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Realistically speaking, this is no longer a question of suitability or not; A man at this age can not have a brilliant career, but he can't have a heart of struggle, you say so Then he is indeed unreliable, and don't expect him to be successful in the future, in the career, if a man asks you a woman to urge, then he will not have any brilliant achievements. In the same way, loving someone requires capital, and love is not something that can be said out of thin air.

It seems that he doesn't want to do anything Express delivery such a hard work can last for a year It is also very persevering You need to talk about it well to see if the problem is** Is he tired There is no hope in life That's why he lost confidence in his work.

I don't think you're talking about your job, but women still have to have their own jobs, so that they don't have to be constrained by men at every turn, and they don't have an unequal status.

Then ask yourself if you have him in your heart? Ask yourself if you can only share prosperity with him, but not with him? He's very annoyed and messy himself!

At the age of 23, I worked for a year, and it seems that the education level should not be high. It's hard to find a job out there right now! More communication, more care!

There's no hurdle you can't overcome! Actually, I came from that period too! In fact, men don't have jobs, and they are also very annoyed!

Have you ever communicated with him? Did you support him? Ever cared about him?

Did you ever show a look of disgust at him? Did you ever murder him? Did you scold him?

In fact, these very small things often affect him!

Support the breakup, such a man is not self-motivated, has no sense of responsibility, and it is you who will regret marrying him in the future, and I dare say 100% regret that you didn't listen to your parents at that time.

Boys have to be pressured to drive him.

If you are so irresponsible, don't force yourself

I'd love to talk to you about your situation now as I was three years ago, and now that I've changed, she's changed. To believe that people will become, you think a lot like my former girlfriend now.

He is a man with no sense of responsibility.

If you really love him, unless he is the kind of person who is not motivated and does not work hard, otherwise you can continue with him, because you still have feelings, you don't want to give up each other easily, so no matter what, you are in love with each other, the practical reasons can be overcome, if you can't overcome it, as long as the heart is together, it is not impossible to share the joys and sorrows, so you continue to be together, after all, you can't let go, They all like to be with the person they really love.

Like you are, because of life. We will meet all the time. Such.

It's really hard to deal with, but you have to remember. This is a special relationship between you, don't be so entangled. It's a disservice to you and a bad one for him.

Keep pestering, you two. Will you find a better one, or will the two of you be. Others say disgusted.

If you feel that it is okay, then be together, if you feel that it is not possible, then there is no more such entanglement.

If this male girlfriend has a good relationship with you, and there is no other relationship, then you should honestly make it clear to the other party, saying that you have a good relationship with your male girlfriend, it is the kind of relationship between iron buddies, there is no other relationship, so that your other half does not have to worry, if your other half can accept it, then you will be happy together, if your other half can not accept it, then you can only make a choice, after all, fish and bear's paws are not available, and male girlfriends themselves are not a very normal thing.

Or if you're determined to fall in love, you should keep your distance from your boyfriend. I think a normal person can't have a girlfriend of the opposite sex, after all, a girlfriend is the kind of person who can understand your heart in my heart, whether it is a boy or a girl, he should not be allowed to have other girlfriends of the opposite sex, and it is very normal for your other half to care, it depends on who you care about, if you care about your male girlfriend, then you abandon your partner, if you care about your partner, then you stay away from your male girlfriend, if your male girlfriend is more aware of current affairs, Then he will also take the initiative to stay away from you.

I once listened to a class about male and female girlfriends in a college class, and one of the teachers expressed his own opinion, he thinks that male and female girlfriends are only people who have ghosts in their hearts, generally speaking, these girlfriends are her spare tire, a normal person will not develop a lot of male and female girlfriends, not to mention that the things exchanged between boys and girls are different, and the only thing that can be said is the spare tire.

So when you are in love, you must pay attention to each other's male or female girlfriends, if you find anything wrong with the two of them, then I advise you to break up as soon as possible, sooner or later it will be green.

Long pain is better than short pain Try to try two people and don't get entangled.

Now that you know that there is no future, being together now is just a waste of your feelings and your time.

If you can be together, you can get along well, and if you are not suitable to be together, you must decisively separate and no longer contact.

This shows that your relationship is still cut and messed up. It is recommended that you think carefully about whether you want to be together, and if you don't, don't have contact again.

If you have come to this point (you have a relationship between a man and a woman), it is better to continue to develop. (The future is hope, let's work hard to create the future together).

It shows that there are still feelings, consider compounding.

That's great! It shows that you both need each other, or maybe it is a return to your previous relationship.

This is normal, first of all, you didn't break up because of a broken relationship with each other.

Change jobs, don't mix with scumbags again, nothing good will come of it, unless the sun comes out of the west.

Psychoanalysis: Hello subject,

The subject broke up with her boyfriend who had been with her for more than a year, the reason was that she didn't know how to love when she was together, she was always overprotective of herself, she didn't dare to give her sincerity to her boyfriend, and she always avoided problems when she quarreled, resulting in more and more conflicts.

Now the subject wants to redeem it, but the jujube rough answer is that the other party is unwilling to pay attention to you, which makes the subject lose the motivation to live, and has no other mind to do other things.

I can feel that the subject really likes each other, but because I am too cautious, I don't know how to communicate after a quarrel, which leads to more and more conflicts, and I break up under impulse and lose each other.

Judging from the subject's description, the other party doesn't seem to want to start this relationship now, and he even feels a little disgusted with the subject often going to him, so what the subject needs to do now is to be himself and live his own life and enrich himself.

If you have the chance, you can try to be friends with the other person. Emotional bench is sold to attract each other, if the subject can still attract him, then the two people will be together, but if the other party does not have that kind of feeling for the subject, then the subject still needs to sort out his mood, continue to move forward, and meet his next relationship.

Good luck stool wisdom