Aren t college students always depressed?

Depression is that you are too stressed, in fact, college is not the end of life, but the starting point. Your family may think that if you get into college, their responsibilities are over. This is not the case. You will feel helpless and inferior because they expect too much from you.

What I want to tell you is that depression is not a way out at all, people always have to learn to contact the contradictions you want to face, the problems you face, so that you can solve the problems, fear comes from ignorance, you really get in touch with life, you will find that in fact, every problem is just a multiple-choice question, you do a wrong or not choose at all in your life will not be a subversive mistake.

Of course, this does not mean that you can make a choice at will, if you take your life very seriously, life will reward you with the right answer, otherwise, you will never know the crux of the problem, which is the cause of your depression.

No, today's college students feel depressed, and I think it's all about the pursuit of friends of the opposite sex.

As long as this problem is solved, what problem will be solved... Scold.

I feel pretty much the same, at least that's what I know it looks like.

It varies from person to person, and I'm sure you won't! Believe in yourself!

The main thing is that college life is getting more and more boring.

That's why I'm depressed all day.

This kind of thinking is not good, college is the first stop for our college students to enter society, and we must prepare for our future in three or four years.

Depression is because some people indulge their unrealistic or troubles all day long and feel the emptiness of life, but they never think positively, but avoid it negatively, and over time, they form their own depressed psychology.

We must correct it, and through hard study, we will find fun in books and in the results of learning.

No, it won't. I won't.

Few people go to the library to read more as a place for self-study, even if they read books, they will only read books related to their majors, thinking that reading other books is equivalent to wasting time, many people with a practical value to evaluate whether a thing should be done or not is meaningful, it seems to be very smart is actually a kind of stupidity, I remember an English test rough and a reading to talk about the Great Depression in the United States, many people are difficult to understand, fortunately I have read books about American history before, At that time, I read books in that area purely to understand by myself, but I didn't expect it to help a lot later.

After graduation, many college students feel that what they learn in college is useless, and almost everything has to be learned from scratch, and they are even inferior to people with lower education than him in the early stage, which reminds people that the theory of reading is useless again, and it is really useless to study in college? Everything is inferior, only reading is high, people who have read books have always been respected and recognized by the society, college students are naturally the hope of every family, once admitted to a good university means that there will be a good job, people become very knowledgeable and omniscient, and the peak of life is just around the corner, the purpose of reading is clear is for the college entrance examination, in fact, it is a narrow understanding.

Reading is not necessarily reading in school, not only reading textbooks, college students lack the practice of society, and now university education seems to be like a closed circle, and what is taught is seriously out of touch with society. Many leaders are most afraid of bringing college students, and would rather find some people with social experience, and there is a big gap between various universities, including the same 985,211 colleges and universities, with a utilitarian mentality to learn is very one-sided after all, all aspects of life are all knowledge needs to be understood, going to college is just a way, don't exaggerate his role and don't ignore him, many high school students are asked him what is the ideal of respecting the stool, and only said one sentence to get a good university, Every time I see Maotanchang Middle School, the college entrance examination factory, I am moved by the students' hard work, and at the same time, it is more of a sad understanding of the deformity of reading.

There is no college entrance examination, what do you take to fight with the rich second generation, Bai Yansong's words make people feel that the college entrance examination is the fairest means in China at present, everyone is on the same starting line, but with the imbalance of educational resources, it is difficult to come out of the poor family, and some families are not rich but still pampered, fairness is only relative In the case of fair rules and systems, many people will find ways to change individual differences, rich families will ask private teachers to sign up for training classes, poor or ordinary families completely rely on consciousness, This differentiation is formed, so even if the rules of the system are fair, the process and result are not so fair, just like an ordinary person to challenge a boxer, even under the unified rules, the outcome is actually doomed.

You can learn a skill without going to university, and you can still have a dream job. Still, this social diploma is important. Moreover, universities develop competence and literacy. College students should constantly improve themselves in college.

Many people often have too high requirements for college students, thinking that college students can't get a high salary after graduating from college, and if they can't find a good job, it means failure. First of all, we must objectively realize that the current college students are no longer as rare as the college students twenty or thirty years ago, with the continuous expansion of universities in recent years, the number of college students enrolled and graduated has increased year by year, therefore, the society can provide college students with fewer and fewer high-paying positions, for college graduates, if you want to let yourself really get a high salary, you often need to have real talent and excellence, to be able to achieve. Not all college students will be able to get high after graduation, after all, most college students are relatively mediocre, and we can't demand most college students with the standard of a few. Secondly, even if it is a well-known college, college students with excellent quality and ability in all aspects may not necessarily find a high-paying job after graduation, because the current enterprise is also very realistic, in the recruitment process, it is often difficult to judge the actual work ability of a college graduate, so it will not provide a high salary for the college students recruited by themselves in the early stage, only when the college student creates real results in his own job, he will, Gradually increase the salary of this college graduate, so that this college student can enjoy the treatment of high salary, so for college students, it will take a while to prove themselves if they want to get a high salary.

Another reason is that for college students, it is not that getting a high-paying job is a sign of their success, in fact, it is more important to be able to find a job that they really like and can realize the value of their life. So we can't use the level of salary as a sign of success for college students.

The college student is a math classmate I know, who is 26 years old and is currently in his third year. If you think that he was forced to take a leave of absence and repeat a grade because of his bad grades, you are very wrong. In fact, his grades were very good, he got a scholarship and his grades were at the top.

At the same time, he studied very hard and seriously. You may be curious, then why is he so old that he does not start a family, but is still studying?

First of all, let me describe his state of study in school. Wake up at 6 a.m. every morning and start your day's study. He is meticulous in class, he is the class leader of their class, and he usually assists the teacher in his work, such as roll call; There is also a help counselor to inform the news.,Care about classmates.,It's completely a qualified big brother.。

Then, basically every day, he would go to the library or study room to study at eleven or twelve o'clock, and then go back to the dormitory to rest. To be honest, I admire him very much. At the beginning of this summer, because he was going to teach, he finished writing a high school textbook math handout in half a month, and I have to say that he really loves education.

So, let's talk about why he's still in college. In fact, it is also related to education. He got a degree in geography at Harbin Institute of Technology before, but because he loves education very much and wants to be a teacher to teach and educate people, he resolutely took the college entrance examination again and was admitted to our school to study mathematics teacher training.

That's why he's still in college. He really came to our school with a pure heart to explore the profession of teacher. He said that I am working so hard now to become a qualified teacher in the future, and I hope to bring as much knowledge as possible to the children.

It has to be said that learning is so attractive and worthy of people's dedication and dedication.

Life is not like this, everything depends on your own mentality and choices. Rather than passively accepting all of this, you need to develop your ability to think independently and do what you want to do. The colorful outside world may be just a gorgeous bubble, one day it will be shattered, the direction comes from dreams, calm down, and think about what you want to do in the future?

I'm now in my third year of college, and I've gone through three-quarters of my college journey, and looking back, I've had satisfaction and loss, and although I'm tired, I've had a fulfilling life. I was part of a student organization, and I found friends in that keystroke, and I gave it my all. I usually go to the library in my free time to look at my favorite books and record those beautiful words.

When you are tired of studying professionally, watch some inspirational and touching movies. I also understand that there are a lot of strong opponents around me, but we have to have the strength to not admit defeat, and we are also people, so why do we have to be inferior? We have our own direction, we have to work hard to repay our parents, cherish every morning, the important thing is not where you are at the moment, but the direction you are heading! Come on!