from him.

Start trying to meet a few friends who are more popular first, and then she will introduce a few friends to you in such an area, there will always be people of the opposite sex, you just get along as if you were of the same sex, but you can't be too rude and foul at first.

Start with your first friend of the opposite sex.

So do I. I always feel like talking to the opposite sex, my eyes don't know where to look, I feel embarrassed when I look at each other, and I'm in my twenties, and I'm speechless to myself.

I suggest, on the one hand, keep in touch with old friends from the past and confide in them. On the one hand, it began to integrate into the new environment. If possible, ask parents to find a job that will not harm their health, such as a photo studio for post-restoration.

When you are busy, you naturally have no time to be lonely, and you also have the opportunity to meet new people.

Often bubble and paste it to learn to sell cute magic skills.

A paste bar is as deep as the sea, and from then on, it is a passerby

Go out, stay optimistic, and make friends with your heart. I'm sure you can.

Every day I go to the square and other places where there are many people, give myself tasks, take the initiative to say hello and chat with one or two strangers every day (no less than 5 minutes), persevere, every day

Chat online and play online games.

I understand that you can't go out because of physical reasons, the Internet is a big dating platform, many people have a lot of masks in reality, the Internet is virtual, but many people can only see the real him on the Internet.

You can go out for a walk, go to Harbin to find someone to chat with, and it won't be so boring.

Go online and see if you have any friends you can talk to. I must talk about it.