My boyfriend who has only been dating for two months wants to get married, and we are eight years ol

Hello, I happen to have a friend who has experienced a situation similar to yours, but my friend is a man. He has a stable job, a decent income, and is 32 years old. His girlfriend is 9 years younger than him, and a week ago, I just finished drinking the wedding wine.

To give you a brief analysis, the last paragraph of your text has a sentence, "I like him very much". From this sentence, it can be seen that you don't really love to die and live, that is, you just like him very much, as for whether you have the determination to entrust yourself to him for the rest of your life and stay with him forever, you yourself are not sure.

Why do you hesitate, you must know that a woman is absolutely obligated to really fall in love with a man. If you really love him, you don't need to ask questions here.

We often ask each other why this is the case, why do we think so, what we would do, and these questions do not help. You have to ask yourself, how do I make myself happy? Do I really love him? Can I give up for love? Tolerance for love?

You are so young, you haven't graduated from college yet, are you willing to give him your youth? Is he willing to wait for you for two years? Many of the problems are clear, but they are just a mystery to the authorities.

Now let me tell you about my friend, my friend met his girlfriend when he went back to his alma mater to participate in the event when he was in college, he was a graduate student at the time, his girlfriend was only in his third year of junior high school, he fell in love with this girl, but he didn't say it, he always put that love in his heart, and then he kept in touch, my friend confessed to her when the girl was in college, but the girl didn't agree, my friend kept waiting, and then the girl also talked about a few friends, my friend has always been her bosom friend, has always supported her to help him. In the end, the two of them went together.

Love, bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things.

If you really love each other and love each other deeply, then considering his age, even though he is a sophomore, he can get married. You should understand each other. He may also be afraid that if you graduate and there is a change, it will be a little too late for him to find another girl.

But you have to be careful: if you don't have a very deep affection for him, or if you don't understand him very well, you should be cautious.

How to say it is also the happiness of your life, you can't be so hasty, you are still young, if he really likes you, he will respect your opinion and think from your point of view, but now it seems that he just uses you as a tool to get married, do you think he really loves you? Think about it, a man who has been married and broken up can find it again, a woman who has been married and broken up is worthless, in short, this is about the happiness of your life, and you must not make a hasty decision.

I don't think marriage is the goal, the purpose is to find the right person to live for a lifetime, of course, the premise is that two people must love each other for a long time, can you ask such a question to prove that you understand his purpose very well, right? Mutual understanding is a must, especially girls, you must think clearly and see accurately before you can get married, because once you get married, there is no right to regret it, my boyfriend and I are also 8 years apart, we have been together for 1 year, understanding is a necessary process, there is no shortcut to happiness, you have to be down-to-earth step by step.

Men marry and divorce. You can find a woman if you have the ability. Woman divorced in divorce. Ability may not be found.

Be cautious in what you do. Not to mention getting married. Think about it carefully, think calmly before deciding

You can get engaged first Who will know if you get married at school (as long as you don't say it) Since it is something you believe in, you have to be brave to do it, don't marry someone else when the time comes, you won't regret it too late I wish a lover a family member in the end!!

Take him to see his family, and you are going to his house to meet his parents, if that's okay, it means he's real, otherwise, be careful!

Also, the identity of a civil servant itself is worth scrutinizing, and you should be careful!

He even thinks that he can get married after meeting three or four times, and the longer the time, the easier it is to expose his shortcomings, and the longer he talks, the easier it is to break up, I don't quite understand what this means.

How not to understand? It's just that you haven't fully seen him yet.

But I think he's just looking for a wife, not really just for you, so for your own happiness, you have to think clearly, whether to find someone you love, or find someone who loves you.

If you like to be together, in fact, find someone who is a little older than yourself and will take care of people, my boyfriend is ten years older than me, and it's not too late to get married at thirty-one, and there are many things to do when you get married early.

No, you love her, but does he really love you? Knowing that you are still a student, I want you to get married, but the man who just thinks about himself is a little selfish and personally disapproves!

Flash marriage has a lot of drawbacks.,It's irresponsible for marriage.,Marriage is not in a hurry.,It's better to talk about it more.。。

As long as you really love each other, flash marriage and late marriage are not a problem.

I don't think he loves you very much, it's not a reason to be rich or not, first of all, he obviously doesn't believe in you very much, it's more like a transaction, you can make it again when the money is gone, it's nothing, falling in love costs money, if you feel stingy, then he must not pay much money for you, right? So the question is, what did he do with the money? Affluence is relative, he can have no money, but you must have money, you won't go to work if you don't have money, find a way?

All I can say is that you'll regret it.

Try your best to redeem it, leave if you can't do anything, no one is anyone's person, is it better for him to find another partner when he is so old?

If he didn't abandon you at the beginning, then this man is still a good person, but after so many years, he knows that you were good at the beginning, and then gives up and now goes back to the past, do you think it is necessary? The so-called good horses don't eat back grass, do you think it's right to abandon your current marriage to your current husband? Maybe your current husband can't give you the romance you had at the beginning, and you've thought about it, and you won't get tired of it after you are with him?

Think about your family, youth has long passed. I haven't seen him for fifteen years, and you are not the same person you used to be. With him your family is over!

You're so sorry for your husband, no matter what the reason is, you lost contact. Is your ex-boyfriend crazy like this? on me!

Then divorce and remarry, and fulfill your dream of happiness

It's better not to be together anymore, you won't be happy together, just taste it secretly!

You are irresponsible to your family by doing so.

Your boyfriend is more mature, so there is a lot of pressure, including wanting to get married quickly and should learn to understand him. But you also have to be honest with him and tell him that if he loves you, he can understand.

If you don't want to get married too early, and he is getting older and the pressure is increasing, if two people can't understand each other, don't delay each other, youth is gone!

If you really love him, marry him. Because you have to know that falling in love is for the sake of getting married, understand?

Ask yourself, don't get married for the sake of getting married.

How old are you, friend?

If you look at the wrong person, you'll miss it in your life.

Force yourself to do things you don't want to do, let alone marriage, you must be cautious!

What is unwilling.

He's been cheating on you.

And you're only two months old.

You should be emotionally glad that you don't find out until two years later.

So let him get out of the way and start your new life.

Let go decisively, married man, you can't wait for him, don't waste your feelings.

What to do? What do you want to do? If you don't understand it beforehand, think about it in hindsight and make a decision.

Can't understand what your problem is.

Divide and divide, why would you't know what to do.

Good shoes don't step on stinky. You're so lucky. Get rid of the entanglement of **.

Kick him away! And then let him die. It's not easy for a married man to cheat on you, because it's okay to make up a random one.

Decisively leave him, such a man is unreliable.

Otherwise, you will cry in the future.

It can only be said that neither he nor his wife are good things, don't worry, a woman leaves him because she is in debt and comes back because she is pregnant, her love for him is not necessarily sincere, and he still loves his wife, otherwise he will not lose you because of such a woman! So look away because he doesn't deserve your heartache for him, let his wife know that he once had your existence, which he owes you, give him some color, and then leave him without looking back and start a new life, because he is not worthy of your love!

Break up, such a man can lie to you for the first time or for the second time.

Say a word to him, turn around and leave.

What can two months say, two years have ended, not to mention that marriage must be discussed for a long time, he is mostly in the pre-marriage stage before playing friends with you, he is cheating on your feelings. No more hanging from a tree.

Ah, Odessa's Assad Ada.

Leave him.

Not worth it for him.

If you want to find it, you have to find someone who is responsible.

Now it's not counted, it's normal, my husband and I have known each other for seven days and got engaged for three months, and now it's almost seven years and we have two babies.

No, it's a flash marriage when you know your boyfriend for 1 month and get married.

No, the flash marriage time is about a month.

You can say it, you can say it doesn't count.

It's not a flash marriage anymore.

It depends on what you think.

When you meet a girl and feel good about her, the first thing you have to do is tell her that you like her! If you tell her that you like her, and then the girl wants to introduce you to someone, it proves one thing, this girl is not interested in you.

If a girl is a little bit interested in you, or thinks that you are a good person, she will continue to communicate and communicate with you.

If someone you like has been trying to introduce you to someone and deliberately distanced himself from you, he must want you to stay away from his life.

Don't try to please this person with a humble attitude, he is actually not worthy of your liking at all, all you have to do is to leave him, and then try to enrich yourself to find better people with a better and better attitude.

Every time you look forward to it, it will affect the freedom of consciousness, it is a kind of moral kidnapping to find the next person, you are not his ideal type, so stay away as soon as possible, only in this way will you live more and more wonderful life!

Stop loss in time! Focus your time and energy on the right person, and your boyfriend, who has just been dating for about two months, says he wants to marry you.

Since you have hesitated, it is definitely not wholehearted, then you tell him, you have known each other for too short a time, and you want to understand more, since he loves you and wants to marry you, wait a little longer, it should be possible, of course, there is a degree, ten or twenty years is not very realistic, one or two years to understand it is also needed, lightning marriage, is it difficult to find out that there is a lightning divorce when the time comes. That's too irresponsible.

Two months probably also have an understanding of each other, if you think that if you get married in the future, he will give you happiness, then get married, but I think it is better to get married to understand each other more, not because of how good he has been to me in the past two months, I just want to marry him, men are like this at the beginning, and when they get married, it will not be like this, everything will change, you think about it yourself.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, how much do you know him in such a short time, I think he should have his hidden side in his hurry to get married, and he is afraid that you will know it after a long time, so you have to be cautious, or have time to test a person.

He replied, "Ok! Money, houses, and possessions were all taken. Feelings still need to be cultivated, so if they want to marry you, material things must come first. ”

If he has the strength and still marries you, then marry.

If he has doubts, hehe, isn't that what you want?

Before I fully understood it, I felt that it was a bit hasty to live with another person for the rest of my life. Give each other some more time.

You can promise but not get married right away, you can get it later, it can only prove that this man values you very much.

I'm sorry, I don't know if we'll be able to go through it together for the rest of our lives, I don't want to regret it later, I think we know each other better.

Two months is still a period of love, and lovers are easy to fall in love and cannot make rational decisions about many things.

For the sake of the two of you, let's talk about it in the cold season.

It's better not to get married. It's so rushed, I don't understand anything. If the other party is really good in all aspects and loves each other very much, then it doesn't matter if you get married.

See if you want to get married!? If you do, it's up to you to decide!

So soon, he wants to start a family soon, see how much you love him.

Marriage is a lifelong affair that needs to be thought through.

Love! It's all like that! Think it through for yourself.

It's too anxious, no matter what you do, you have to be steady. You should be sensible.

Let's look at it again, some things are always seen clearly after a long time

Marriage is a lifelong thing.

Does he want to use marriage as an excuse to further develop with you?

1 Would you like to?

2 Are you ready?