Why are college students so na ve compared to what they used to be?

Hey, I feel the same way.

For example, they make mistakes, and some teenagers go to jail, and they blame their families for not caring for them, and families are inherently responsible, but they are the ones who really give up their chances.

Just like my younger brother, addicted to online games, once in my house, the computer was very stuck, and he scolded him for killing the game task, I told him that the game is enjoyable, not self-inflicted, not only did he not listen, but he was also upset and irritable, how to play the real meaning of the game, I used to like online games, but what is the use of training the task level, spending the family's money in vain, putting a game character that can be seen or not, what the hell is it for?

More of them reflect the ignorance and selfishness of our next generation, I have always believed in the inherent goodness of human nature, but when I see them laughing at people with disabilities and insulting their junior classmates, I am really disheartened, they have lost even compassion. How can we save the hearts of these children? In the end, is the development of society good or bad?

The main thing is that I have seen through a lot of things and feel bored, so I feel very childish in retrospect! It's about the same as elementary school.

Blindly pursuing scores, locked in the cage of cramming education, and the common disease of pampering in the only child era, can mature people be cultivated?

Today's college students are mostly ordinary people, who are not smart by nature and do not like to read and think.

Because the current college students are all born in the 80s, and most of them are only children, they will experience very few things, so they will always seem immature in dealing with things.

It has nothing to do with college students, it has something to do with this society and the current educational philosophy. They are all only children, there are no difficulties and hardships to overcome, they are relatively accustomed to the idea of being born, they do not tolerate others, and they have no responsibilities.

When people are different, they can also change, and everything will change with time and environment, and everything will be fine.

Cowhide, are all college students like this in 2010?

Being young is childish, and most people come over like this.

I feel the same way, it's really weird.

If you think about it, I was still a cold teenager in high school, I didn't talk much, I wasn't very small, I looked like a little adult every day, and I liked to be sad and sad, but after college, it became a joke, and I always did something I thought was very childish. I think it's probably because the atmosphere at university is more relaxed than in high school, and the interaction is more extensive than in high school.

The most important thing is the culture of the university, for example, when I went to my friend's university, I could see that the glass of the display board of their university was filled with their own paintings, which I really felt similar to those in kindergarten, with bright colors and quite childish. However, the student union of other universities or ** just asks for this, so because the campus culture has to be naïve, which is the most common.

There are also different and more people we interact with, which is what makes us naïve. I used to interact with books and test papers the most, and I didn't communicate much with my classmates, and even if I did, most of the exchanges were about exchanging knowledge. But when I got to college, everyone was thinking about how to play, for example, the class would always have a dinner, and after the dinner, I would think of some games that were suitable for most people to play, and I could think of anything naïve.

I think I swore that I wouldn't play it when I was in high school, and I would hate it.

Based on these lively atmospheres, funny classmates, and diverse campus culture, we became naïve when we arrived at university, in fact, we became a lot more lively and cheerful than naïve. The mind is also a lot more active, isn't it? This is a good sign.

We will see that the people around us have become different from before, as if we feel a lot more naïve, we don't know why, shouldn't we be more mature and stable when we go to college, and besides, we have grown older and experienced more things.

In fact, this is a normal phenomenon, in high school we have only one purpose, that is, to be admitted to college, the head teacher said how beautiful college is, when the time comes, we can do whatever we want, parents said that when you are admitted to college, we will not care about you in the future, whatever you live, just take care of yourself.

We were also very obedient at that time, fighting for this purpose, working hard, and serious people in the eyes of others were really safe, because they would not think about doing other things, and people with dreams were of course different, so they would have the motivation to set off.

When we get to college, it's different, we can liberate our nature and release everything that originally belongs to our hearts, because there is no one to discipline us in college, we can do whatever we want to do at this time, and many of the performances that we think are particularly mature have been shown, but in the eyes of others, it is really naïve, as if we haven't grown up yet, and we haven't seen this before.

It's just that the beauty of college has made many people addicted, they think that their college life will always be maintained like this, and they don't need to think about what social work, because they have not yet reached the moment of graduation, and they still need to slowly lay a solid foundation, release their hearts in college, and return to the previous kind of life, which can be regarded as a kind of return to childhood, because we can never go back, we can only paralyze ourselves in this way.

So wait until a while has passed, and everything will change.

Our roommate didn't look like a child either, but he was a fool when he talked and laughed. One night, because they called a name, they actually laughed all night. I was really going to break down at that time, and my IQ was insulted.

And we have a roommate who giggles when things aren't funny. I don't think it's that I became naïve when I went to college, but that I became sleek and sophisticated.

No matter what others do, it's best for you to stick to your original intention and never forget it. After all, there are a lot of fools in this world, and if we always look at them, you may become a fool yourself. Besides, going to college should be a process of growing up slowly, and if they don't want to grow up, there is no way!

This has something to do with the environment we are in, the environment of high school is that everyone is studying hard, so we all suppress our original personality and spend a lot of time interacting with others studying, so we hide our original personality, and the university environment can show our personality, so we will become more naïve.

Our college life is very free, and we have become sometimes do what we want to do, such as a trip to go, this is the difference between college and high school, there are few daily classes in college, we have a lot of time to learn some specialties. When I was in high school, the teacher always controlled us to let us go to class well, review well and do well in the exam, the university teacher thinks that the exam is your own business, if you don't care about yourself, then it is useless for them to say more, because we are often managed by the teacher, so we don't have our own plan for one thing, so we feel that the university is very free, it is a misunderstanding of our university, the university is to train us to consciously learn, In college, not only to learn knowledge, but also to learn how to deal with people, In this way, we can better integrate into society.

I think that many people are much more naïve in college than in high school, often because we have a lot more time in college than in high school, and many people are not like before to bury their heads in study, many college students have a different learning method from high school, and our personality in college is more distinct, which is why many of us will be much more naïve in college than in high school.

Because in high school, many of us have not brought out our own nature, and when we go to college, we feel that the whole person is free, and we want to return to the childish feeling of childhood.

It's better to be mature in college, and most people don't like to associate with naïve people, thinking that they are deliberately pretending to be tender, disgusting, and hypocritical, and girls hate such people. So if you are mature in your heart and naïve on the outside, you are easy to be wronged. Don't deliberately act naïve or mature about anything, just have a degree in everything.

It's natural to interact with people, and it's most valuable to show your true self.

Ripe. It is composed of the following.

Good interpersonal relationships, thinking about others, thinking about yourself, having personal space, not interfering in others' personal space, thoughtful, good at listening to others' suggestions and opinions, and being able to tolerate others' ideas. Wait a minute.

If you can have the above qualities, then you are a mature person.

However, maturity is not as simple as talking, and the above quality does not mean that you can have it if you want to have it. These are all related to your personal experience and life perceptions.

Maturity takes a long way to have it.

From your own description, you don't have "matured" at all. What you call maturity is nothing more than what you think is the maturity of what you do. Mature elements need mature people to give.

In addition, no matter where you are, show what you really think in your heart, what you really do, so that you can be mature. These cover-ups of yours are all immature ideas and practices.

Listen to what you mean, you are an acting school.

Whether it's naïve or mature.

Play yourself best.

Since you're a boy, let's let yourself be truly mature.

Study hard, don't worry about that, just go with the flow.

Boys have to study hard to make money in the future, no one cares what you are like except your parents, brothers and sisters.

Children have been tempered by time, and I think you will become mature!

But the naïve boys in college just feel stupid too!

If college students are ignorant, then what is knowledge? College students just don't have the philistines in society, not naïve, and the deception and abduction in society are not what college students need, and the person who can raise this topic should be a person with a low level of education and a low level of contact circles.

It's not that we're naïve, it's just that I know that everything should have a thread that we shouldn't touch, and we want to keep the bottom line. I probably think that a gentleman has a good way to get money.

College students are ignorant and naïve, but how many college students there are, and then you check how many "social people" who have nothing to do but know that others are naïve, pretentious, and talented. And it doesn't matter if you're naïve or not, you go and compare your salary, and then talk when you come back.

In fact, it is relative, college students have not experienced the various rules of the game in society, so it is simple. For example, chicken soup can be a great encouragement to them. This is what other people see as naïve.

What does it mean to be ignorant and naïve, watch anime, have hope for the world, be willing to be simple to people, or chase stars? What does it mean not to be naïve, to belittle and ridicule others every day, to elevate yourself, and to play scheming with others to take advantage of others? Sorry, we may not live in the same world.

Some adults are in their forties and fifties, and they are more naïve than college students. Childishness is your own feelings, and you are not omniscient and omnipotent, and sometimes you are more naïve when you feel that others are ignorant and naïve.

What to say, Wang Ba is always in the pond, so he thinks that most of the fish in the world are loaches.

Because you've seen someone who's just out of school, hasn't learned to be tactful, and hasn't realized that not everyone will have good intentions toward you. In other words, failing to recognize the sinister nature of society.

In fact, it is because college students understand that college is the last happy day of their lives, so they have to sway their naivety and ignorance, and if they are not happy, they will be happy when they are old, and it is not interesting.

I think some people are so naïve that they feel a little out of place!

I think college students are too naïve to be grateful at all. I don't know how the book is read. The more knowledge, the smarter one becomes. Here, the more knowledge, the more indifferent people are. Sadly today's ignorant college students, how can this society be handed over to them? ‍‍

Childishness reflects a person's ignorance and ridiculousness. As a college student, you have to study, improve your ability, and strengthen your self-cultivation. Don't be taller than the sky, be ambitious.

Is it because college students have quality and are busy with study and work that they don't have time to scare you, so you can let go of college students? Since college students are so ignorant and naïve, don't let the children you give birth to in the future, just go to college or below, or you will become as ignorant and naïve as the college students in your eyes.

How to say, you have your ideas, I have my beliefs, we have different outlooks on life and worldview, and it is ridiculous to discuss whether we are naïve or not. The more you learn and the more you know, the more you understand what you really yearn for and what you want. The more I feel that many things are meaningless and boring, and there is no need to waste feelings on this.